@AmberSnay

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what advice do you have for someone who wants to be your friend?

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Be genuine, kind, calm, real and loyal. But it would just have to be natural no fake or forced friendships needed over here. :)
Good luck getting past my walls. Lol. It's hard for me to open up and trust ppl. Also, not even sure if I can be a good friend cuz maintaining a friendship takes so much time/effort. I guess I just want casual friends more than close friends...
Well. I'm very friendly and talkative, but also socially awkward and talk about random shit. I also have a decent sense of humor. I think. I've been told I can be pretty fun. But I do go through phases where I just want to be alone and just don't take it personally.
Ask yourself why and what you hope to get out of it.
I don't mind people but I can't deal with everyone in the same doses or the same frequency. I can hit it off with some people and others, it's not like I don't try but some stuff I can see where it's actually going.
To me friendship is just being about to have a conversation or enjoy the company of others -- like regular ol' hanging out and an acceptable common ground. It is hard to have a friendship with little common ground. I get meeting people outside my echo chamber and all that but a friendship driven on anything other than wanting to hang out to get to know the person without any strings attached or ulterior motives most likely isn't one.

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