my bff asked me out last year and I said yes to him because he was a nice guy. really shareef and all. I have been cheated before once so i chose him cus he truly loves me. My friends and other people think he is not my level cus he is not so good looking and lil nerdy. idk what to do :( help me
okay._. I literally don't understand why you would ask me for help. do we know each other? jbtw, what I think is it's your life, so it should be your decision. If you have chosen to stay with the guy and you're happy with him, then why should you care what other people think about you. you will only live once so live it the way you want and live it with the people you like. This is the kind of female mentality these days which is ironic. girls wish for a guy who would love them truly and forever, but when a good guy approaches who is determined to keep you happy forever, who would do anything to make you smile, the girl would just reject him because he isn't hot, he isn't popular, he isn't stylish. they would then go for the jerk who would treat them like shit after sometime (no offense to anyone) they will cry for days and then wish for the true loving and caring guy but the cycle repeats. you however have done something sensible my friend :) If he keeps you happy, if he loves you truly, if he would do anything to see you smile and for all these reasons if he is on your mind then you tell me a good reason for leaving him and going for another guy who might be more handsome and rich and what not but still can't make you as happy as you are with this guy. :) my advise: listen to your heart and see what it wants. forget what others want for you :)