As someone for whom Utena is one of my favorite shows largely due to how it handles gender/sexuality, I couldn't get into it for the first 13 episodes or so. It felt like a typical '90s shojo. So I'd recommend they hang on to at least the Black Rose Arc? That's when I saw how special it was.
Here's a second opinion on Utena, for the person who was asking yesterday!
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