Om kalo mau baca buku2 advertising enaknya mulai dr mana ya? Saya lagi nyari banget buku2 tentang advertising nih om. Mohon rekomendasinya ya om makasih! :)
Om, apakah wajar kalo seorang laki-laki setelah menikah nanti masih memberikan 50% gajinya untuk keluarganya (ayah, ibu, dan adik2nya). Barusan pacar memberi opsi seperti ini ketika aku tanya perencanaan finansial setelah menikah nanti. Menurut om, gmn?
Om, gw anaknya ansos bgt. I'm not a nice person. Dan kebetulan gw kuliah di komunikasi. Salah jurusan gak ya kira-kira? (udah mau lulus baru merasa salah jurusan) Lulusan komunikasi tapi kerjaannya ketemu ama mesin apa ya om?
om tanggal 29 november saya ML sama pacar pake kondom. jadwal mens semestinya 9 desember. tapi sampe sekarang blom M. pacar skrg panik. padahal saya dan pacar yakin tdk ada masalah saat itu. all clear. apa yg hrs kami perbuat :|
Baru juga telat 3 hari. Untuk bisa yakin bener harus tunggu sampai telat 9 bulan. . Kenapa gak pake Test Pack sih?
Hi, om. What do you think abt prenuptial agreement? Klo menurut aku sih penting, tp kadang klo ga bs jelasin dg benar ke pasangan/ keluarga bs 'mislead' ke arah "nikah tp persiapan cerai".
Kalau salah satu dari kamu punya usaha sendiri, atau berniat akan punya usaha sendiri, sebaiknya punya prenup. Jika usaha bangkrut, kerugian dan hutang usaha tidak perlu ikut ditanggung pasangan, jadi aman bagi seluruh keluarga.
Om is it embarrassing using online dating service to try finding a mate?
It is no more embarrassing than using a GPS to find address. . Online dating is just a technology. It helps us scan and find potential mates from our laptop or smartphone. No more than that. It is very helpful when you are too busy or too shy to introduce yourself to strangers at the bar. . The game is still the same. Meet the person, know him more, fall in or fall out. . So go ahead! Just make sure you don't get deceived by fake avatar :)
om gue pengen punya sahabat kayak om sama om vipey dan yg lainnya. semua org di hidup gue pada berubah dan ngejauh pada akhirnya. kok om bisa ya?
You may not have met your best friend yet! Siapa bilang temen baik harus sudah kenal dari kecil? Bisa ketemu gede kok. . Gw kenal sama Adri sesudah umur 30 :)
there's a man, and he has my heart. we used to talk a lot before but not now. I've been trying to make conversations, but he didn't reply much, so I stopped it. then suddenly he come up, asking me out like what we used to, and I don't know what should I do. Should it be a yes or no ya, Henry?
Om menurut om dosa nggak sih orang main tinju atau mma gitu?Kalo kita cuman sebagai penonton juga dosa nggak?kan kaya adu binatang gitu. Pliss jawab om,ayah suka nonton gituan soalnya
Lebih dosa sabung ayam sih menurut gw. . Olahraga fighting itu cabang olahraga resmi, dijaga wasit, dan dilakukan atas kemauan kedua belah pihak. . Mau tau yang lebih dosa? Ngeliat manusia memukuli dan menganiaya manusia lain hanya karena dia berbeda agama/kepercayaan dan kita diam saja. Protespun tidak.
om henry, kemaren aku nyoba2 personality reading pake nama, foto, sama tanggal lahir. katanya sih dia pake sixth sense gitu. berarti itu patut diwaspadai dong? yah kadung mbayar eh :(
Kayaknya sih kamu udah tertipu, hahaha. . Sudahlah, kenapa sih harus bayar2 segala untuk cari tahu "masa depan"? Write your own future!
7) Friendzone ya ini? Bukan? Sampe skrng udah kuliah pun, dia seakan2 selalu menyiratkan buat nunggu selalu blg 'tunggu' sampe kapan coba om:( aku harus gimana om? Kalo mutusin buat udahan aja tapi berat aja gitu ngelepas sesuatu yang sebenernya ga ada. Menurut om gimana?:)
WHAT DAY IS THIS? WHAT'S WITH ALL THE 7-PART QUESTIONS? . Anyway, looks like Friendzone to me. Keep your hope, but don't close doors to other nice guys who want to get closer to you too.
I'm a recently divorced 29 yo F. He cheated + verbally & physically abused me 1 year ago, I forgave him. But he didn't change at all. So this year we finally file a divorce. The thing is recently he wants to 'rujuk'. I explain that we better take separate ways, but he insists. What should I do?
Is there a child? If there is, I would say you need to consider rujuk. . If there is no child, it really depends whether you can still trust him or not.
Magnificent 7
Facebook.
Yang semula gw anggap dewa penyelamat yang membawa kembali wanita idaman yang gw kira sudah hilang ditelan oleh waktu, menampar gw dengan sangat keras.
"Pemberkatan nikah akan dilaksanakan di.."
I didn't expect to see that, at all.
Facebook, lucifer's friend.
~ fin ~
IT TOOK 7 SECTIONS TO WRITE ALL YOUR STORY AND THERE IS NO QUESTION AT THE END? WHAT THE DUCK MAN? . Anyway, that's a sad story man...the one that got away. I hope you regret not making more move on her. Lesson learned.
om, kalo aku ngucapin terima kasih ke pembimbing dosen skripsi aku itu gapapa kan? gak kesannya SKSD ato gimana? soalnya aku udah abis ujian trus ga ketemu dosen ini lagi... galau
GAK APA2, malah bagus! Gw juga ngasih tanda terimakasih kepada dosbing sesudah lulus. It's a nice thank you gesture. . Justru jangan mentang2 udah lulus terus langsung lupa sama guru dan dosen yang sudah membantumu.
Hi Om.
I don't know why I keep coming back and telling you this, but I was the one who told you about my boyf diagnosed with cancer a week ago.
He passed away today.
Anyway, thank you for your kind answer! :)
I'm so sorry to hear that :(. May he rest in peace now. . Also apologize if I ever missed your question. There are 7,000 unanswered questions on my account now. :(
oom aku udh pacaran 3thn tp pacarku selingkuh trs, pdhal keluarga udh saling kenal sm ada rencana thn dpn mau nikah gmn nih oom??
Asumsi: laki2 tidak bisa berubah. Coba bayangin bahwa dia sekarang sudah menjadi suami kamu. Kamu hepi gak? . Then decide. . Ingat, yang menikah kamu, bukan keluarga kamu.
Saya dominan Melancholic tapi sekundernya Choleric. . Harap diingat sistem temperamen ini sangat crude dan kayaknya belom diuji validitasnya. Sistem MBTI (saya INTJ) yang sudah lama diteliti saja masih banyak kritikannya saat ini. . So always take "personality test" with caution and grain of salt. Or bucketful of salt.
Om kalo personality reading itu termasuk pseudoscience bukan sih?
Tergantung metodenya dong. Metodenya apa dulu? Kalo pake personality profiling tools yang sudah diuji validitasnya di Psikologi ya gpp. . Yang harus waspada kalo caranya gak jelas. Grafologi, baca aura, horoskop, golongan darah, dll. yg belum jelas validitasnya sebaiknya dihindari aja.
om tiap mau tidur aku baca ask.fm om. lama2 suami ikutan kebiasaanku ini. jd tiap mau tidur malam setelah pillow talk kami ketawa ketiwi, kadang manggut2, sambil liat gadget. thanks ya om!
Bagus. Tapi jangan keasikan baca ask.fm sampe lupa berhubungan pasutri yaaaa. :p
Hi Om, saya cewe currently 23, been single for a couple of years and I have this thought that if I can do everything by myself, why should I need a boyfriend. Beside I still have so many things I long to achieve so love life will just interrupt my goal. Do you think it's a sign of arrogancy?
No. You just haven't met the person who put butterflies in your stomach like dukun santet. . Wrong: "I need a boyfriend/girlfriend then I meet someone" Right: "I meet someone THEN I realize I need a boyfriend/girlfriend"
Om, gebetan saya suka lari. Waktu saya lari bareng, dia malah bilang; you're sweating like a pig. Jadi minder, Om. Keringetan saya emang bisa buat isi akua galonan sih. Mesti gimana ya Om?
Cari gebetan lain. Somebody who calls you "a pig" is not gebetable.
(2)Apa yg begitu masih harus dihargai sebagai Ayah, om? And I don't buy that "kalo ga ada dia lo ga bakal ada" karena kalo jadi orang tua biologis mah semua orang bisa. Minta pendapat om dong ^^
Ada sesuatu yang keliru dengan statement "Kalo bukan karena dia elo gak ada". . We never asked to be born in the first place. Kita lahir sebagai "konsekuensi" dari keputusan dan perbuatan orangtua kita. Jadi kita tidak berhutang kepada mereka hanya karena kita "lahir". And frankly speaking, I'd say human existence is overrated. . Justru kebalikannya yang benar. Kalo berani2nya membawa kehidupan ke dunia atas perbuatan sendiri, HARUS TANGGUNGJAWAB membesarkan dan memelihara dia sampai usia dia mandiri. Jangan seenaknya bikin anak terus gak mau finish the job. Si anak gak minta dilahirkan ke dunia ini, terus dicampakkan begitu aja menurut gw sih irresponsible. . You are an adult now. You still need to respect your father as another adult. But if I were you, I wouldn't feel like I owed him anything. But this is me.
I've heard two very opposing opinions about love: "When you know, you just know" and "You never really know, but you go with the flow and hope for the best anyway". Which one do you believe in? (Or, if neither, please explain.) Thanks, and have a great day!
I've said this so many times before here: in life, do not easily fall to extremes. The reality is often in between. . In romance, you need to feel "I think THIS is the one!" Love will be so dull and cold without the feeling. But remember that this feeling could be so INACCURATE. Poor judgment, mix of lust, inexperience - all can make your "this is the one" very wrong. . So you need to listen to your feeling, but accept some risk that it could be wrong. That's why you still need to explore and discover the other person more. People who rush to marriage soon after 'falling in love' run very high risk. Once lust and infatuation wears off they might regret "Damn, this is NOT the one..."
Very interesting! Thanks for sharing. So men's intelligence can be judged by the face (but not women's) . Hopefully this study can be replicated to strengthen its validity. Also, does the result hold true to Asian men, or any other ethnicities? . Untuk para mahasiswa tingkat akhir Psikologi, coba eksperimen ini diulang di Indonesia. Menarik. :)
Om, gimana characteristic by blood type? Do you regard that as bs as well?
My position at the moment is VERY skeptical. . But remember that the scientific mind is not dogmatic. If new evidence shows it as being true, I could change my position.
om piriing. aku MTA nih udah mau skripsi. topik skripsi ditembak dosen dan udh ditembak jg utk ke jepang ikut proyek dosen (topiknya sm ky topik skripsi) selama 2th setelah lulus. aku sih mau, mama juga mendukung dan nyuruh sekalian ambil S2 disana, tapi papa ga ngijinin aku jauh lama2. gmn ya om?
Suruh mama cari papa baru. . Kamu kuliah dibiayai siapa? Sponsor punya hak menentukan, suka gak suka. Kecuali kamu beasiswa. Itupun kamu sebaiknya direstui mama dan papa. Atau papa baru.
Om, kemarin aku ketemu sama orang yg kita ga suka di tempat umum terus dia menyapa duluan dengan sopan kita harus gimana?
Balas sapaan dengan sopan juga. Gitu aja kok repot. . Ciri2 manusia beradab: hanya karena kita tidak suka pada seseorang, bukan berarti kita tidak bisa tetap sopan dan santun kepadanya.
I agree with you Om Piring (about TFIOS). I also recommend 50/50, a movie about a guy who suffers a cancer with 50% chance of survival. The main character was played by Joseph Gordon Levitt and the movie was surprisingly good.
Bisa lah, kalo mandi rempah2 gitu, dia bisa jadi aromatic. Kan wangi ya? Pengantin Jawa sudah biasa diberi perawatan aromatic... . (eh bukan itu ya?) . Aromantic? Hmmm, gak tahu ya. I've met few people who are not excited about love and romance. Mungkin bukan total gak butuh, tapi buat mereka hal itu tidak sepenting bagi orang2 yg lain? I don't know, really...
om henry percaya kepribadian berdasar tulisan tangan ngga?
Posisi gw tentang graphology adalah bahwa itu bukan science, tapi "pseudoscience". Jadi kebenarannya sangat diragukan, efektivitasnya tidak terbukti secara ilmiah, dan tidak ada basis yang kuat untuk percaya pada "analisa"nya. . Ini beberapa artikel yg menjelaskan mengapa graphology ditolak oleh sebagai "science". . http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Graphology . http://www.quackwatch.org/01QuackeryRelatedTopics/Tests/grapho.html
Hi om.. As a TFIOS fan, I'd like to counter your statement. The understanding and acceptance that death is unavoidable were so sincere IMO.. They tried to bring the best out of the worst. I think TFIOS can give courage to people with terminal diseases.
(no longer 22, so can't enter D2H anyway)
Hi Septiani, thanks for the opinion :) . I agree with the message. I just thought the same message could be delivered in a less cheesy and tacky way. "Decoding Annie Parker" is also about cancer and spirit of survival. It is based on true story, AND explains how we finally discovered the hereditary nature of breast cancer. And it's not cheesy at all. It's very inspiring, in fact. . I recommend this movie for cancer survival and courage story.
om piir. pernah ambil IELTS? gue degdegan banget ngadepin speaking test sama seorang native. takut bolot dan gugup, trus jawaban yg keluar ga se-oke apa yg gue pikirkan. gue cukup well-prepared tp kok tetep nervous yaa. tapiii demi syarat beasiswa :s
Pernah! . Udah santai aja. Puter DVD favorit, nyalain subtitle Inggris, terus dibacain semua teks yang keluar. Buat ngelemesin lidah. :)