Me and my husband started talking about children recently. He dreams of having at least 3 or 4 but also expects me to earn money and have a full-time job. He says we both have to support family and work equally. I'm worried! I don't think I can be a mother of 4 and work...! what should I say to him?
Approach this situation by actions rather than words.
A woman can and should correct her man, but she should find indirect ways to do so. Any direct confrontation means that you will be tearing down your family with your own hands. After tying the knot (in particular in the Western World), in most cases women are put in the position where they have treat their men as little boys who lack knowledge and experience in family issues. But gradually the husband will learn family lessons and start listening to your female wisdom.
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A woman can and should correct her man, but she should find indirect ways to do so. Any direct confrontation means that you will be tearing down your family with your own hands. After tying the knot (in particular in the Western World), in most cases women are put in the position where they have treat their men as little boys who lack knowledge and experience in family issues. But gradually the husband will learn family lessons and start listening to your female wisdom.
The rest answer is http://tomasyono2.wordpress.com/2014/06/11/158/