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Pjjjj psst can I bother u for like a minute? please.
Ohh Hi Anon! sureee
ganto kasi yan, hindi kami pero parang kami. m.u. kumbaga. yung problema ay gusto niya lumayo sa akin para hindi maging madali/hindi siya masaktan kapag nagkahiwalay na kami kasi magkakalayo kami. ngayon, hindi na kami nagpapansinan, tingin mo ba tama yung ginawa kong lumayo para sa kalagayan niya?
para sakin, siguro oo, lumayo ka muna na may care pa rin.
—oo, masakit man, pero kailangan mong tiisin alang-alang sa kanya. Ginusto niyang lumayo, hindi dahil sa pagod na siya o ayaw na niya, kundi dahil siguro, napagtanto niyang kailangan niyo na munang magpahinga. Space sa mga bagay-bagay. Baka napagod ka, napagod din siya. Baka kailangan niyo ng huminga sa sari-sarili niyong mundo. Back to being friends kumbaga. Malay mo, baka pagdating pala sa dulo, maging kayo pero hindi muna sa ngayon. Be her "mahirap pero worth it" kinda guy, na hindi ka basta-basta nangiiwan.
BUT, if things fall apart at hindi na kaya maibalik sa dati. Just give her a hug and thank her for those unexpected adventures, for all of the traded puns at sa mga oras na minsan para ka ng tanga na ngumingiti out of nowhere pag naaalala mo siya. And siguro its time na din to abort the "forever" mission. so, This is where you go on separate ways.
PS: NANDITO LANG AKO, for you guys!! :))
—oo, masakit man, pero kailangan mong tiisin alang-alang sa kanya. Ginusto niyang lumayo, hindi dahil sa pagod na siya o ayaw na niya, kundi dahil siguro, napagtanto niyang kailangan niyo na munang magpahinga. Space sa mga bagay-bagay. Baka napagod ka, napagod din siya. Baka kailangan niyo ng huminga sa sari-sarili niyong mundo. Back to being friends kumbaga. Malay mo, baka pagdating pala sa dulo, maging kayo pero hindi muna sa ngayon. Be her "mahirap pero worth it" kinda guy, na hindi ka basta-basta nangiiwan.
BUT, if things fall apart at hindi na kaya maibalik sa dati. Just give her a hug and thank her for those unexpected adventures, for all of the traded puns at sa mga oras na minsan para ka ng tanga na ngumingiti out of nowhere pag naaalala mo siya. And siguro its time na din to abort the "forever" mission. so, This is where you go on separate ways.
PS: NANDITO LANG AKO, for you guys!! :))
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G anon! kwentoo
When is the best time to let go?
Let go when everything is not the same as it used to be. When he/she used to be your mundo, but now he/she's the cause of your pain instead. When he/she doesn't look at you the same way anymore, wala ng sparks and thrill. Lastly, When you don't get that butterflies in your stomach effect every time you see him/her anymore. :))
Bakit mahirap makalimot ng isang tao?
—Siguro kaya nahihirapan tayong makalimot sa isang tao kasi tumatak na satin yung memories na nagawa natin kasama sila and siguro din your still hoping na magkabalikan kayo or maybe your just too in love to let go. Lowkey saying that "Sadyang mahirap talaga bitawan ang taong nagpapasaya at kumukumpleto sa araw mo."
Puso ang unang susuko or magbibigay sayo ng hudyat para mag move on. Yeah, it’s very painful to forget someone and nobody said that it'd be easy to go through but that doesn't mean that it can't be done.
Lastly, Kung mahal mo pa, hayaan mo lang. Learn to love him na walang inaantay na kapalit. Kumbaga parang back to crush-crush lang. Actually, 'di yan mahirap, kung di mo papahirapan ang sarili mo :))
Puso ang unang susuko or magbibigay sayo ng hudyat para mag move on. Yeah, it’s very painful to forget someone and nobody said that it'd be easy to go through but that doesn't mean that it can't be done.
Lastly, Kung mahal mo pa, hayaan mo lang. Learn to love him na walang inaantay na kapalit. Kumbaga parang back to crush-crush lang. Actually, 'di yan mahirap, kung di mo papahirapan ang sarili mo :))
kapag ba sweet sya sayo gusto ka na din ba nya?
yes!! but wait, gusto mo ba siya?
bakit may mga taong takot mareject?
We’ve all been there and it’s never fun.
pero bakit nga ba? bakit may mga taong takot mareject?—For me, its because they've been rejected before and ayaw na nila siguro maranasan ulit yun kaya probably takot na sila magmahal, mag-effort ulit like they feel so unappreciated and unimportant sa taong gustong-gusto nila. but literally it doesn't mean that nobody will ever love you anymore. Its just we want others to like and appreciate us for who we are but all ended up into a rejection.
Frankly saying that—If you're rejected, ACCEPT. If you feel unloved, LET GO. If they choose someone over you, MOVE ON. Because in love being optimistic somehow is the best thing to do and in every, NO from someone is a YES to someone even better. :))
pero bakit nga ba? bakit may mga taong takot mareject?—For me, its because they've been rejected before and ayaw na nila siguro maranasan ulit yun kaya probably takot na sila magmahal, mag-effort ulit like they feel so unappreciated and unimportant sa taong gustong-gusto nila. but literally it doesn't mean that nobody will ever love you anymore. Its just we want others to like and appreciate us for who we are but all ended up into a rejection.
Frankly saying that—If you're rejected, ACCEPT. If you feel unloved, LET GO. If they choose someone over you, MOVE ON. Because in love being optimistic somehow is the best thing to do and in every, NO from someone is a YES to someone even better. :))
bakit kapag nagmahal laging nasasaktan?
—Part yan ng pagmamahal Patricia. Kapag nasaktan ka ibig sabihin nun nagmahal ka talaga. Lowkey saying that "nakakapagod din kapag paulit-ulit kang nasasaktan kasi paulit-ulit ka ding magpapatawad." nakakapagod din kaya maging tanga :))
Hi kuya! kapag ba umabot ng taon yung pagkagusto mo sa isang tao crush pa din ba tawag don?
Hello Patricia!! alam naman natin ang pagkakaroon ng crush ay isa sa mga pinakakakaibang feelings sa mundo. So, kapag ba umabot ng taon yung pagkagusto mo sa isang tao crush pa din ba tawag don? For me, its kinda no 'cause it took merely a year and having a crush siguro only last for 4 months—Quoting: "Psychologists say a crush only lasts for 4 months. But when feelings last longer, you are considered to be “In Love”. so, probably In love ka na Patricia!!
inlove agad? porket umabot ng one month love na agad? hb infatuation? sige nga battle w me
so what are you trying to prove? I'm just stating a fact—puso mo, kalma ka lang no time to battle
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pano daw po kung yung crush mo ay tumagal ng ilang buwan? crush pa din daw ba tawag don?
—Psychologists say a crush only lasts for 4 months. But when feelings last longer, you are considered to be “In Love”. sooo "In love" ka na. naks! :))
hi po kuya may nagpapatanong po na friend ko
hello anon! ? what is it?
Pj! Hi! out of nowhere I'll ask u this question so, How to keep a relationship strong??
Hello Anon! :))
after reading that answer napaisip rin ako bigla sa situation ko pero tangina nung "There's no such thing as "Love at first sight" but "Infatuation at first sight" HAHAHAHAHA saan mo nahagilap yan kingina ah aray!
sorry na anon! HAHAHA nahanap ko lang somewhere sa net HAHAHA :)) x
Pj ang ganda ng sagot mo dun sa love na part! gusto ko yun hihi ang galing
ikaw din maganda lol thankk youuuu :))
grabe pj nobela mga sagot mo haha di ko kinakaya puso ko help me
sorry na!! ewan ko nga din kung bakit g na g ako sa pagsagot HAHAHA
Owwww wait this feeling that I'm feeling is all Infatuation!! HOLY SHT I'M INFATUATED HE'S SO PERFECT KASI! ? HDJAOSJWODB wtf. ANG SAD KO NA TAKTE di ko na alam huhu
????? hala uy anon. kalmaaaa smile ka na!! there's no reason for you to be sad! ur just too infatuated
so Pj, How do you know if it's a crush, infatuation or love? help me please
Yehes naman!! This kind of question is so easy to ask but, difficult to answer but here it goes: to begin with—infatuation, crush and love feel exactly the same.
Okay so, a crush is a temporary infatuation towards another person. Simply, the type of person na "madaling titigan pero mahirap lapitan". Its like you can’t help but get a little rush whenever he/she’s around, your heart beats so fast when he/she suddenly look at you with her/his most stunning smile.
Infatuation naman gives you goosebumps. It puts that abot tengang smile on your face that you can't seem to shake. It totally fills your mind with wonderful daydreams. Infatuation is more about liking everything about a person, and seeing them as perfect. You do not see their flaws, tititigan mo nalang and act like they are so perfect. —Being infatuated with a person is usually part of a crush because you think about that person all the time.
Sorry Anon, but there’s no such thing as “love at first sight.” but there’s “infatuation at first sight”—which can be so lit and thrilling—and someday it may even lead to love.
so, Love, love is something different. As Love is being able to accept someone unconditionally despite knowing all their flaws and imperfections. Concluding that a crush or infatuation can be present when love also exists, but love is more genuine. Randomly saying that real love means the total acceptance of everything, letting go of all pretense, fantasy, expectations. That none of these matters except love.
so, How do I know if it's a crush, infatuation or love? For me, its all about feelings na lang siguro like kung ano na ba siya sayo based sa mga sinabi ko. :))
Okay so, a crush is a temporary infatuation towards another person. Simply, the type of person na "madaling titigan pero mahirap lapitan". Its like you can’t help but get a little rush whenever he/she’s around, your heart beats so fast when he/she suddenly look at you with her/his most stunning smile.
Infatuation naman gives you goosebumps. It puts that abot tengang smile on your face that you can't seem to shake. It totally fills your mind with wonderful daydreams. Infatuation is more about liking everything about a person, and seeing them as perfect. You do not see their flaws, tititigan mo nalang and act like they are so perfect. —Being infatuated with a person is usually part of a crush because you think about that person all the time.
Sorry Anon, but there’s no such thing as “love at first sight.” but there’s “infatuation at first sight”—which can be so lit and thrilling—and someday it may even lead to love.
so, Love, love is something different. As Love is being able to accept someone unconditionally despite knowing all their flaws and imperfections. Concluding that a crush or infatuation can be present when love also exists, but love is more genuine. Randomly saying that real love means the total acceptance of everything, letting go of all pretense, fantasy, expectations. That none of these matters except love.
so, How do I know if it's a crush, infatuation or love? For me, its all about feelings na lang siguro like kung ano na ba siya sayo based sa mga sinabi ko. :))
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Yay!! I've ask many people narin about this question kasi gulong gulo na talaga ako huhu I just wanna know what's you pov in this one.
Oooh okayy haha
Pj gising ka pa ba? can I bother u for like a minute plss
Yes gising pa 'ko!! of course anon.
How do you know that you're in love?
probably, when you keep dreaming about that special person
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