Hi, just wanna know other's thoughts on this one. You'll have a celebration with fam, you invited your best friend. Then, your best friend wants to tag along some of her friends that you don't even know. Will it be fine with you? Given that you are an introvert person.
Nope, it won't be fine for me for many reasons: first, it's not their family celebration. I only invited that person. They won't have a right to invite anybody else on that. Second, I invite that person because I want to bond with them. So, how would I do that if they will bring someone I barely know? Third, my kindness is not extended to anyone else near them but to them alone.
Story time! I have this friend whom I considered one of my bestfriends. When she talked about being sad because she cannot continue subscribing to Netflix and being saddened because she cannot watch her favorite series I offer my account. So I gave her my logins. On Netflix, each time your logins are being logged on a different device, it will send an email notification to the owner. I actually don't mind since I'm aware that it's a family account. My sister used to log it out and does not save the logins on her PC. But the next time I met with that friend I'm talking about, she blatantly shared that she shared my logins with her few folks. I was disappointed. That very moment, I changed my password. When she asked me about it, I told her that my kindness is only for her, and it is not extended to her other family or friends. Sure, I can be nice to them but not to the point that I will also give them access to my subscriptions or just give "bestfriend perks" because they are close to mine. No, I'm not that person. I refused to be abused.
Story time! I have this friend whom I considered one of my bestfriends. When she talked about being sad because she cannot continue subscribing to Netflix and being saddened because she cannot watch her favorite series I offer my account. So I gave her my logins. On Netflix, each time your logins are being logged on a different device, it will send an email notification to the owner. I actually don't mind since I'm aware that it's a family account. My sister used to log it out and does not save the logins on her PC. But the next time I met with that friend I'm talking about, she blatantly shared that she shared my logins with her few folks. I was disappointed. That very moment, I changed my password. When she asked me about it, I told her that my kindness is only for her, and it is not extended to her other family or friends. Sure, I can be nice to them but not to the point that I will also give them access to my subscriptions or just give "bestfriend perks" because they are close to mine. No, I'm not that person. I refused to be abused.
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