I would like to say both. When it comes to small talk it's just common talk. Big talks to me involved more people and usually a subject you can all talk about, therefore I was always happy with both.

Depends

Don't mind both unless everything is understood

Both

Small talks because sometimes someone is taking more than they should grab (idiom) so sometimes I need to say something small so they won’t disrupt!

neither

What's the difference.

Firstly why the cupcake lol, and I don't mind either. It depends on what I'm talking about and with who