she confronted me about how i was "playing games" and needed to choose because she wasnt going to let me use her or her gf and i ended up kissing her to get her to stop her rant because i was going to sort it but its kinda sad dumping a girl on valentines day. shes pretty mad at me, playing games

February 21, 2014

~Sage

I fell for my best friend accidentally kissed her while I was a little intoxicated and going out with this other chick. I think I might have fucked some more shit up from there when I was waiting for the right time to get all that shit sorted and dump my now ex gf. I couldn't resist temptation when

February 21, 2014

I'll answer the last part
~Sage

im the one that had a math exam! i think i passed but not with an A*

February 20, 2014

Yeah
It's great you passed!!
You won't always get an A just be happy because you studied before the exam and it helped you pass
I hope your happy with your mark
~ Sage

im not so positive

February 20, 2014

Well you need to be
Why wouldn't you be?
Positivity is good it makes you feel good
Stay positive
~Sage

Thanks Sage, you da man. I'm holding back a bit because my family is pretty f'd up. My mum's a druggie, cheating on dad with some high-ranking dick in a gang, me and her don't really get along. I suppose I don't know if I want to get someone I love involved with that, ya know?

February 20, 2014

Hahhaa thanks... :D
I understand
But sometimes having someone is better than being alone, trust me on that one...
Maybe you should try it out for a few weeks maybe more and if it doesn't work then it doesn't work
You'll never know if you don't try it
~Sage

I've been feeling so depressed recently and I don't know why. I suffer from anxiety and thats got me down a bit, but every night I end up crying myself to sleep, how can i make this stop?

February 20, 2014

Hey sorry for the late response

Alright well you need to figure out why you are crying every night, if it's over a person or how you feel about your life?
Why do you have anxiety if I can ask? Because that may have something to do with it.
Also have you told anyone about this? A friend? A teacher? Your mum/dad?
Because telling someone can always help because then it doesn't feel like your in the fight alone.
If this continues you should see a doctor, i know doctors are scary or daunting but it's for the best.
You need to try and stay calm
Locating the problem will help this stop

I'll always be here if you want to talk privately or if you have any other questions
I hope it stops :)
~Sage

As an 8/7 I feel like I'm ruined because of my past. I feel like she could probably do a lot better with someone who didn't have so many fucked up problems, wouldn't cause so much grief in her life. Fucking hell, why would I WANT to subject someone I love to having to put up with all my this bs

February 20, 2014

Hey btw,

Alright,
There is a lot of words there but I know exactly how you feel.
I'm almost the exact same.
So I can help you out.
First of all we all experience crap that makes us not want to be us anymore
Sometimes people experience it more than others and I understand how you feel but you can't protect yourself from someone who you think you love, it just doesn't work like that.
Clearly from what I can tell you either really really like her or you love her, and that's a good thing.

We all think that someone we like could do better because that's just how humans work. But I can promise you she won't ever find someone like you! You are unique and that's the best quality to have and guess what everyone has it so be positive and know that if she is with you she is with you for a reason and she doesn't want better

As for breaking and hurting her, there isn't too much I can help with because that's up to you
But you shouldn't worry about that because if you love her and treat her properly then you won't hurt her.

As for thinking about the future and commitment issues, I think you should just keep it simple and when your ready your ready don't think about marriages or anything like that until much later down the track but think a few months in the future just one or two months and if you see yourself with them then that's a great thing.

I think a major thing to think about is honesty and trust.
You have to trust her and be honest when your not feeling good you can't lie. She deserves to know when your not having fun but in turn you have to be there for her. Tell her how you feel when you feel it.

I hope I've helped! I'm really sorry if I haven't
If you have anymore questions please feel free to ask :)
~Sage

7/7 after everything that's happened in my life I feel like I could deserve it. What I'm really afraid of is breaking hers. I'm torn between wanting her and wanting to protect her- from myself and also all the family-related drama in my life. What do I do? Do I let her go to protect her?

February 20, 2014

I'll answer the 8/7 part

6/7 my family bullshit. I'm not even sure how to act with someone I love, my parents weren't the... best examples to me as a child, you could say. My other fear is breaking her- I'm not someone who always considers future consequences. I'm not afraid of her breaking my heart; I could live with that,

February 20, 2014

~Sage

5/7 but she told me I changed my mind halfway through because she "doesn't need to hear that when I'm drunk." I honestly think I might love her, I'm just afraid. No one I've talked to seems to find love as daunting as I do. I didn't have the most stable upbringing and I don't want to drag her into

February 20, 2014

~Sage

4/7 I always just responded that I loved them too to avoid an argument/fight. My current gf has already confessed that she loves me, but she's happy to wait until I reciprocate the feelings; she'd rather my honest silence than a lie. Drunk me has accidentally told her I loved her a couple of times,

February 20, 2014

~Sage

3/7 Fun has always been a big priority for me. I've given up all of that for her, though, obviously. I'm still a frequent partier but I'm no cheater (done it once and felt like shit). But yeah, love has never been a huge factor in my relationships. Most of my exs fell in love pretty quickly, and

February 20, 2014

~Sage

2/7 First of all, I've never been a very serious relationship guy in the past. Like, I've had some pretty decently longs ones but I never felt this intensely over any of my exs before. Not to mention I also have a bit of a history for being... promiscuous, never been a huge guy for commitment.

February 20, 2014

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~Sage

1/7 Alright well, I'm going out with this amazing girl. She's completely different to all the others I've dated in the past, and she's unlike anyone I've ever met before. I could probably go on about her for days haha, but I won't be boring. Bottom line I'm a bit caught up on this whole "love" thing

February 20, 2014

I'll answer the last part

~Sage

i did i hope i pass math now

February 20, 2014

I'm sure you will :D
~Sage

Where would you wish to wake up tomorrow?

February 20, 2014

Umm well I know the answer to that :D
But that's for me to know and you never to find out but it would definitely be with someone
~Sage

it's fine it's 3 pm here so i need to study my ass off

February 19, 2014

Hahhaha I get that
I'm the exact same,
I hope you studies well
~Sage

i don't know those challenges i know the butterfly challenge but that's pretty much it

February 19, 2014

Well google the 15minute challenge
I know heaps of people that it worked for maybe it's the one for you

I'm sorry I love answering your questions but it's really late here
So I'll answer anymore you have tomorrow
I'm really sorry
I hope you find that helpful though
~Sage

i can't i feel like seeing blood

February 19, 2014

Well there is a few things you can do
Because I know can't isn't in your vocabulary
Have you tried the 15minute challenge?
Have you tried any other of the self harm challenges??
I want to help you stop because there are other things you can do instead of cutting
I'm here to help
~Sage

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Help From The Unicorns

February 19, 2014

Yay!!
Just made it past 100 questions :D
I think this is making me a little too excited
Thankyou everyone!!
~Sage

I'm really close with this boy and we both love each other to pieces (We are just friends), but one of my closest friend's had a fallout with him now she's putting thoughts in my head about him. The boy i'm talking keeps telling me to ignore her but I can't, what can i do?

February 19, 2014

Well it depends who you care more about?
Honestly it shouldn't matter what your other friend says because you aren't them.
It shouldn't matter how their friendship turnout yours shouldn't be affected by it because it's a whole other thing.
Does he know what your friend is saying about him?
The best thing you can do it tell your other friend that you and the boy are going to be friends no matter what they say, Because really I see it as a way of making you and this guy have a fall out because this friend of your is jealous or whatever.
They are trying to manipulate you, I think
And it should be ignored
I hope I've helped you
Also I'm really sorry for the late response I was at school.
If you need anymore advice Im here for you
~Sage

How quickly have you fallen in and out of love?

February 19, 2014

For it's hard for both,
I don't necessarily feel love much anymore but I know it's hard to fall in love and definitely to fall out of it.
~Sage

not really i still cut

February 19, 2014

Well you should stop,
I know it's hard to stop but you should help yourself out and just get rid of everything you could possibly use to cut and instead distract yourself
~Sage

ya me too he makes me happy but the cuts i did are huge

February 18, 2014

But you have stopped haven't you?
It doesn't matter what the scars as like it matters that your not cutting now.
It's good he makes you happy you should always be happy
~Sage

ya we've been best friends for 4 years and we've been together for almost 6 months still going strong i love him and he might be the only one who kept me strong all this time

February 18, 2014

That's good!
That's great the best relationships come from the best friendships.
I'm glad that he is there for you, I hope you two stay together and you both stay strong together :)
~Sage

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