I know it doesn't bother anyone anymore that everyone around them, even though they call themselves a Muslim, are characterless. Forget the men, even the women who reach the age of 21 cannot be considered a pure soul today. Can you confidently say about yourself that you never got into a Haram relationship, made crushes, tried to talk to a Na Mehram, started liking a Na Mehram, etc? I don't know a single person about whom I can have this claim, that they are pure souls.

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It's not about being perfect, sins are of different types. It's about.. staying pure as you're born a Muslim. You're not like those who converted to Islam later on in their lives, Allah brought you into this world through a Muslim family. You have a responsibility from birth to stay pure and Halal.

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It's also not about being perfect. It's about those people who are 14-15 years old today and are destined to be polluted/violated. I have cousins of that age. I see and know a lot of innocents. All of them will be used by men or women. Haram has become such a norm that.. none of them are protected anymore. Right now, 18 year old Muslim women are being played or used by men. They will lose their character, morals, and real value. Their dignity will be worn out.

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I have been worried about it from the start. I tried to save many people. But all of them hated me for it. Haram is attractive. I abandoned everyone eventually. My frustration is hitting again because I have to find myself someone who fulfills the standards of being a Muslim woman. I'm unable.

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If you want to destroy yourself and your Akhirah, you will pursue such affairs. Else, a real man or woman will always go for Halal Nikaah. It's been more than a decade now since I started using social media. The people here are ready to sacrifice their faith, life, time, etc. for timepass. Those above 20 have already got a record of ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends. If you ask them, then they won't accept it. They'll say, "I never met someone who could understand me. That's why I never got into a relationship." A big LOL, all drama. They have destroyed their character. They can never be loyal to one person now. They don't know how to behave in a Halal relationship. Their expectations are fictional. Such people easily end up getting divorced. Talking to the opposite gender all the time, befriending them, sharing streaks, etc. All fake. It leads to nothing good.

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Real gems are those who keep themselves protected against all such evil. Who keep their chastity and Haya intact. They are the best of the best. Those who commit Haram like that can never be trusted. I follow a lot of people online, but I trust none of them when it comes to this. They can not be trusted to be loyal. They will deceive and leave a permanent wound. Dozens of men and women came to me asking for help over the years. All of them suffered the same fate. They lowered their standards so much that they allowed anyone to use them and then discard them after they deemed fit.

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I'll say this openly, if you want to be with someone, then approach them in a formal way through their Wali. Send your proposal. That's it. They can choose to accept or reject it.

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