I think I'm ugly because people tell me that I'm not, but then people tell me that i am....I'm so confused. What should i think?

April 26, 2014

You should think you are amazing and beautiful and it shouldn't matter what other people think of you
You should know that you are gorgeous and you deserve to know that.
You don't need anyone to tell you what you are and aren't
People don't define you, only you can do that! I promise
I hope this helped?
~Sage

its not a crush. I'm not like a Bieber fan who has a crush. when you're over 16 you should be past vrushing on sum1. They're my best friend/soul mate. I don't even think of them sexually. they are the first and last thing on my mind and it sounds pfffff. Thanx anyway.

April 26, 2014

I'm sorry!!
I mis understood what you were saying
And you can have a crush at any age
If they are your best friend then maybe you just like them as a best friend they mean a lot to you?
I'm sorry I can't help!
I wish I could
I'm going to endeavour to figure this out for you?
Sorry!!
~Sage

❤♡❤

April 26, 2014

Hey!
What's up?
How are you?
I'm not too sure what else to ask :P
~Sage

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is it rong for me to wake up in mornin and the first thing on my mind is them and at night last thing on my mind. I'm out of my mind arent I? They don't think of me at all!

April 26, 2014

You never know if they think about you or not.
You aren't crazy you just have a crush, a sorta big crush
It's completely normal
You should talk to them you don't have to tell them you have a crush of them just talk to them get to know them and figure out if you want to tell them
Personally I think you should
The worst that can happen is that thy day they don't feel the same way, big whoop it happens and life goes on but if they do feel the same way it's an epic score!! :P
So point is your not crazy and they could be thinking about you as well!
~Sage

thanks so im downloadıng kik now so i can talk to u there :D

April 25, 2014

Sure that's great
Well I'll be on there waiting hopefully my phone doesn't die :/

aww thank u so i will try to go see him :)) btw can i talk to u on kik plz :)) i think i want to talk to u more

April 25, 2014

Never thank me there is no reason I promise
Sure
My phone will be dead soon but I barely sleep so having someone to talk to wod be nice :)
My kik is in the bio
~Sage

well he use 2 like me to but then i changed my school and i really missed him im gone beg mom to visit my old school on monday to see him?? do u think i should coz i just want to hug him again

April 25, 2014

Yes I think you should,
It's a great idea
It will show him how much you still care,
And I'm sure he still cares for you so go for it! It's a great idea!
God luck with it
~Sage

hey i really miss someone n i just dont know what 2 do . i cry every single day coz i missed him so much :((

April 25, 2014

Well I can't help you that much
You need to delete him from your life
Block him on Facebook, tumblr, twitter whatever
Get rid of photos of him
Everything you can
Keep yourself occupied and you'll be fine
You'll find someone worth your time
Don't cry it's not worth your tears
He isn't worth your tears, trust me I'm still learning that
It takes time but you'll get over him
I promise and as you do you'll find someone better who wants you forever
Sorry if I haven't helped not in a great mood but please try to not cry?
Good luck :)
~Sage

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Glad you're staying:) You're one of the most unselfish and loyal people I know whom gives great advice amd helps others. Anyone who does that deserves love and respect. :)

April 25, 2014

Awwww thankyou :') you just made my day :D
If you truly knew me you wouldn't think so
But thankyou so so much this made me cry a little :) happy tears though
It's people like you who deserve love and happiness and respect because you make people like me feel good.
Thankyou everyone :D
Massive non touching E-hug to everyone
Sorry I don't really like being touched so non touching hugs are good :)
Thanks :D
~Sage

ok so its turns out he does like me vut i dont like him. Also gis bestfriend told me hes goingto ask me out tonorrow infront of everyone. what do i do?!! how do i deny him without hurting his feelings and ruining our friendship?!! please help.

April 24, 2014

Just tell him you don't like him that way,
You like him as a friend, and tell him it's probably better that you stay friends, rather than ruin your friendship over a relationship.
Be honest with him, if you have to take him aside and in private and tell him why you said no but be nice, you can be honest and nice you don't have to be honest and bitchy about it, it's all about how you word it
Yeah he's going to hate you for a few day maybe a few weeks but ultimately it's better that way if you don't like him like that. Be sure of your choice though, if your kinda in the middle of liking and not liking him, you have to decide what you are because he might find someone else when really you liked him along, so you have to be assertive and know exactly how you feel before you say anything to him.
In the end if you say no he will be hurt, there is no stopping that but you can minimise the damage you do by using what I said above.
I hope I've helped...
You can do it don't worry!
It's for the best
If you want any more advice, you know where to find me :)
~Sage

glad you're staying cause you helpef me a few weeks back. love you.

April 24, 2014

Aww thankyou,
I'm happy i decided to stay :)
Thankyou for this though it means a lot to me
~Sage

It makes me so happy to hear that you'll be staying! You're my favourite advice page that I've found on here, and the admins here are wonderful and have helped me so much. :) xxx

April 24, 2014

Thankyou :)
I was so so hard
Cause I wanted to leave because I never felt I made a difference but people told me a i do and reading my answers and your guys questions so thankyou
And thank everyone who has made this decision easier for me :)
I am forever in your debts :)
~Sage

thanx for bein honest. u have made me c. u have help me.

April 24, 2014

Thankyou,
I'm sorry if I hurt you but honesty is my policy
So id rather tell you the truth than give you a blanket to rest on
Thankyou for saying that it has made my night :D
~Sage

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April 24, 2014

Hey everyone,
Over the last few days I've been sorta here but sorta not,
I'm sorry to those who have been affected by this (waiting for questions ect.)
But I've had a few tough things to face...
One of them is whether or not I should deactivate this account or not.... It's been a tough decision
But I've been thinking
And I think I'm going to stay with it because if it wasn't for this page I dont know where I would be... I've met so many amazing people and I can't wait to meet more..
Thankyou everyone
I will always be here for you :)
~Sage

what do u do when the one u love still won't let u in. I can't do anymore. I stay cause I luv her, but she hurts me without her noing it cause she holds back on me when we talk and sometimes avoids talking bout things?

April 24, 2014

I'm sorry
And I understand if you hate me
But you either have to address that fact that she is distancing herself and ask her why
Or let her go,
Honestly if she doesn't want to talk or open up there has to be a reason and if you address it and she still treats you like this you need to let her go,
I know it's hard to hear but I kinda have been through the same sorta thing and in the end I just had to let go
It's so hard I know
Especially if ou love them and they don't live you back anymore
I'm sorry but they are your options
Talk it out or move on cause she isn't worth your time anymore
I get it's harsh and I'm sorry, in really sorry but the truth hurts and is rather be honest and hurt you a little than lie and tell you everything is fine and she'll get over it
Because she may never get over it
I hope this has helped a bit
Good luck :)
If you want anymore help just ask you know where to find it
~Sage

this guy i recently am friends with keeps kiking me and he always uses his friends phone to kik me because he broke his. But now everyone thinks we're dating but this kid cant event talk to me properly without dozing off while looking at me or stuttering. but on kik, hes different .does he like me??

April 24, 2014

Umm possibly,
Really I'm not great at telling if people like you or not
Id say it's possible but you can never tell these things unless you ask.
Even if you drop hints that you like them and flirt with them
It's hard to explain
And I'm really not great at telling this kind of stuff.
But it is possible but you will never know if you don't ask
Good luck
~Sage

What do you do if the one you trust has lied to you but they say they havant. I just play even tho it fucking hurrts. I feel I don't belong anymore there just using me when there board.

April 24, 2014

Hey sorry, it's been 3 days I've been really busy and kinda dealing with stuff I'm so sorry :)
Please accept my apology?

I know how you feel, but how do you know they lie to you?
You're suppose to trust them,
If you are certain they have lied and they are using you, you need to let then go.
Especially if they are making you an option...
I know how it feels to be an option or a choice
Don't let someone walk over you like that, you are so much better than that I can promise you that.
I'm sorry you are being treated like that but honestly they aren't much of a friend if they do that to you. You are worth so so much more...
I hope you see that.
I hoped I've helped
If you need more help I'm here
~Sage

Are you more of a dog person or a cat person?

April 23, 2014

Definitely a dog person,
I love my dog he is so so so cute and amazing
That's my puppy!

Are you more of a dog person or a cat person

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what do u do when the only person u care about is ignoring u ?

April 21, 2014

Hey, sorry for the delayed response, I have really busy trying to sort out some stuff in my life,

Well, honestly there isn't much you can do, I'm Sorry
I know how you feel, I've had a few "best friends" do it to me and it hurts
Why are they ignoring you?
How do you know they aren't busy?

When my friend ignored me, everyone told me I was stupid and he was just busy, but somehow I knew he was ignoring me and to this day we don't talk
No matter what happened between you two you can't blame yourself because it takes two people to make a friendship.
How long since they spoke to you?
It also could mean you might have to leave it a few days, and let whatever happened blow over and talk to them in a few days when they are in a better mood.
Everyone get temperamental and maybe something bad had happened to them and they are venting it on you,
Don't worry too much.. just leave it a few days (2-4) and see what happens, when you talk to them don't bring it up by saying "why have you been ignoring me" instead ask how their last few days have been and that could be a way of asking without confronting.
I hope this helped, if you want anymore advice you know where to find me
Good luck, I'm sure they were having a bad day and they will come back to you
~Sage

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When was the last time you screamed?

April 21, 2014

The other day when I walked into my house from a trip i was on, and I had forgotten that we owned a dog, and he scared the living day lights out of me....
Sorry puppy!
hahahaha yep major fail on my part :P
~Sage

i once loved guy. he was my first love. he said he liked me too. but one day when his ex started talking to him he started ignoring me. when asked why he said he liked her again but when i asked him what about me? he said "i was awesome untill she came back" :'( #allwaysthesecondchoice

April 21, 2014

Hey, sorry for the delayed response, I have really busy trying to sort out some stuff in my life,

I'm going to say this a few times so listen to me the first time,
He was not worth your time or even your effort
Clearly he was using you to get her back and I'm sorry, some guys are dicks like that.
I wish he hadn't treated you like that because you are worth so much more than that, and I promise that there is a guy right now, pondering the idea of asking you out or even looking at you saying "i wish I could have her"
I know these things well and I know you deserve so much better,
You won't always be a second choice, seriously don't believe one idiot guy cause sometimes they think with their big toes and not their hearts or brains (no offense guys, girls do it to)
You just have to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and don't let it get to you.
It may sound hard to here but you were his rebound girl, I'm sorry but its true
You fell and he didn't and now he couldn't care less, you just need to realise this move on and find someone worth your time, because trust me you are worth it.
Don't let anyone label you the second choice, and don't label yourself because it's not true and it never will be.
Good luck :)
Stay Positive, good things come to those who wait
~Sage

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how do you get over the person whom you never dated but loved whole heartedly?

April 21, 2014

Hey, sorry for the delayed response, I have really busy trying to sort out some stuff in my life,

There is no right way to get over it, you can move on, but you will always feel an undying love for them, trust me.
It is something you will do with time, to help yourself adjust to not having them around (best friend, friend, crush, ect.) you need to distance yourself from anything that gives you a direct reminder, not forever just for a few weeks or a month, however long it takes you to start repairing.
Loving someone is hard, even harder to move on.
Delete or hide photos of them for a little while and hide them from your newsfeed on tumblr, twitter, facebook whatever draws their memory to you try and hide it for a little while and bring it back slowing so each week focus on coping with having a little more of them back in your life.
I know it is hard, but life is hard and you have to get through the tough times to get to the good stuff :)
Good luck, I know you can move on :D
I hope this helped
~Sage

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happy easter everyone, hope you're all doing great, stay strong and amazing (:

∞ Never.Lose.Hope ∞

April 20, 2014

Aww thankyou!
Happy Easter to you too
I hope you enjoyed your Easter
~Sage

~

April 20, 2014

Happy Easter everyone!
I hope everyone is either having a good Easter or looking forward to having a good Easter or has even had a good Easter...( thought I might just cover everything)
Remember I'm always here when you need me..
Sorry for those who have asked me questions and I haven't responded I've been pretty busy coping with a few things in my life but I will get to them very soon thank-you for your patience!
Enjoy the chocolate and this photo :D
~Sage

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The 1person I thought I knew. The 1 person I let in & love I don't think I know them at all-I love them & I just don't know what 2do anymore. I can't leeve them. I won't leeve them its impossible 4 me I care/love 2much. They wont let me in anymore. I just need help cuz I don't know what 2do?

April 19, 2014

Why won't they let you in?
What happened between you?
You two need to talk about what happened and move on
It's easier if you forgive and forget.
Why don't you know them?
You need to talk to then alone,
Tell them how you feel and what's going on inside your head
Just talk it out and be honest with each other
That's really all the advice I can give
I'm sorry I'm not much of a help
If there is anything else I can do I will
~Sage

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