I think it depends on each person, but for me, it's the realization that if this becomes permanent, I will be 100% okay with that. If it doesn't become permanent, then I will be hurt but I will let go because I want this person to be happy, which they can't be if I just harass them and make them sad for my own selfish reasons.
For me, it's loving this person for who he is rather than what I want him to be. I am okay with his faults and mistakes, and I have made it my mission to support him and help him when he needs it.
For me, it's understanding that his faults may never change for what I feel may be the better, and being okay with that. I don't want to change him.
For me, it's a very personal, safe, warm feeling I get when I am around him that I share with no one else. We share a special type of connection. I feel 110% complete when he is near me, even when I felt 100% complete before him.
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