(3) He hasnt called me to comfort me properly even though wen he asked if i was ok i told him yes but i feel as though he should know better. He can be caring but tbh i dont know why his acting like this... is this something that should make me think twice about wer the relationship, wat r ur views?
You told him you were fine when he asked about your job. You should have said how you really felt. 'I'm sure i'll feel better in time' that's a better answer than what you gave. As for him going out with his friends, he's a guy who is socialising with his boys when he isn't completely busy. If you spend time together but not OUT together agree too see him next when you can organise a date together.