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what would you do if a bestfriend and u were back friends again but it get complictaed because she decidd to hang out with me and the the other person which i dont agree with and we are not friends sooo what am i emant to do cuz i have no more strengh too thinka and solve this i mam tired of this ..

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Tell them how you feel beautiful ~ Soph xxx

How do i talk to girls?

Like you would talk to everyone else. Were all the same and don't like being treated differently ~ Soph xxx

What should you do with an unfaithful boy? Don't want to leave him and break his heart but he's staying and breaking my heart and I don't need him

Tell him how you feel sweetie ~ Soph xxx
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well i find it funny too LOOOOL

well its not funny! think about how you would feel if you were the one who had self harmed and attempted suicide and was being hated on! think about it! it wouldnt be funny then! ~ Soph

yes they should ffs

no they shouldnt! people harm themselves and attempt suicide because they are going through a hard time and your making it worst! your making someone try to end there life! your making someone want to die! making them try to kill them self and sometimes kill themselves! you think its funny! would it be funny if it happened to you and you were the one being hated on? NO! your saying that someone should be horrible to people because they self harm and because they attempt suicide! ive done that too! you would be surprised at how many people around you have! its a serious thing and people should not find it funny! ~ Soph

its funny, get over it

no its not funny! whats funny is that your to scared to admit who you are and come off anon! stop hating on people! the least you could do is come off anon so people know who you are! just because of what people do does not mean people should hate on them! ~ Soph

actually its funny to give people like that hate.

no it isnt! people end there lifes over hate on here! if you found out that someone ended there life over some hate that you gave someone on ask had ended there life how would you feel? how would you like it if someone was giving you hate? wouldnt be funny then would it? i mean your even to scared to come off anon! ~ Soph

http://ask.fm/bethgriffiths give this ugly freak of nature hate please, she cuts and tries to commit suicide and stuff she's like so ugly and it was probabley her sending you that long story:L SHE'S SOOOO FAT CLICK ON HER FB YOU WILL SEE THE FATTY

NO! i will never give anyone hate as long as i live! people like you should be kicked off ask as it would make it such a nicer place! people like you that give people hate on anon are the reasons that people end there lifes! leave her alone! she is beautiful! i cut and i try to commit suicide and do other stuff! you gunna tell people to hate on me? you gunna tell be the crap that you give her? no because your to scared to! if your going to hate at least come of anon first! you hate because you have no live! you get your pleasure by making other people feel sh*t! by making other people feel like there worthless! well there not! she is beautiful! no i suggest you leave her alone! if you have something to say, write it on my personal! hate on me instead of people that dont deserve it! go on! yeah i didnt think so! now shut up and get a life! ~ Soph

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im sick of being fat so can you please tell me things i can eat to stop me from getting bigger and to loose weight because i even have to wear leggings and a jumper juring the summer because of how i feel of my body:( i hate life, and yes i have tried hanging myself and drowning myself too help?

ignore what people say to you sweety there really not worth the tears or time you spend thinking about it. there opinion does not matter! you are beautiful! you are gorgeous! you are amazing! you are anything that you want to be! you dont need to change yourself because of what people think of you because you are perfect and beautiful in every single way! tell your friends how you feel so they can help you and cheer you up! tell a teacher or your parents about what people say to you so it can be stopped. Please do not harm yourself because it doesnt solve anything, it doesnt make anything better, it doesnt stop whats going on, it makes things worst. please try ways to stop cutting and i know it can be hard to stop but i know you can stop, i believe in you that you can! please try these to stop: http://ask.fm/ICanHelpUx/answer/40788758671 . if you want to loose weight then eat a balanced diet and only treat yourself every two weeks maybe or once a month. exercise regularly too. tell a parent that you want to loose weight so they can help you. be proud of who you are! dont hide anything, you are who you are and people love you for you so dont be afraid to show it! be different from other people, stand out from the crowd! be yourself! please do not try to end your life! you were given this live because you are strong enough to live it! no matter what life throws at you, you can beat it! you are strong enough to live your life! it will get better! when you leave school, life will get better! you are here for a reason! you can get through this beautiful and i will be here all the way to help you! im always here for you! dont ever feel like your alone because your not! im here! remember that you are beautiful in every single way! ~ Soph xxx

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just immature, i hate life, recently ive started cutting and its really effected my life its somewhere people cant easily see so people wont know besides close friends,basically im fed up of life, ive had the police involved with me because i threatened to kill myself a few times, im sick of live -

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suffer with O.D.D.(search it up) and its hard for me to keep my emotions in , if im angry i rage if im sad i will burst into tears basically, and everyday there's never a lesson someone doesn’t shout out a horrible nickname i have based on someone from family guy, or get called fat, stupid, ugly or-

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-beaten up and then it started where i got physical,so my parents moved me as they said if i was involved in any other fight then they would kick me out basically,so i moved, made friends i had known since primary school but hadnt spoken since year 6,there my everythingthey help me so much but i -

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- i had friends and everything and then they dropped me because they were the populours, basically im a 13 year old nearly 14 this month and weigh like 13 stone:'( and im ugly, i moved back to the first school i was in when i was in yr 7 during year 8, i moved back because i was getting serverley-

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the one i liked the most from that list was the punching bag one! I think I'm gonna ask my mum for a punching bag! haha thank you xxx

aww :') anything to stop you from harming yourself beautiful, its ok ~ Soph xxx

so bascially ive gone through a tough time these past 2-3 years this may be another parts because of limited words btw,i was at one school then after about 3 months of year 7 i had enough of being picked on lightly by one boy and then i moved to another school and it was fine for the first 2 months-

ill answer the last one beautiful ~ Soph xxx

what other alternatives would you suggest? okay i'll try to find some sweat bands :D xxx

heres a few, try them out and see which ones work best for you
Butterfly challenge
Twanging elastic bands on your wrist
Drawing on yourself in red marker
Scribbling on sheets of paper
Writing how you feel down
Cuddling with a stuffed toy
Being with other people
Watching a favorite TV show (preferably a comedy)
Thinking about how I DON’T want scars for the summer
Painting your nails
Going to see a movie
Eating something ridiculously sweet or a favorite food
Doing school work
Surf the net
Go into chat rooms to talk
Call a friend and ask for company
Playing a musical instrument
Singing
Looking up at the sky
Redo this list.
Punching a punching bag (with gloves on)
Shoot rubberbands across the room.
Cover yourself with band-aids where you want to cut
Mix warm water and red food coloring, and put in on your skin
Letting yourself cry
Sleep
A hot shower, or relaxing bath
Play with a pet
Detangling yarn or necklaces
Re-organizing your room
Cleaning
Having a pillowfight with the wall
Knitting or sewing
Reading a good book
Dressing up very glamorous
Listening to music
Watching a candle burn (dont play with the flames!)
Finding someone else you can help out
Meditate
Watching a scary movie.
Have a fantasy love affair with a celebrity or someone you fancy
Go somewhere public
Bake
Alphabetize your CD’s
Painting or drawing
Ripping paper into tiny pieces
Hugs
Talk to yourself (if that feels weird, buy a tape recorder- so it feels like someone is listening to you)
Hug a pillow
fingerprint
Scream real loud
Dance
pop bubble wrap
~ Soph xxx

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please answer my blow job question its important my boyfriend is waiting to meet me later, so i need your answer

ive just answered it beautiful ~ Soph xxx

basically, I've been self harming really badly but there are several clubs I go to (sports etc) that i have to have my arms showing for. I an't wait for them to heal because they're gonna take forever and wearing a long sleeve top is out of the question :( i just don't know what to do xxx

try covering them up with things such as, make-up, bracelets, sweat bands anything that you can find really. please dont harm though as it really does not help and its not worth it! it can sometimes make things worse. try any alternatives from harming yourself ~ Soph xxx

Hey um I was wondering, do you give advice no matter how stupid or ridiculous? because i need some advice but i feel like an idiot :/

sure, ill give advice for anything you might need beautiful!! ~ Soph xxx
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