What's your relationship status?
My idea of having a relationship is quite conservative and weird that's why these things are quite impossible for a person like me. I personally believe that, if you're in a relationship then at least you should maintain each other's privacy. Don't get over possessive and don't get too clingy because every person needs space and having an access to each other's profile is the shallowest thing in my opinion, like you don't even trust that person then why are you in a relationship? I'm not against these things but if these things make you lose your right path then this is not done.
Second thing which I don't like is disclosing your relationship publicly like yea you should disclose if you're engaged or something else. Tbh, it creates so many hurdles for girls because we are in a society where a male can have 100s of relationships still he gets 'ache rishtey' but if someone knows, that a girl was in a relationship then tadaaa, there are so many difficulties. y'all know that relationship these days don't lasts longer (make thousands of promises or whatever you can but you'll end up fighting and then breaking up in 85% of the cases)
Last thing is your self respect and your dignity. This looks good for a temporary period of time and in that phase, if you control your hormones then you'll achieve whatever you want. All that glitter is not gold, what you like today is what you'll hate tomorrow because it's mere infatuation. At least, for once think of your parents when you send your nudes to someone else. Do you think that the guy who asks for your nudes will marry you? Or he really likes a girl who does these things? No. And boys, don't forget what you do today will happen to you tomorrow and as a muslims we all know Allah said that corrupt women are for corrupt men and corrupt men for corrupt women as good women for good men and good men for good women.
You are at the stage of life where these things attract you but don't forget your destination and goals. You'll eventually get what you want. Bara bhai uncle jo bhi samjh lo but this is what I want you all to know and learn
Second thing which I don't like is disclosing your relationship publicly like yea you should disclose if you're engaged or something else. Tbh, it creates so many hurdles for girls because we are in a society where a male can have 100s of relationships still he gets 'ache rishtey' but if someone knows, that a girl was in a relationship then tadaaa, there are so many difficulties. y'all know that relationship these days don't lasts longer (make thousands of promises or whatever you can but you'll end up fighting and then breaking up in 85% of the cases)
Last thing is your self respect and your dignity. This looks good for a temporary period of time and in that phase, if you control your hormones then you'll achieve whatever you want. All that glitter is not gold, what you like today is what you'll hate tomorrow because it's mere infatuation. At least, for once think of your parents when you send your nudes to someone else. Do you think that the guy who asks for your nudes will marry you? Or he really likes a girl who does these things? No. And boys, don't forget what you do today will happen to you tomorrow and as a muslims we all know Allah said that corrupt women are for corrupt men and corrupt men for corrupt women as good women for good men and good men for good women.
You are at the stage of life where these things attract you but don't forget your destination and goals. You'll eventually get what you want. Bara bhai uncle jo bhi samjh lo but this is what I want you all to know and learn
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