First of all she shouldn't listen or care for the stereotypes and certain looks in society because its all a farse! - when I was very young, naive, kind of carefree I had my own individual way about myself, I did things differently, wore clothes differently and was attractive to random things, whereas I hit a certain ages growing up which made me question myself and so I experimented with being a new version of me. I stepped out of my comfort zone to follow what others were doing and interested in and I lost my individuality, I lost myself in this fake sense of person I'd set out to be by following and copying others, I ended up getting myself into very dark and unforgivable situations because I lost myself far too much and I started to hate who I'd become it took me a few years and months to get back to my original self and I'm staying this way because that "phase" and experience of not being myself, it traumatised and still terrifies me because of what I'd gotten myself into! I learned the hard way which really did shock and scare me that you should just be true to yourself, make changes for yourself, changes that make you happy and can benefit you, and don't lose who you truly are inside- it's okay to be individually different, after all that's what makes you, you and makes you stand out that little bit more! Don't feel discouraged by what others think of you or want you to be, concentrate on finding out who you are and how your flaws and faults play a part in making you special! Who cares about physical attraction, everyone is skin, blood and bones underneath anyway and appearance doesn't always carry great qualities such as personality, charisma, jokes, adventures, fun, lovability, quirkiness, intelligence or a kind and warm heart! So whoever this "ugly" girl may be, to someone else she will mean the world to them, she'll be a star in their eyes, be their royal princess if not queen, their soul, eyes and heart will melt because that "ugly" girl will be exactly what someone else is looking for or falls in love with. ??