Do you speak more than one language?
Yes
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Name the person you concider your life partner?
I have someone in mind but I’m not quite sure about them yet considering we hardly ever spoke in the past and for me to consider spending the rest of my life with them, we must be able to communicate and be compatible friendship wise first.
When was the last time someone gave you flowers? 💐
My family and I received flowers from a guest that came over our house a few weeks ago but I personally never received flowers that were just for me 💐
How to spot a good man? 😁
I guess it’s how he reacts when you unintentionally do something that ends up disappointing him such as being too silent around him when he expects you to talk (for instance) and him then choosing to spread baseless rumors about you or talking badly behind your back, clearly taking advantage of how silent you are, indicating he has bad character and isn’t mature. If he’s always polite and doesn’t jump to conclusions and/or doesn’t have a tendency to make negative assumptions about you and then later make others go against you because of those assumptions, he’s a good guy. If you find yourself being confused about his intentions every so often while also being gaslighted, talked badly about when you’re not around him, being used, realizing how dishonest and/or disrespectful he is towards you and others as well, and if you notice him being inconsiderate of your thoughts/feelings every so often, he’s clearly not the good guy he may try to portray himself to be.
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When you go without your glasses, do you wear contacts?
No, at least not yet. I do wear glasses but I hardly ever wear them unless I’m working with my dad on my school assignments and have to look at the computer screen from a distance. I don’t think they look good on me at all.
Do you ever feel bad because you don't have a career? I don't work because I am disabled, but I wish I had a career. I know it's not my fault, it's not like I asked for this. But I feel like I could've done much more with my life if it weren't for my health issues. I am a very dedicated person.
I do actually but that’s not my number one priority at the moment. I want to get engaged and possibly spend the rest of my life with someone but it doesn’t look like that’s going to happen anytime soon and because of that, I don’t feel motivated to do anything these days since it’s all I ever seem to think about. Even tho I’m not physically disabled, I do suffer from depression, social anxiety, and OCD so it’s hard for me to focus on the bigger picture when I’ve got these problems that always seem to get in the way of me from living my life to its fullest. Being a dedicated person who has their priorities straight will get you somewhere in life, even if it doesn’t get you to the point where you work a 9 to 5 job on a regular basis. I wish I didn’t worry about the things I can’t control or force but here I am worried about the things that should come or occur naturally but I don’t have the patience to wait for “the one” to show up years later. I just want to live a life where I’m no longer always in my room and make my parents proud for once.
What holds people back from pursuing their goals/dreams? What would you tell them to combat this obstacle?
I think it’s usually the fear of failure or anxiety that holds one back from pursuing their goals/dreams. I know this because I’m usually afraid of taking action/the first step due to the fear of making a mistake and failing or because I’m a perfectionist who has an all or nothing kind of mindset. I would tell them to take the first step, even if the desired outcome doesn’t end up happening anytime soon and even if you do a poor job at what it is that you were attempting to do. Mistakes and/or not doing good enough should encourage/motivate a person to continue trying rather than giving up and missing out on good opportunities in the future as a result.
I feel like anyone who says they don’t like country music hasn’t found their country artist. Country music is comfort music!
I normally don’t like country music but I do like the majority of Morgan Wallen’s songs :)
Amusement Park or The Zoo?
Amusement park
Art Gallery or Bowling?
Bowling 😁
When was the last time you helped a homeless person?💞
I always feel for the homeless even tho I’ve been told to just walk by in many situations when I happen to come across them due to a general mistrust in others but I’ve seen my dad help the homeless like those who are in a wheelchair on the streets waiting to receive some money and/or those who simply ask for some money in order to have a meal that day. It breaks my heart to see how weak and defeated some people seem, as if not expecting anyone to help them but then someone like my dad shows up and makes their day better ☺️