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hello everyone im back and online get those questions in :) x

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hello everyone, I just wanted to apologize for being inactive on this account in the past, and really letting everyone down. I have deactivated my personal ask.fm account, and I logged in to this account through my app. I am hoping this change will help me to be more active and more helpful to all of you. Sorry for letting you all down, and I hope to become better now!
-Amanda

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I live in the United Kingdom, not America I'm so so nervous about it but need to get it over and done with

You don't need to get it over and done with if you're not ready and scared like that. It's so so much better and safer to do it with someone you trust rather than a stranger. It really doesn't matter when you do it.
Tyler x

not trying to be rude or anything but in America there is usually a three year rule as long as they are 16 or older if the other person is 18+

That's not rude at all, thanks for letting me know! I honestly had no idea.
Tyler x

how so, we've both consented? what about your first time how'd that go or if any girls lost it have any advice

Because you're underage (though I think the law is different in America??) so a court would rule it rape as you're consenting but you're not an adult. I'm not a girl so..? It might be a bit personal to ask?
Tyler x

How old r u?

I'm 18, I believe Amy-Lou is 18 too (?) and I think... I think Amanda is 17?? Sorry you'll have to wait for them to come online if you want definite answers sorry!
Tyler x

is it more painful than getting a wrist tattoo? He's 19 I'm 17

I have no idea what getting a tattoo is like.. As long as you take it slow and ease into it it won't be too bad. Also considering your age having sex can be seen as rape from the other person which you may want to think about.
Tyler x

Hi, I'm meeting up with someone(stranger) on Friday for sex (we're both virgins) I just want any tips because I'm so nervous worried it'll be painful I have bad anxiety too

Okay here's the truth, more often than not, first time is painful. Make sure there's enough lube (you'll definitely need some), and that you're aroused enough. Ease into it at first, then it'll get more comfortable for both of you. It's good you're both virgins, they won't expect anything from you and so I hope your anxiety is okay with that.. Be prepared for things to be awkward and weird at first, it might not be amazing like the movies say. Oh and make sure you have a condom. You don't want to risk pregnancy at all yeah? I think that's all.. Let me know if you've got any more questions :)
Tyler x

- hello

hi everyone, I just wanted to make a post to sincerely apologize for not being on the page. I am going to try to check up on here at least once a week, but possible once a day or every few days or something along those lines. again, I am very sorry for my Absence.
-amanda

Hey! I've got a free night, open to answer any questions! Spread the word :')

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Oops sorry, the admins have been a bit quiet so haven't noticed this til now.. Hope it went well!
Tyler x

what to do about it, I don't really want to open up and tell someone how I'm feeling because it'll open up a can of worms and I don't need the petty drama right now& I'm sorry I'm pretty messed up right now haha?????

I can't make you tell someone, i can only strongly advise it and offer you this pages services for advice.. It really would help in the long term to tell someone, really, even if it's just a friend.
Tyler x

I had an appointment today, I obviously didn't go because I can't be bothered with someone that clearly doesn't give a fuck what happens to me& I took 20 laxatives yesterday I was just wondering if il be okay?

Probably not?? I don't really know what they can do but I can't imagine anything good can come of it. Please don't take anymore, you'll destroy your body very slowly.
Tyler x

I'm the same person with the eating issues and the suicidal thoughts& I did see her 1 every two weeks because I couldn't handle every week & she just hasn't bothered I just give up hopefully she won't be invited to my review soon like last time

You could ask her to keep up with her appointments? It's unprofessional of her to just forget or whatever her excuse is, and you deserve help.
Tyler x

No for example some one u know died how to not feel bad

Really sorry for the late answer.
It's okay to grieve for someone you've lost, and you should allow yourself to feel those feelings of loss and sadness because it'll help you get through it. It's good to talk to people about how you're feeling, and you can talk about the person you've lost. It really wouldn't help to keep it bottled up. Give it time, and you can remember but not dwell on their passing. You're implying you've lost someone, if so, my condolences <3 it'll be alright, it just takes time.
Tyler x

My counsellor hasn't bothered with me for almost 3 months I just got a letter now to go next week I don't think I will, therapy doesn't work

Different techniques work differently for everyone, or maybe it's the therapist them self. Especially if you're seeing them rarely, there's not time to build trust or get to the roots. Is there another option of therapist for you?
Tyler x

http://vancouverisland.ctvnews.ca/mobile/police-upset-with-nanaimo-vigilante-s-to-catch-a-predator-style-sting-1.2784093 For those who don't wish to click on links, it's about a vigilante trying to lure child predators into a trap. What do you think of this idea? The police aren't happy.

It looks like the guy isn't actually arresting them or anything of the sort, so I'd say it's not great... Though it would be great if he was able to get them put away. Also it should be up to the police in my opinion, that's their job.
Tyler x

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This is Amy-Louise☺️ sorry I haven't been active lately! I have had 2 exams today and my a levels are coming up so I'm busy revising and sleeping a lot! I will try and be more active but I'm awful at time management.

thankyou but somethings are better left unsaid.

If it's unsaid it'll fester away inside you and make you feel worse and worse. I really don't want that for you, especially if you've only just started having suicidal thoughts. Please don't let them get worse, you can help yourself by talking to someone.
Tyler x

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