throughout! I mean sure, when emotions get in the way your guard falls a little but you should still be aware that it can stop whenever you're ready to say no and mean it
That's simple we're emotional not logical creatures lol
Why don't girls realise that they are actually the ones that control the pace of a interaction with men? Why do you all get so caught up with "how it feels" as opposed to "how much sense" it makes?
Explain. Do you mean in the beginning of when you start dating someone?
have you found your nigerian prince yet?
Lol King* & sadly not yet :-(
I think I might be a girlfriend fluffer. What should I do??
Lol run!
Why are you so much trouble?
I'm a leo.
What are ur nye plans?
Slurring on my words outside a club down east london with my friends <3 lol
whats the best way to get a girl that has worked the most?
Worked the most how?
Can a person who has cheated before be trusted in a new relationship ?
Of course, even if it's in the same relationship you have to learn to just trust them i guess.
Do you think people only pay attention to what you write cuz you're an attractive female?
Lord i hope not.
I think you are a really inspirational woman with respectable views I love how you allowed your readers to feature in your blog they were so talented thank them all for their impeccable unique posts keep up the good work I hope to see some collaborations in the new year Olonyonce -BBBBIGFAN
And the compliments are on a roll tonight looool thank youuuu xxx
I just want to say that I appreciate women like you. Your blogs are the voice of young black women like me. God bless you.
Aww wow thank you. That's probably the nicest thing anyones written here. I have a long way to go go to reach that status, but thank you so much <3
your blog just amazes me, keep up the good work
Awww why thank youuuuu :-) xxx
aaah thank you , clearing my head small, small and nope I don't like playing games especially if a guy thinks he can play ME...is my name olodeo? am I an ode? mtcheeew I will cut a n**** and he wont even know it. aaah true, true enjoy when you do watch it
Looool thanks!
... How would you know you're a rebound?
If someone has JUST come out of a relationship, whilst saying they do not want one right now (not that they should) you become a rebound, the new source of attention , that 'just for now' source of attention. You don't want that, nor do you want to be that.
heyaaaa firstly I love your blog and secondly a little help...if a guy thinks he can play you by doing sweet talking with other ghels as if you cannot see then wants to denounce his likeness for you ..what do you do? As Vivica A Foxx said two can play that game, right?
Lol that's playing games. Never play games!! Unless you actually enjoy it ? Also remember Vivica Fox played a fictional character in that film....Might watch it later actually lol
Follow your logic vs Follow your emotions?
You need a mix of both.
What do you do when the person you're seeing (2 months) doesn't want a relationship right now as they've only recently come out of one?
Honestly? You're not seeing this person, you're just a rebound right now. don't be that & run or keep it platonic if youre not, as someone who has just come out of a relationship will not want to dive straight into a new one. More importantly, you'll end up getting hurt.
That makes sense. it really does depend on the social contributions society imposes. Better would be a generation which is stronger than ours who have less of our problems such as racism inequality etc. worse would be the opposite of that i guess. Do you think theyll be stronger than us ?
I think they could be way stronger especially if discrimination such as racism etc gets broken. I feel like were becoming more multi cultural too which becomes even more beneficial also.