Since you said lots of things are private once they asked me if i have a girlfriend and told me im gay and they pressed me and i told them that i like a girl from my class they psyhically tortured us and when in English class my teacher wanted to sit next to me they wanted make me kiss.
But now in University i feel more free ,idk but at high school got problems because of girls and other boys made fun of me i was around them wooing them and told me being gay i never liked being around boys they do stupid things but now times have changed and i have both boy and girl friends.
I don't like chilli or spicy food so no :D German chilli sounds so weird to me. We take recipes from people with other roots :D don't know where it comes from originally but we take it from people who knows better:D