I say no. A man, a real man likes to pursue his woman. They don't want the woman to pursue him. They feel that girl is desperate and will most likely do that to other men. They want a lady who plays hard to get. If he likes you, he'll ask you out. If you come to him first. He'll only screw you, tell his friends how easy you were and that you're a slut, and leave you. A real woman don't want that type of reputation.
A man from Bethlehem Jerusalem by way of Heaven. A man who loves us so much that he died on the cross for us so that we can have ever lasting life, rose again, and is about to make a come back and this time he's staying. The King Of kings, and The Lord Of lords. The Alpha and the Omega, The Ruler Of The Universe. Who can walk on water, turn water into wine, fed five thousand hungry souls with only two fish and five loaves of bread. His credits are too long to list. He has done the impossible time after time. He is the Son of God. All Hail King Jesus. 👑
Have you read the book called Imani All Mine? I haven't read it since High School, but it's a great book. Also try out the book call, It Happened To Nancy. If you haven't already. Those are good reads. It also make you think twice before making certain decisions as well as it make you be aware if people and your surroundings.