Cuz they are not in your sitution thats why. Talk to those who has gone through the excate sitution atleast the person will able to correct you from the mistake he/she made. + Dont share anything nowadays. Its a gossip which is gonna be discussed among stupid low level people then forget about it. So chose carefully who you share with.i do it with my mom. Jbh.
Kyun kay unkay ghr walay nahi manty ya already unki family me baat chal ri hoti hai. Yahan khushiyan nahi dekhi jati yahan log kya bolein gein ye dekha jatah hai jiski waja sy app two logo ki zindagiyan azab bana detay ho. Meri req hai every parents sy jab aik larka larki dosro ko pyar krty ho aur shahdi krni ho tu krwa diya kro. Liken aik sharat be hai larka phele iss qabil ho kay wo larki ka khayal aur uskay expenses uthnay ko ready ho. Par larki ko be uthna mangna chyea jo larka afford krsaky. Khushiyan important hai martialism nahi. Ye sab yahan reh jani qabar me apny khud jana hai. Zara sochiye meri baat ko. If im wrong. Correct me. If im not then impliment it futher. Ty. Regards, Syed Haseeb Ali Shah.