Why are you so addicted to Ask.fm?
I'm not sadly there are very few things I'm addicted to
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really you would? do you have a kik?
I do
My username is loopymuppet
~Sage
My username is loopymuppet
~Sage
What color pencil you use for drawing?
Umm I love using red and black when I make any art, sometimes blue as well
But i don't draw and when I draw ( which is hardly ever) I use lead pencils.
~Sage
But i don't draw and when I draw ( which is hardly ever) I use lead pencils.
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Hey, can you please promote my new advice page, I'm just starting off and really want to help people :) thankyouu x
Hey,
I've followed you just so you know
Guys this is a new advice page so check it out ask for help if you ever need a second opinion
~Sage
I've followed you just so you know
Guys this is a new advice page so check it out ask for help if you ever need a second opinion
~Sage
i wanna cut so bad i need to cut so bad i wanna see blood so bad
No you don't!
Trust me you don't
What's wrong??
What happened?
Why do you feel like this
Cutting is bad, you shouldn't ever feel like you need to do it. Throw anything you use to cut away just throw it out you don't need it.
If you want to talk privately I can do that.
~Sage
Trust me you don't
What's wrong??
What happened?
Why do you feel like this
Cutting is bad, you shouldn't ever feel like you need to do it. Throw anything you use to cut away just throw it out you don't need it.
If you want to talk privately I can do that.
~Sage
Okay I need your advice.. My boyfriend's ex was flirting with a guy on Ask and talking to him while they were together. Which I didn't think to much about until I realized the guy she was flirting with is my friend.... what do I do? Do i stop being friends with him? Or stay friends? Idk..
Hey,
You can not be friends with but did he know that she was in a relationship?
It may not be all his fault you know.
I think that you guys should stay friends it doesn't matter if he is talking to your boyfriends ex, it doesn't really implicate your life and it shouldn't. It is okay to have guy friends/ girl friends if you are in a relationship. Yeah it gets a bit extreme if they start getting real "friendly".
I think you should be friends with him just because he is talking to somebody.
I hope I've helped :)
Good luck
~Sage
You can not be friends with but did he know that she was in a relationship?
It may not be all his fault you know.
I think that you guys should stay friends it doesn't matter if he is talking to your boyfriends ex, it doesn't really implicate your life and it shouldn't. It is okay to have guy friends/ girl friends if you are in a relationship. Yeah it gets a bit extreme if they start getting real "friendly".
I think you should be friends with him just because he is talking to somebody.
I hope I've helped :)
Good luck
~Sage
Have you ever thrown up after eating?
Yes...
A few times
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A few times
~Sage
Share my page?
Yeah sure
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It's bothered me for a while, she just thinks I'm being unreasonable so I decided to look for an outside opinion
Yeah no your fine,
Your allowed to get worried of that kind of thing
You just should tell him nicely to back off because she is in a relationship and he needs to respect that.
Don't stop her from being friends with him just tell him to tone it down.
~Sage
Your allowed to get worried of that kind of thing
You just should tell him nicely to back off because she is in a relationship and he needs to respect that.
Don't stop her from being friends with him just tell him to tone it down.
~Sage
Anyway thanks for the input man
It's all good
I'm sorry I didn't really help much
~Sage
I'm sorry I didn't really help much
~Sage
Now. 3. The interest may be clear to you, but honestly you need to throw a plate at her with "I'M FLIRTING WITH YOU" in huge bold letters for her to catch on. She's kindof oblivious to that stuff, I'm pretty sure she genuinely believes he's just overly friendly and does it with everyone
Right...
Alright you have cleared some things up .
I understand much more now.
Alright I can help you now cause I understand.
How old are you guys?? Just curious
Well as you say if she has to be told like that then clearly you don't need to be paranoid. Also if you guys have been together for so long why does it only bother you now?
That's something to consider.
If she hasn't told anyone about the breakup then clearly she doesn't want it to happen so she is still interested and doesn't want to throw 2yrs away.
So maybe you are on the right track and should know that you don't really need any help just don't be paranoid about their friendship. The other guy is jealous I'm guessing so just tell him to back off.
I think that's all the advice I can give if you have any other questions feel free to ask.
~Sage
Alright you have cleared some things up .
I understand much more now.
Alright I can help you now cause I understand.
How old are you guys?? Just curious
Well as you say if she has to be told like that then clearly you don't need to be paranoid. Also if you guys have been together for so long why does it only bother you now?
That's something to consider.
If she hasn't told anyone about the breakup then clearly she doesn't want it to happen so she is still interested and doesn't want to throw 2yrs away.
So maybe you are on the right track and should know that you don't really need any help just don't be paranoid about their friendship. The other guy is jealous I'm guessing so just tell him to back off.
I think that's all the advice I can give if you have any other questions feel free to ask.
~Sage
2. I know I'm an absolute dick for cheating, but it wasn't quite like that. We call it cheating to shorten it down from "Flirting with another girl once and intending to have sex with another but changing my mind." That was back when we were 3-6 months into our relationship. We're past 2 years
~Sage
I do have a few questions; 1. Why would she be ashamed? It was her decision not to tell anyone we broke up, I think because she then didn't want to go back around again having to tell everyone we were back together if she changed her mind. She's "efficient" like that, haha
I'll answer the last part
~Sage
~Sage
Who's your number one friend?
I don't have one
I don't count on friends being there
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I don't count on friends being there
~Sage
9. Someone she HAS told, however, is Ryan's best friend, and this behaviour seemed to have conveniently sparked up again AFTER she told this friend of his. Is it possible that his best friend told him, encouraging him potentially? Does this guy even seem like he's into her? Or am I being paranoid.
Hey sorry it took forever for a response I'm still at school :/
Alright...
From what I can understand she seems ashamed because she isn't telling anyone about your relationship?
Also it does seen like this "Ryan" guy likes her, she needs to tell him to back off because no matter what she says he likes her it's quite clear, or to me it is
In my opinion and this maybe a bit harsh....
I feel that maybe you should forget about trying to win her over...
Because:
1. You cheated on her
2. Someone else is clearly showing interest and she likes it because she hasn't asked them to stop
3. You two are going in 2 different directions
I think it is for the better
But if you do try to win her over she is a very very lucky girl.
And you should stop worrying about that other guy because if you do win her over you'll be the winner in the end and he will be the friend zoned.
There's not much else I can say I'm sorry
I wish I could help more :/
I hope something I've said has sparked an idea?
If you have any other questions feel free to ask
Good luck
~Sage
Alright...
From what I can understand she seems ashamed because she isn't telling anyone about your relationship?
Also it does seen like this "Ryan" guy likes her, she needs to tell him to back off because no matter what she says he likes her it's quite clear, or to me it is
In my opinion and this maybe a bit harsh....
I feel that maybe you should forget about trying to win her over...
Because:
1. You cheated on her
2. Someone else is clearly showing interest and she likes it because she hasn't asked them to stop
3. You two are going in 2 different directions
I think it is for the better
But if you do try to win her over she is a very very lucky girl.
And you should stop worrying about that other guy because if you do win her over you'll be the winner in the end and he will be the friend zoned.
There's not much else I can say I'm sorry
I wish I could help more :/
I hope something I've said has sparked an idea?
If you have any other questions feel free to ask
Good luck
~Sage
8. but I'm trying to impress her enough to win her back. Officially we're not together, but she's keeping that on the down low just in case I manage to win her back. He's one of the problems (for me, personally) in our relationship because I don't know if I'm paranoid.So she hasn't told many people.
~Sage
7. the entire period mucking around and chatting. Also unimpressed to know he asked for her number earlier this year. Me and "Katie" are kind of at a point in our relationship where we're not sure if we want to continue it, mostly due to my cheating on her and generally just being a shit boyfriend,
~Sage
6. repetitively doing the same for her. Grabbing her hand, sometimes under the guise of checking if it's cold. Today I found out he was holding her hand to 7 his face at one point. I'm wondering how "friendly" this guy really is. In one of their classes he normally sits beside her, and they spend
~Sage
5. group did to weird people out, though why he was so insistent on doing it to her when it clearly didn't effect her, no idea. I think there were other things I'm forgetting. Low-and-behold, this year there are more stories of him "warming" his hands on her arm for long periods of time, and then
~Sage
10. Another thing I forgot to mention; the two times I've encountered this guy, he's completely ignored me or glared at me. One of her friends said once, "Oh hey _____! Ryan, this is ____!" And he just gave me this look.
~Sage
4. I wasn't impressed, but AGAIN she dispels this with, "He's a touchy-feely person, it's just what he does, he doesn't really have a sense of personal space." To go along with this, there are also stories of him feeling up her leg in the year BEFORE that; supposedly a "creepily funny" thing her
~Sage
3. other, "much prettier" (her words, not mine) girl back then, so she doubted that there was any attraction. Last year, I heard stories of him resting his head on her lap during a Biology trip, and in the group photo he chose her to wrap his arms around and pull close out of their group of friends.
~Sage
2. that back then, her best friend of the time was always INSISTENT that she thought Ryan had a crush on Katie, though Katie dispels this with a simple "my best friend wasn't the best at picking up on romantic stuff, she probably misunderstood." She also brings up the fact that Ryan asked out some
~Sage
1. I'm going to try and explain this whole thing so you can get the best understanding possible, so sorry if it's a little bit long. There's this guy my sort-of-girlfriend has known for a while. Ever since they were 12, in fact (we're both 17). I'm going to call him Ryan and her Katie. Katie told me
Alright I'll answer the last part
bare to think what it would be like without him :( we say I love you to eachother and i know he really does love and care about me. we've known each other for nearly 4 years now and have been inseparable ever since, but theres one massive problem that makes me feel really insecure, and it hurts, and
Okay so I was a bit unsure what question you wanted me to answer, so I'll answer this one, is that okay??
Some people will say yes it's a massive problem I don't see it as such, I'm in kinda the same position except I'm the younger one. People, Especially my parents have told me it's wrong but I don't care, and neither should you. It's something that no one should be able to judge you on, and if they do you should ignore them. If what you say is true then I'm sure you have as much chance even more than anyone else.
Don't doubt yourself, if you care about him you will tell him because honesty is the best policy in any kinda of friendship. So sit him down and tell him. Tell him that your worried because of age, and I'm sure he will tell you how he feels. You both are still young so don't worry if it doesn't work in your favour there will be others.
Good luck :)
Tell me how it goes??
I hope I've helped
~Sage
Some people will say yes it's a massive problem I don't see it as such, I'm in kinda the same position except I'm the younger one. People, Especially my parents have told me it's wrong but I don't care, and neither should you. It's something that no one should be able to judge you on, and if they do you should ignore them. If what you say is true then I'm sure you have as much chance even more than anyone else.
Don't doubt yourself, if you care about him you will tell him because honesty is the best policy in any kinda of friendship. So sit him down and tell him. Tell him that your worried because of age, and I'm sure he will tell you how he feels. You both are still young so don't worry if it doesn't work in your favour there will be others.
Good luck :)
Tell me how it goes??
I hope I've helped
~Sage
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