If your girl is still bringing up old shit, maybe it’s time to sit down and talk to her about it. Yes, it may be annoying, but that clearly means it’s stuck in her head, and it’s been weighing heavy on heart. Just as bad as you want her to forget, she wants to forget it 10x more.
May phases po ba ang pagmomove-on? Una, okay lang parang di naman masakit. Pangalawa, maraming katanungan sa isipan mo. Pangatlo, meron ng kirot at ang bigat sa pakiramdam. Pang-apat naluluha ka sa mga bagay na nagpapaalala sa kanya. Panglima, emotional breakdown. Pagkatapos nito okay na ba?
Worst feeling? YUNG HINDI KA PAGOD PHYSICALLY BUT YOU’RE MENTALLY AND EMOTIONALLY TIRED. YUNG WALA KA NAMAN GINAGAWA BUT YOUR THINGKING TO DEEP TO THE POINT THAT IT CONSUMES ALL THE ENERGY YOU HAVE. WALA KANG GANA KUMILOS AT MAG SALITA. Feel me? 🥺
Gusto ko lang naman ng taong makakaintindi sa 'kin. Na masasandalan ko sa mga oras na ganito. Pagod na ako. Kahit kausap man lang, someone I can vent to. Ayaw ko na. Kahit sarili ko, hindi ko na rin maintindahan. Tama na ba?
Memories are the main reason why hold on to something. If you don't mind me asking, ilang years or months ba naging okay? It's okay if you refuse to answer 😊
Yes the healing process is the hardest part. You must convince your self na okay ka kahit hindi naman talaga. Pero as long as nandun ka sa thinking na kailangan mo mag heal, time will come na the circumstances in your life will follow. Yung hindi tayo mag fo-focus lang sa sakit. Dun tayo sa healing.
Ahh kaya siguro fresh pa yung sakit. Wala namang timeline kung kelan ka dapat magiging okay. Wag ka muna mag focus sa thinking na "kailangan ko magmahal ulit". Focus ka muna on yourself. Like you should value your self-worth more than anything else.
I did. I just can't help but reminisce all the good deeds he has done sa buhay ko