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Hello Tomas. Do you think a husband and a wife can keep the flame of passion alive for many years? I am talking about intimacy here. Can they still feel attracted to each other physically after 20 years of marriage?
I have this problem.. procrastination. I don't understand, I have the job I've always wanted, but I still waste so much time on simply not doing it. Then it is always so very stressful before the deadlines. And for some reason I cannot learn from it.. so I keep procrastinating again and again..
Do you wear socks in bed?
Can such family be successful: she is a poet, introvert, religious, spiritual, reads a lot of books and loves long deep conversations and walks at night. And he is a chemist, atheist, rational-minded, simple man who doesn't look for 'depth' in life and thinks that night is for sleeping only.
I got married a year ago. One thing worries me. My husband does not listen to me! It think he is not interested in my life, in what I think and how I feel. We basically only talk about him, about his job, his hobbies.. he seems happy when I ask, but he NEVER ask anything about me:( what should I do?
I have a boyfriend(6 years).He's talking about marriage for 3 years and not proposing,although knows I'm waiting!I started noticing few other men, who are really nice to me,romantic,they have good jobs..I'm afraid I'm falling out of love with my boyfriend after 6 years together..what should be done?
how to make a woman happy??? is there something every man should do? i'm trying my best but she doesn't seem fully satisfied and i'm afraid she'll leave me
I'm 25 and I'm still single. I'm a photo model and fashion designer and I've never had serious relationship, had hundreds of dates though .I really want to have a family, I could even give up my job for it.. My question: what does a man look for in a woman?? What does a good, attractive woman have?
Tomas Yono: Your job and activities in principle makes you focus on the exterior of the vessel, i. e. attractiveness. But a beautiful vessel is only a half of the picture at best. The vessel has to be used for its original purpose, i. e. holding content. There is an old saying that compares a person to a pot (vessel): after all, while cooking, we primarily focus on the inside cleanliness and beauty of our pots rather than outside. The same applies to people, and in this particular situation, to women. And the internal wellbeing manifests in several senses: the condition of our physical body and skin depends on the food we eat, meanwhile our entire life depends on the thoughts and feelings we produce (generate) inside ourselves. No matter how hard we try to cleanse our skin, if we bottle up stressful thoughts within ourselves and lead a monotonous life with little physical activity and unhealthy eating habits, our body will keep discharging toxic substances through the skin resulting in unpleasant odor and skin roughness as well as various diseases. What we look like on the outside depends on what we are like on the inside. Read the rest: http://wp.me/p4vHvs-2I
hello, i guess something's wrong with me. i'm 27 and i had 5 girlfriends. they all left me sooner or later, because 'i didn't give them what they wanted', they said i was immature and selfish. but i really loved them, i don't know. now i'm afraid to start a new relationship..how not to fail again?
• Nowadays, most young people in the Western World lack knowledge how to treat the opposite sex, as a result, 50 % of people in the UK suffer from loneliness and the country faces high divorce rates.
• so your case is not in any way unique given this context. You simply need knowledge and experience.
• Read the rest: http://tomasyono2.wordpress.com/2014/06/11/im-27-and-i-had-5-girlfriends-they-said-i-was-immature/
• so your case is not in any way unique given this context. You simply need knowledge and experience.
• Read the rest: http://tomasyono2.wordpress.com/2014/06/11/im-27-and-i-had-5-girlfriends-they-said-i-was-immature/
Me and my husband started talking about children recently. He dreams of having at least 3 or 4 but also expects me to earn money and have a full-time job. He says we both have to support family and work equally. I'm worried! I don't think I can be a mother of 4 and work...! what should I say to him?
Approach this situation by actions rather than words.
A woman can and should correct her man, but she should find indirect ways to do so. Any direct confrontation means that you will be tearing down your family with your own hands. After tying the knot (in particular in the Western World), in most cases women are put in the position where they have treat their men as little boys who lack knowledge and experience in family issues. But gradually the husband will learn family lessons and start listening to your female wisdom.
The rest answer is http://tomasyono2.wordpress.com/2014/06/11/158/
A woman can and should correct her man, but she should find indirect ways to do so. Any direct confrontation means that you will be tearing down your family with your own hands. After tying the knot (in particular in the Western World), in most cases women are put in the position where they have treat their men as little boys who lack knowledge and experience in family issues. But gradually the husband will learn family lessons and start listening to your female wisdom.
The rest answer is http://tomasyono2.wordpress.com/2014/06/11/158/