Love guru ka na pala ngayon sir. ?? nice one direk.
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hi. ang galing mo pong magbigay ng advice kaya magtatanong din ako. pano po kung yung taong gustong gusto mo may gusto ng iba? igigive up mo ba?
Hello Anon, Thank youuuu!! ― For me, it's somehow a yes! to give up that person who means the world to me. Yeah, it's very painful but, accepting the fact that he/she will never love you back is the only way. Always, always remember that ang paggive-up ay hindi nangangahulugang kaduwagan! Minsan talaga may mga bagay na kailangang I-give up, hindi dahil pagod kana o sawa kana, kundi dahil alam mong kahit anong gawin mo, hindi talaga siya para sayo!
―It's just “When you love someone. You got to learn to let them go.” Mahirap man pero kailangan mong kayanin. Highkey saying that when one door closes there is always the window. Learn to walk away from situations that makes you unhappy. There is always a NEXT TIME, you just gotta learn when is the right timing!
Hindi man happy ending ang love story niyo atleast naging happy ka kasama siya. cheers!! haha!
but, if love mo talaga, laban lang ng laban until something happens (malay mo). :))
―It's just “When you love someone. You got to learn to let them go.” Mahirap man pero kailangan mong kayanin. Highkey saying that when one door closes there is always the window. Learn to walk away from situations that makes you unhappy. There is always a NEXT TIME, you just gotta learn when is the right timing!
Hindi man happy ending ang love story niyo atleast naging happy ka kasama siya. cheers!! haha!
but, if love mo talaga, laban lang ng laban until something happens (malay mo). :))
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bakit kasi nafafall tayo sa mga bestfriend natin?
probably because they are the perfect example of "someone who understands and accepts us just the way we are."
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Ang on point naman ng advices mo kuya! ikaw na
ayt thank youuuu
And I truly believe that if he did feel the same, I would marry him in a heartbeat. And there I go again with the ''ifs''. Di 'ko na alam gagawin ko Pjj tangina helpp ???
Anon. grabe kaaaa!! ? Okay, so here it goes
—I know this is hard and very painful, feeling that unrequited love lalo na't sa bestfriend mo pa nangyari but, we just can't force someone to love us back just because we love them.
Wishing that love isn't this complicated, para wala ng nahihirapan. Alam mo yun, we just love the people we love and they'll love us back. No heartbreaks, no unrequited feelings. But that, too isn't possible.
At some point siguro, we all have to realize that the right person will come along for us.
so, while we are waiting for this unexpected moment, we have to work on ourselves (non-stop) to be the best person we can possibly be. That means, doing things to build back your self-confidence by completing some life activities.
If he just wants to be your friend, it may be too awkward for you to hangout with him right now.
You do need to make some new friends. Get involved with new people and new activities and try to build a life separate from him.Save yourself.
You could play a little harder to get and he may even start wondering why you are not panting over him as much as you used to. o diba!!
The more you move on, the more appealing you will become, 'di lang sakanya, but to everybody else. :))
—I know this is hard and very painful, feeling that unrequited love lalo na't sa bestfriend mo pa nangyari but, we just can't force someone to love us back just because we love them.
Wishing that love isn't this complicated, para wala ng nahihirapan. Alam mo yun, we just love the people we love and they'll love us back. No heartbreaks, no unrequited feelings. But that, too isn't possible.
At some point siguro, we all have to realize that the right person will come along for us.
so, while we are waiting for this unexpected moment, we have to work on ourselves (non-stop) to be the best person we can possibly be. That means, doing things to build back your self-confidence by completing some life activities.
If he just wants to be your friend, it may be too awkward for you to hangout with him right now.
You do need to make some new friends. Get involved with new people and new activities and try to build a life separate from him.Save yourself.
You could play a little harder to get and he may even start wondering why you are not panting over him as much as you used to. o diba!!
The more you move on, the more appealing you will become, 'di lang sakanya, but to everybody else. :))
I have actually cried about this almost a hundred times. The only advice I have gotten so far is to ''get over it'', and if I could, I would. But I just can't. I think that the reason I can't get over this is because I can't let go of the hopes that someday, he may change his mind. ++
"I can't let go of the hopes that someday, he may change his mind" grabeeeeeeeeeeeeee halaaaa anon. ???? continueee
so ito na, I'm inlove with my bestfriend. It took me about a year to work up the courage to tell him about my feelings but when I finally did,he told me that we had too good of a friendship, that he didn't want to ruin it, that I was like a sister to him and that he couldn't feel the same way ++
damn! "I was like a sister to him" ?? please continue anon.
I aint like that! haha bad mo! wait kuya, I've another question pa!
okay, hehez g lang!
Oonamanyes, I'm more of a "Man of few words" tho girl talaga ako
yehes naman anon!! "Man of few words" *same tayo jan* silent but deadly ka pala hehe
loyalty is an enemy to me haha!
but do you have friends naman siguro?
Hey kuya! so, what do you value most on a friendship?
their loyalty
Would you continue loving someone if you know you cannot, but you also feel like she needs it?
If I have given a chance to continue to love that someone even though I can't, my answer is yes, I will continue, kahit walang kasiguraduhan na she'll love me back. Everyone wants & needs to be loved. If you feel like she needs it, make her feel like one.
naniniwala kabang perfect BF/GF material yung taong tinuring mong "Bestfriend" ?
YES! SOBRA!
pero be careful kuya/ate baka maging awkward na kayo sa isa't-isa, If kapag nagtapat ka ng feelings mo kay bestfriend—sayang ang friendship, sayang ang memories, masasayang lahat. Think twice haha before confessing :))
pero be careful kuya/ate baka maging awkward na kayo sa isa't-isa, If kapag nagtapat ka ng feelings mo kay bestfriend—sayang ang friendship, sayang ang memories, masasayang lahat. Think twice haha before confessing :))
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What's the need for anon 1-3? Isa lang ako! Haha.
Ay weh? galingg lmao Sorry na! Hati hati kasi so kala ko madami :))
For me, dapat yung friend mo ilaan niya nalang yung feelings niya sa iba, or gamitin niya nalang yung nararamdaman niya to build a stronger relationship being best of friends. True that friendship is the best foundation of love, but if love is not worth it to replace friendship, save yourself.
"but if love is not worth it to replace friendship, save yourself." yes, yes accurate din haha Thank You! Have a great day Anon :))
Savor the moment of you two being together at best of times. Create memories. Take time. If things were meant to fall as what you want it to be after declaring your feelings for him/her, and so be it. But if fate forbids, then love your bestfriend to the extent of friendship love you two can enjoy.
pinaka on point na advice na nabasa ko today! haha anyway, Have a great day Anon! :))
Because maybe, what you're feeling for him/her is not what that person is feeling towards you. Don't ever try to risk your bestest friend just because you want that person in a romantic way. If you love her dearly, take your time to be happy with her by just being close to her as her best. Wait.
Thank You!! kung sino ka man, Have a great day! :))
Paano ako magmmove on, e kung sa umpisa di naman naging kami? sakit lang kasi makita ng harapharapan na ginagawa niya sa iba ang dapat ginagawa niya sa'yo, pero kasi bestfriend niya ako—bestfriend na palaging nandyan sa tuwing down siya kaso nagkafeelings nako sakanya di ko na alam gagawin :(
Hi Anon. sana makatulong 'to :))
In my POV, kung kayo talaga sa Future, time will make a way para magkatuluyan kayo pero ate don't sacrifice your friendship para sa walang assurance na love in return. masasayang lahat.
btw, madaming gustong tumulong sayo haha
Anon. 1 ― For me, dapat yung friend mo ilaan niya nalang yung feelings niya sa iba, or gamitin niya nalang yung nararamdaman niya to build a stronger relationship being best of friends. True that friendship is the best foundation of love, but if love is not worth it to replace friendship, save yourself.
Anon. 2 ― Savor the moment of you two being together at best of times. Create memories. Take time. If things were meant to fall as what you want it to be after declaring your feelings for him/her, and so be it. But if fate forbids, then love your best-friend to the extent of friendship love you two can enjoy.
Anon. 3 ― Because maybe, what you're feeling for him/her is not what that person is feeling towards you. Don't ever try to risk your best-est friend just because you want that person in a romantic way. If you love her dearly, take your time to be happy with her by just being close to her as her best. Wait.
Anon. 4 ― move on na lang siya...If kaya niyang isugal yung pinagsamahan nila then confess it. Pero if not, move on!!
In my POV, kung kayo talaga sa Future, time will make a way para magkatuluyan kayo pero ate don't sacrifice your friendship para sa walang assurance na love in return. masasayang lahat.
btw, madaming gustong tumulong sayo haha
Anon. 1 ― For me, dapat yung friend mo ilaan niya nalang yung feelings niya sa iba, or gamitin niya nalang yung nararamdaman niya to build a stronger relationship being best of friends. True that friendship is the best foundation of love, but if love is not worth it to replace friendship, save yourself.
Anon. 2 ― Savor the moment of you two being together at best of times. Create memories. Take time. If things were meant to fall as what you want it to be after declaring your feelings for him/her, and so be it. But if fate forbids, then love your best-friend to the extent of friendship love you two can enjoy.
Anon. 3 ― Because maybe, what you're feeling for him/her is not what that person is feeling towards you. Don't ever try to risk your best-est friend just because you want that person in a romantic way. If you love her dearly, take your time to be happy with her by just being close to her as her best. Wait.
Anon. 4 ― move on na lang siya...If kaya niyang isugal yung pinagsamahan nila then confess it. Pero if not, move on!!
Pjjj hindi mo ba masagot?
wait anon. nagiisip pa ko ng right words para sa tanong mo haha and I'm consulting some of my love guru friends para lalo kang matulungan :))
Kung ikaw nasa kalagayan ko sagutin mo 'to ha!
Sureeee I'll try my very best! :))
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