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I'm 25 and I'm still single. I'm a photo model and fashion designer and I've never had serious relationship, had hundreds of dates though .I really want to have a family, I could even give up my job for it.. My question: what does a man look for in a woman?? What does a good, attractive woman have?

Tomas Yono: Your job and activities in principle makes you focus on the exterior of the vessel, i. e. attractiveness. But a beautiful vessel is only a half of the picture at best. The vessel has to be used for its original purpose, i. e. holding content. There is an old saying that compares a person to a pot (vessel): after all, while cooking, we primarily focus on the inside cleanliness and beauty of our pots rather than outside. The same applies to people, and in this particular situation, to women. And the internal wellbeing manifests in several senses: the condition of our physical body and skin depends on the food we eat, meanwhile our entire life depends on the thoughts and feelings we produce (generate) inside ourselves. No matter how hard we try to cleanse our skin, if we bottle up stressful thoughts within ourselves and lead a monotonous life with little physical activity and unhealthy eating habits, our body will keep discharging toxic substances through the skin resulting in unpleasant odor and skin roughness as well as various diseases. What we look like on the outside depends on what we are like on the inside. Read the rest: http://wp.me/p4vHvs-2I

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hello, i guess something's wrong with me. i'm 27 and i had 5 girlfriends. they all left me sooner or later, because 'i didn't give them what they wanted', they said i was immature and selfish. but i really loved them, i don't know. now i'm afraid to start a new relationship..how not to fail again?

• Nowadays, most young people in the Western World lack knowledge how to treat the opposite sex, as a result, 50 % of people in the UK suffer from loneliness and the country faces high divorce rates.
• so your case is not in any way unique given this context. You simply need knowledge and experience.
• Read the rest: http://tomasyono2.wordpress.com/2014/06/11/im-27-and-i-had-5-girlfriends-they-said-i-was-immature/
hello i guess somethings wrong with me im 27 and i had 5 girlfriends they all

Me and my husband started talking about children recently. He dreams of having at least 3 or 4 but also expects me to earn money and have a full-time job. He says we both have to support family and work equally. I'm worried! I don't think I can be a mother of 4 and work...! what should I say to him?

Approach this situation by actions rather than words.
A woman can and should correct her man, but she should find indirect ways to do so. Any direct confrontation means that you will be tearing down your family with your own hands. After tying the knot (in particular in the Western World), in most cases women are put in the position where they have treat their men as little boys who lack knowledge and experience in family issues. But gradually the husband will learn family lessons and start listening to your female wisdom.
The rest answer is http://tomasyono2.wordpress.com/2014/06/11/158/

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