honestly, the power is equal now if she thinks she has the power then the relationship wont work as for him, now if she is a dependent female then of course the male has the power and vise versa, the pre-assumption that the woman has the power is from one whom only sees one side of a relationship instead of opening his/her eyes and being optimistic which ends them being lonely and sad, also women think they have the power because they have a vagina well for one every female has one so if need be the other party may leave and two I (the male) have a penis so that cancels that whole vagina logic, to conclude this response no the "power" in the relationship should be equal the two parties making up for each others weaknesses and complimenting each others strengths those who think otherwise are stubborn, arrogant, and childish