take a stand. and be rigid on it. mine didn't take the stand when i needed her the most cuz i did take stand on my promise. for ever her i even confronted my parents for her. khair mai baat kya houi 5 din humari nahi houi 6 din uski shadi ka card mere ghr pe tha (meri neigbour) thi. and you how i cope with it. i cant kill myself cuz i cant hurt my family tbh. so the next thing i did i started doing hardcore drugs. cuz i couldn't handle the memories we created in 8 years. she was first love we were 14. we spend all night together just to see sunrise.