how old are sage and phoenix?

July 26, 2014

Well, I will only speak for myself, because I know how Phoenix would feel if I violated their privacy.
I'm 17 today :P.....

I will say Phoenix is older than myself, they are great though. I will get Phoenix to tell you of they want that.

~Sage

Thank you for your kind words. I thought that i would feel better after reading your advices and a few hours of sleep but i guess i was wrong.

July 26, 2014

I'm sorry to hear that.
I have tried to make you understand and see, I dont know how else. I hope you do as I advise to because I know you can find your someone.
Is there something that makes you happy? Or smile? A hobby? A person? A word?
~Sage

One child dies every hour in gaza by Israeli forces. Please pray for Palestine.

July 26, 2014

Sorry, I don't pray, but I'm sure other can and will
:)
I hope they solve be problems over there it is very saddening to see...
RIP to those who have already died
~Sage

How to cure a fear of everything?

July 26, 2014

There is no such thing,
Therefore there is no cure.
Fear is the thing that holds everyone back, so why let it hold you?
It's pointless and a mistake, don't let fear run and ruin your life. Tell yourself you can and you will. We can all jump oceans and climb buildings but fear is what stops us. So don't worry you'll always be okay in the end.
Punch fear in the face and you'll be okay, face the things that scare you because that will only make you stronger
~Sage

I do. I just don't know how it all works. Like am i suppose to wait or find them. How do i know that he/she is my person? Will that person be the right on? Or will it be a journey of lost cause?

July 26, 2014

Well, you have to wait an see, mine found me.. But maybe you'll find them. On the street maybe, in the corridor of the library or the cinema, they could be anyone anywhere it's up to you how you find them, it might take 100000000 people to find them... But you will because there is someone like that for everyone :) you will know when they are the one who will care about you, because they will put in the effort to keep you smiling and they will be the shoulder and hug you need. They will make you feel happy with yourself and they will know how to treat you and you will feel that.
~Sage

I hope so. I'm not really that keen on it.

July 26, 2014

You don't want someone to talk to?
I think it'll be good for you to have someone who will sit and listen and care..
Have hope just a slice of it and there can be great things :)
~Sage

May I speak for you? Pardon my arrogance, but I believe myself to be omniscient. I also think you're handicapped and require someone's charity.

July 26, 2014

Whys that?
Just curious why you think that, because that is not very observant of you....
~Sage

I just wish i have this one person. My psychologist mentioned it to me about a few weeks back. A person where i can spill every single deep and dark secret and will still be willing to hug the filth, which is me. But i haven't found that person yet. I am losing hope.

July 26, 2014

Don't ever loose hope. Trust me I lost hope and it did me no good. I thought I was worthless too, then someone so unexpected came along and changed all that. It sounds weird but I've never met them and they mean the world to em. You can find that person. You aren't filth you have an amazing soul and I can tell that, you are lost that's all. We all get lost until we find ourselves.
You can find yourself and you can find that best friend that will hug you when the night is cold and will listen to every word you speak it can and will happen
I promise you that, it can and will happen.
It only gets better from here :)
~Sage

Share a quote if you wish?

July 26, 2014

Well, I have this one quote I'll never forget because I love the poem that it comes from and it is something I dont know I just get it.

This quote come from the charge of the light brigade, my favourite poem. I will always love the poem.
I hope you guys like the quote, it's close to my heart :)
~Sage

I just feel so down. I'm sorry.

July 26, 2014

Don't ever be sorry it's okay,
I'm here to talk if that's what you want, I don't want you to relapse. I want you to feel good about yourself so vent away I'm here to help :)
~Sage

De ja vu is what I mean. It hurts.

July 26, 2014

De ja vu of what though?
I don't understand :/
You aren't explaining yourself
I'm worrying again I'm sorry but I can't help it :(
~Sage

How to sleep better?

July 26, 2014

Well there is no key, but an early bed time and a healthy diet is good to start with.
Also reading a book before bed not playing game on your laptops or phones or tablets because the backlit screens can be bad :)
Also sleep in a comfortable position generally without a light on because it helps your eyes get into the mood of sleeping :)
I hope that helps?
Good luck hope you sleep better
I'm here if you need any more advice
~Sage

well thanks for the chat, have a good day ~

July 26, 2014

Well thanks :) it's night here though :P 11:40pm
It was great talking to you :)
I'm always here if you ever need a chat.
Have a great day!
~Sage

People talking to me is one thing. People actually caring is another. I feel so...alone.

July 26, 2014

You aren't alone.
I know that people care about you, I can feel it you just need to talk to them, be honest with them.
~Sage

Maybe I over-explain from being too self-conscious? I think I need advice on how to not let others define you? I hope I didn't send too many questions/won't send anymore. Anyway hope the admins have a good day ^-^

July 26, 2014

You can never send me too many questions. I here exactly to give advice and if I didn't want to id give the page away, but I like to help others :) so never worry about that

Well okay this I think I can help you with.
People should never be allowed to define you. It's wrong!
To stop them from defining you, you have to show the real you no matter what. Say what you feel and do what you want. Don't let the words of another curb who you are. Society is a cruel thing in life. You can beat it up, show who is boss and show people that you are strong nothing they can say will hurt you.
Honestly the best thing is to be who you are, and show people who you are. Never lie to yourself and don't let other hurt you with their stupidity :)
Good luck I hope that helps :)
If you want more help I'm here always
~Sage

should I take the red pill or blue pill?

July 26, 2014

Well that depends on what you want the outcome to be?
"This is your last chance. After this there is no turning back. You take the blue pill: the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill: you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes." - Morpheus, The Matrix
Is your decision?
~Sage

My friend relapsed and i was helping her. I made her feel better but now i'm the one who's on the edge of burning myself again. I envy her because she has people actually looking out for her.

July 26, 2014

Well, I'm here if you want to talk.
If it helps we can talk privately
You seem like a really nice guy and I'm sure you have people to talk to you just don't realise it :)
~Sage

I'm so depressed. I feel like relapsing.

July 26, 2014

Don't relapse :/
Stay strong
I'm here to help :) promise
What's making you feel like this?
The pain is only temporary I promise I will go just strong there are many people that can help you :)
~Sage

I sent you question about something the other day. I went else where and got answers.

July 26, 2014

Well I'm happy you found what you were looking for and I'm sorry I couldn't help you.
I hope that one day I can help you :)
~Sage

I get confused about knowing when to speak/not speak I think

July 26, 2014

Well see
That's not really something I can give you advice on. I can tell you though, you have to pick the moments that should be best to talk about things. It's all about being observant and picking the moment. So you talk about happy things when other around you are. If someone asks you a question answer it honestly and personally.
I hope this helps, talking is about being spontaneous.
~Sage

How to ramble less?

July 26, 2014

Well, speak about relevant information. It all depends on what context you are talking about. In everyday life you can simply just talk only about relevant information but who cares if you ramble in general conversation.
If you are talking in school or university or your job
Then it's important to talk about the relevance and always back it up with evidence as to why you are saying it.
Like my history teacher once said,
Statement
Evidence
Relevance
Or SER
It's the best way not to ramble :)
Good luck hope it helps
~Sage

I think that's good advice to remove yourself from that/just ignore it. Sometimes it feels like you want to explain yourself to people (didn't have this habit before @_@)/just to speak, but it seems more difficult now to discern when it's appropriate to speak? Anyways thank you ^-^, have a good day

July 26, 2014

I get exactly what you are saying.
I used to be the shyest person in the world!
But now I just want to explain my reason to say things.
I would say only waste your breath on the people who deserve it most.
You shouldn't feel like you can't speak, everyone should be allowed to talk it's not fair otherwise.
There is no inappropriate time and there is no appropriate time either.
Honestly I'm not great at picking the times, and speaking is a spontaneous motion of thought you can't plan how people will react.
I'm sure that you will find your voice and I know you can explain everything you want just know what you want to say and say it that's all there is too it
Sorry I dont know if I answered your question, but I sure felt close to home cause I had this feeling.
if you want more advice I'm here :)
~Sage

I don't believe you have to tolerate people's mistreatment. If someone was mocking me, I'm not obligated to internalize it. If they can form opinions about me I think it's fair that I may deflect it (if it's personal). If they can voice their opinion, so can I. Sometimes silence is better though

July 26, 2014

You're right :)
I dont know what you want advice on but you are completely correct.
Silence is the key, but never be afraid to speak up and voice what you say. Don't let someone hurt you to the point of ultimate sadness.
~Sage

nice background

July 26, 2014

Oh thanks :)
Took me a while to find the right one
:)
~Sage

Share me? <3 :) If you need ANY help I am here. <3 :)

July 26, 2014

Sure
Here you go
~Sage

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