There’s this girl I like and I know she likes me but there’s a big problem. Her family is from a different culture and she told me they will ban her from the family unless she only dates guys from her culture. She says we should just keep it under wraps but still see each other. This worries me.
My guess is her family will not accept you no matter what. In fact, they may be upset even more if you try to talk with them. You are entering a cross-cultural world. Her parents have a certain belief system, and most likely nothing you are going to do or say is going to change their minds. It would be insulting to them because you would be questioning their values. This is an issue between the young lady and her parents. If you put yourself in the middle, you will wind up as the target
