Tbh i am this kind of a person but i realise that jo mai hun wo tou matter he ni krta tha kabhi ,what matters is my priv life some of my decisions for myself to get over some things and all those other things which has no logical connection with self assessment plus this appraisal is not for dignifying capabilities but this is more like life sentencing someone with some tag they will then have to carry ,being or being not that of a kind is least bothered here.