Frankly, all that "not liking to hurt people" crap wouldn't work on me. If he genuinely didn't want to hurt you, he wouldn't have started a new relationship that he knew would eventually hurt the you he was already in one with. Tht bull-s**t humanitarian excuse fr leaving everyone twisting in the wind while he makes up his mind is really code fr " I'm going to ride this one out for awhile and see which one will benefit me personally better in the long run".
So, basically, it isn't that he doesn't want to not hurt other people -- he seems fine with you hurting because of his decisions -- but tht he has no balls n doesn't want to break off one of these relationships, deal with the tears, anger, n other uncomfortable consequences, live with his choices, n all the other hard stuff ppl do when they r in a relationship.
I've been where u are now, and I promise u, u can't go back to how things were before the trust was betrayed. Some ppl cn rebuild something new with the one who cheated on them, bt nvr will things be like they were before. Boys who try to convince a Girl that he is doing something that benefits himself bcz he is thinking only of some1 else's feelings is full of shit n must think im a complete moron. Girls buy into these stupid excuses bcz we want to believe the prsn we love would nt hurt us like this without a damn good reason, n we grasp at anything tht might fit the bill. Bt deep dwn, u knw the truth, painful an disappointing as it is, and eventually, u will hv to deal with it n the reality of who he turned out to really be.
There r lots of ppl who needs u.. who expect more thn ur lover. Try to make dem happy, try to make ur family feel proud of u instead of ur bf, try to impress ur teacher who’s appreciations will motivate u to grow more, try to impress urself so tht u should fell proud on urself Jb -ve Log Tumse Khud Dur Ja Rhe H To Its Bttr To Enjoy the moment. Atleast tht guy showing u a ryt path.
Cut fr cry and stitches,
not fr bastard n bitches.