That’s a personal problem, when you remember more good than bad. And you resent someone after what other people have said. Selfish people who want you all to themselves. That seems like a personal problem, choosing not to forget.
Those 300+ lbs guys have assholes as big around as a coke can. They take big ole dumps a foot and a half long. They gotta chop that shit up into 3 pieces just to flush it down or otherwise it get’s stuck up in there over flowing the toilet. Just sayin’…..
I call it the golden starfish
“the one who got away” is that a thing for you? If so what happened?
Have you lost someone? I have and in time you’ll realize nearly everyone leaves you too. Some will stay close. If they benefit from you. Distance from people you love is like a magnet with only one polarity. Useless. But together they’re strong. Don’t change on people. Change with them. It’s more refreshing to blossom with others over years of personal transformations together.