We all have dark secrets hidden inside of us, and if someone trusts me to the point of entrusting me with them, or thinks I can help him with them, then this is an honor and a great trust for me.. it is not an opportunity to judge him or look at him through these things that do not express him as much as my dark secrets express me.. I guess I'd even respect his courage in revealing his weaknesses.. so I answer is no, I didn't do that before and don't think I would do that in the future...