People should start accepting their bad deeds to make their lives better and that of their loved ones if you don't want to lose them. So, start accepting your bad deeds and stop blaming everyone else for them. Putting all the bad things on their shoulders, making others feel uncomfortable, miserable, quite unhealthy, will not make you feel better. If doing this makes you feel better, the individuals you are doing this to will eventually stop caring about you, which is bad for you because you need people to serve as your slaves. Or, even if your departure is in your best interests, it's still okay for others to do so so they can live their own happy and healthy lives free of poisonous individuals like you.