I'm AA and this girl I've been dating is white. I went to church with her on Sunday and got all kinds of odd looks. Do I just not go with her anymore? She says it's because they are not used to having and AA in the congregation. Could it be that simple?
It certainly may be that simple. People who are unfamiliar with diversity will tend to stare. So, my suggestion is to just go along with it and see what happens. If there are no further oddities from the congregation, then you have been accepted. If not, it's another discussion.