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Tak jawab pun......

Yang mana satu? Maaflah, saya hanya boleh jawab bila free dari kerja. Tell me and i'll get to it :)

do you think a relationship between a girl and boy is appropriate even when they are like teenagers(I feel that mine wasn't puppy love since its like 6-8 months and i want to get advice)

I think a relationship between a boy and a girl is not appropriate especially since they are teenagers. Belum cukup matang lagi.
Not that I am against relationships - of course we can seek for it, but wait lah until dah besar and dah stable. Now you seek it pun bukannya boleh kahwin terus kan. Hehe...
If you really feel she's meant for you, then tell her you like her and improve yourself with hopes that in future, she really will be yours. Jodoh tu tak kan ke mana.
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WHAT IN THIS WORLD BREAKS YOUR HEART ?

Ahahaha... Hmmm I'd like to know why you are asking me this first boleh? =P And why caps! Relaxxx =P

Remember me when I talked to you about how bad I was and I was good then I become very bad anyway I feel like nothing changed I feel like everyday I fell deaper to being bad some days I feel my iman is good and stuff but then the next day it's not I'm really tired I need Allah :'(+

Hello there!
First and foremost, I am very proud and happy for you for typing this long question which you posted in three parts, because just by posting this, it means that you do have iman and you do have that desire to be a better person and be a good Muslim in His eyes, so don't see yourself as bad!
You must understand that we are humans, and that our iman is constantly swaying up and down. It is unlike that of a malaikat which is constant throughout. We are affected by our surroundings, people and many other factors. That's why it is always necessary for us to stay true to our five daily prayers and the extra sunnahs that come along with it (Things like reading the Quran, Zikir, solat sunnah) and all those because these will help strengthen our iman as Muslims.
It's like the analogy of taking a bath even when we don't want to. We can't deny that we hate the process of bathing but what happens out of it is we emerge cleaner individuals. The same case as prayers and all, sometimes we see it as difficult or menyusahkan, but just do it anyway because when you do it, it inevitably cleans your heart a little, and the next time you decide to do it, it gets easier :)
Allah is always there with you. It's His promise for us as long as we keep trying our best and never give up on Him, so always keep going no matter what test He may throw at you. He knows best.
I hope this helps. You take care!

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Cikgu whats the diff between negara and negeri? Hahaha

Negara is a country (Singapore, Malaysia etc.)
Negeri is a part of a country (Like for Malaysia, we have Negeri Johor, Pahang, KL etc.)
Hehe! Hope this helps :)

Are nose rings for females haram? Like those Indian/Arab types

The one I have heard is that piercing is not allowed at areas such as the nose, tongue and body as it is a form of body mutilation that goes against the principe of Islam as a religion.
However, you might wanna check with someone more knowledgeable as this issue was not present during the Prophet's time and hence, when it is prevalent today, there may be multiple opinions on this. The more knowledgeable would know best :)

Saya sedar bahawa anda adalah seorang guru Bahasa Melayu dan anda juga bergiat aktif dalam bidang keagamaan juga. Soalan saya adalah, adakah guru-guru Bahasa Melayu harus mempraktikan adat dan budaya Melayu seperti dilaksanakan pada zaman purba walaupun ianya bercanggah dengan tatasusila agama kita?

Soalan yang amat baik.
Tugas kami adalah untuk mengetengahkan adat dan budaya Melayu agar murid-murid faham dengan istilah adat dan tatasusila masyarakat Melayu pada zaman dahulu agar mereka dapat memahami bagaimana ia telah berubah.
Selalunya, pada peringkat sekolah rendah dan sekolah menengah, adat-adat yang diketengahkan adat istiadat yang diketengahkan juga berpegang teguh kepada konsep Islam (Seperti contoh, pengajaran nilai, bergotong royong dan sebagainya).
Namun, jika suatu adat dan budaya itu dianggap sebagai salah menurut kacamata Islam (seperti bomoh dan sebagainya) dan ia timbul dalam pengajaran, guru akan membuat kenyataan bahawa ini merupakan adat dahulu tetapi ia melanggar prinsip keislaman.

Assalamualaikum. May i ask.. How to get rid of depression?

Waalaikumussalam!
If you're suffering from clinical depression, it is a condition and it's best that you refer yourself to a counsellor or a therapist that could help you through because it is legit and real. That's the first step - acknowledging that you have it.
Following that, you have to ensure that you surround yourself with positive people who will encourage you through and help you through. They are the positive influencers, and are the people who will be there for you should you need them. Company is important because it will have an impact on the way you see things. Hence, for someone like you who may have the tendency to get depressed, these individuals will offer a more positive perspective to how you see things.
On your part, you would have to personally try your best to increase your esteem and tell yourself that no matter what happens, you are worth it. Don't see yourself as a burden, useless, or as anything negative. All of us are here in this world and have been born with positive qualities, so look for them and use them to your advantage.
Finally, seek His help in giving you strength to deal with your issue. At the end of the day, only He is able to determine how things would turn out for you as He knows best.
I hope this helps! :)

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Bro! Oud as in the musical instrument? Gosh! I've been wanting to buy an oud for myself! Thanks to the responder & your ask.fm too Bro! :D

Pleasure! :)

Riba' works like this. I buy an object A, for $10. As a muslim, we can sell the object a maximum of $20. However, due to costs along the way, like effort cost, fuel cost, shipment cost, you may increase the price(depends on all the increased cost). Cont...

Now however(this part all muslims tend to forget), if u buy the item using the other paty money, eg, my friend ask to buy for him an object, and he gives the money, any profit will be riba'. Following this logic, thats why ruling on preordered items are somewhat blurry.
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Ahhh this is very interesting! Thank you for sharing :))

We dont have a lucifer in islam. Lucifer is a fallen angel, and the text(Quran) states that iblis has and will always be a jinn. Now, in islam case, iblis(a single makhluk) is the name if the jinn that was once highly favoured by god, but fell from grace when he refuse to sujood to Adam A.S.

Thank you for sharing on this!
From small I've always been told that Lucifer ni macam Iblis, hehe, but Im not too sure too on whether its the case. This definitely helps (:
To the one who asked on Lucifer, your answer's here.
Thanks again ya!

There's a shop just outside of Masjid Sultan that sells bukhoor, oud and attar. It's called al Madinah if I'm not wrong. But at the outside of the shop, the signs shows Wahab Textiles, it's in there.

Thank you for sharing!
To the Anon who asked, here you go :)

Whenever i try to advise my friends to stop smoking by telling them the health effects, they would say "if god wants us to die, we'll die. We are all going to die anyway. " It makes me speechless. I dont know how to help them anymore..

"Then how about not doing anything just wishing you'll succeed and seeing if you do? If you have not put in the effort and discipline to stop something which you know is haram for you, then you shouldn't talk about fate" A bad decision should never be blamed upon God. We have to put in our own own effort to stay away from the bad too (:

Zufie, do you know where to get bukhoor/oudh here in singapore? And roughly the price range. Or any of your readers? Thanks!!

Hello there!
I once heard someone say Arab Street ada, but I am not sure myself. Any of you know, please feel free to post and I'll help reply okay? :) Thank you!

What is the best way to let go of a haram relationship? Where do you go from there once it is over?

By telling yourself that the relationship is not based on a love for God, who is supposed to be the case. If it's definitely not something approved by Him, then why go for it right?
Always tell yourself that at the end of the day, if a relationship is approved by Him and is fated to happen, it will still happen no matter when you guys go for it. So take this time not to care about relationships at a young age, and seek to improve yourself better as a person first.
Once you are done and you know you are one day physically, mentally, financially and religiously ready to start a family, then go for it :)
I hope this helps!

When you meet someone you fancy for the first time....How do you start a conversation?

Hmmm... I'll just initiate a very general conversation on likes and hobbies, then I'll try to find a common topic to discuss on. Haha =P

Was cupcake there since family wedding haha sorry kpo! Cant believe you two related heh

Yes she was :) Ahaha, wahh you sure do catch up on my family line! hahahaha.
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Was it a family's wedding? So awesome that you were an emcee.

Hello there! Haha yes it was, and I was asked to emcee for it - first time doing a malay wedding as an emcee. You saw from my IG? :)
Thank you by the way!

I asked you, If a guy confessed to me. What should I response? :/

If you arent ready, simply tell him now is not the time and that if fate really has it that you 2 are meant to be together, later on in life, you will (:

What do you call Lucifer in Islam? Is it Iblis? And what is iblis exactly?

If I am not wrong, Lucifer tu macam iblis in Islam. Syaitan pun ada darjat macam kita. And Iblis, the pangkat is like greater than syaitan gitu, thats what I was told.
But you could try checking with someone more learned (:

My dorm neighbour knows I like her. She shows no interest/disinterest. She's graduating at the end of the year. I shouted her a drink. She was a bit drunk. She asked me if I was worried the year was going to end and what it is like living next to her. She told me she loved hearing me sing. Meaning?

Quite honestly... I have no idea how to interpret that as there are different ways of interpreting it. Could be sge likes you. Or could be she does only love your voice. You decide.

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