Are there any brands or companies that you boycott? Why do you refuse to do business with them?
I refuse to promote or purchase any produces from F*CK HATE. It's a "campaign" promoting equal rights and such. They have a line of clothing and accessories. They have great slogans and such and promote a great message, but they don't contribute to the LGBTQIA+ community what so ever. They keep all the funds for their employees. It's not the worst thing in the world, but there's so many foundations they can give to or create. They're just a brand, not a charity. I don't care for that. They can do more. Also refuse to purchase anything from Hobby Lobby or ChikFilA for obvious reasons. ALSO, I refuse to support UFC. One of their fighters beat the hell out of his girlfriend (Christy Mac). Instead of firing him, I believe they only suspended him and did nothing for Christy. What they should have done is fire that son of a bitch and promoted a campaign about domestic violence and how their fighters are allowed to fight in the ring all they want, but they do not lay their hands on anybody outside of the ring. They should have demonstrated zero tolerance for that shit. Makes me angry.
Is there anything you care less about as you have grown up? What is it?
My stances on drinking, I suppose. I used to be straight edge and swore to never drink. I claimed such because I come from a long line of alcoholics and never wanted to take the chance. But I finally did. And I'm fine. I have total control and it has never been such an issue. Of course, I was hammered for two months straight after my 21st birthday but hey! Tradition! Haha. But I'm good. I don't drink often and when I do I have a drink or two.
What's your favourite cheesy pick-up line? Have you ever actually used it on someone?
I've used every one of these on my girlfriend.
Hello lovely, have you been okies?
I have been wonderful!
Name something you've always wanted to do. No matter how depraved, weird, fantastical or imaginative it is.
If you could live anywhere outside of the U.S., where would you want to live?
Toughest question ever because I would need to research all of their policies on things I love/hate about America. Somewhere where teachers are treated like royalty, preferably.
What is the silliest, funniest, or most memorable thing that your dog has done lately?
A zoo in my area has an annual "feed and pet the llamas" fundraiser. I was surprised by how much the llamas liked the attention because I've always assumed they were grouchier than that. What assumptions have you made recently that turned out to be wrong?
I once assumed that this beautiful creature would never be mine.
What's been the most ridiculously ironic crush you've ever had? For example, I totally had a crush on an ultra-conservative Christian despite being a left-wing feminist. He did have a fantastic arse, though.
Share something you're grateful for today.
If you could talk with only one person for the rest of your life, who would it be?
My apartment with my girlfriend and my dog waiting for me on the couch.
Post a picture of your current lock screen.
Any plans to visit the United Kingdom (and by that, I mean me)?
well duh 💁
"I don't mind you under my skin/
I'll the bad parts in, the bad parts in..."
Brand New is my JAM. I got to see them live last year and I went full tilt bonkers when they played Degausser.
Seen any good shows lately?
Dude legit. I cried, admittedly. Next tattoo is the definition of degausser. Actually, I saw Brand New in April! So that was great!
What lyric means the most to you? IS there any connected story as to why?
Every line to this song. It literally gives me chills to the bone for a myriad of reasons.
How tall are you? It's inconsequential, but interesting to know.
5'8"
What was your first thought when you woke up this morning?
"Wow. I fucking love my girlfriend."
What bit in a film always makes you cry? Bambi's mum? Atreyu's horse? "Some people are worth melting for"? OR is it the beginning of Up!?
Okay Atreyu's horse literally makes me sob on the floor for hours. That takes the cake.
Post your most liked pic on Instagram or Facebook!
What was the best thing you ever found on the street?
What 3 things do you think someone needs to know about you when they first meet you?
When did you last shit yourself? How embarrassing was it?
I was six. We were talking about the last time we pooped ourselves with one of our teacher's. I was like "yeah this one time I pooped myself at school... and that day is today. *awkward laugh*"
Last song you got stuck in your head?
My kindergartners graduation song. ugh.
I'm never having children of my own! I'm always open to my pupils' feelings, so don't worry about that. How did you come out in the end?
Whose voice makes you melt? NB The correct answer is Jennifer Tilley or Richard Burton.
Definitely Jennifer Tilly, in all reality.
Have you ever struggled with a part of your sexuality? Either something you've struggled coming to terms with about you, or something you've struggled with socially. However you want to ask this question that makes you the most comfortable to answer it.
Oh yeah. Coming out was the biggest emotional event in my life. I had been put down so so much for trying to come out before. Not to mention the added hetero pressure that society pushes on children from the day they're born. I tried coming out when I was seven and that was delayed by my elders. Then again in middle school and that was shoved back down my throat by, again my elders, and my peers at school. So when I finally came out, it was literally the biggest weight off of my shoulders and I felt whole. Never let anybody tell you who you are. It's very hard to fight back against everyone who is telling you one thing when you feel another. Side note: If your kid comes to you and is obviously feeling something for someone of the same sex, let them expand on their feelings. Never fucking ever tell them how to be or what they're doing is not how you should feel. thanks! :)
How would you deal with a sexual partner who has performance anxiety?
This is actually a common problem I've dealt with. I've had partners be very intimidated by me especially in bed. They've said it was my confidence and their lack of such. I'm pretty good at letting them do what comes naturally, then I suppose I work my confidence magic and BOOM performance anxiety gone!