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I really wasn't sure if that was an intentional typo for a second xP
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sometimes i think asexuality is understood least of all, especially how much it can really really suck to not see people/sex the way non-asexuals tend to, no matter how much you want to? pretty much exactly what that last anon said, i've only been attracted to one person ever and it kills
I've heard some pretty awful stories of people who have identified as asexual and people have told them "No that isn't a thing you're just in denial and need a good fuck" or something like that.
just.
people need to stop that.
hell even the LGBT+ community can be awful sometimes (rather, the 'GGGG' community. Like, it's not just homosexuals that are oppressed thanks.)
just.
people need to stop that.
hell even the LGBT+ community can be awful sometimes (rather, the 'GGGG' community. Like, it's not just homosexuals that are oppressed thanks.)
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Whoever the twats are that are trying to blame your sexuality on malnutrition can go to hell. I am with you 100%!! I know what it's like for people to not understand why I am how I am too and it drives me insane when people have shut their minds off to the possibility that it's okay to be different!
it's really not that hard to just accept that people are different and while there is probably a reason for it? treating something as an abnormality is really damn harmful and demeaning.
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There's also?? I would really rather feel sexual attraction to people, but I can't. I have felt it towards one person in my whole life, so I know what it feels like, but it's never happened with anyone else. I am not happy to be asexual but it's who I am and I don't see it changing any time soon.
I feel the same. It actually hurts to be asexual when surrounded by sexuality. I really want to enjoy sex the way other people do, but I just can't and it can really bring me down sometimes. especially when a lot of the world and society revolves around sex and sexiness.
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That guy was making a legit point. He/she wasn't being rude. Many vitamin/mineral deficiencies can cause your libido to be lower than usual and you may be more attracted to people/find the idea of sex more pleasurable etc. That's all they were trying to say.. It may be a symptom just in the same way
no, you know what this is called? it's called invalidation. what you just said is that asexuality is a 'symptom', as if it's just part of some illness or something.
Asexuality is real. It's a sexual orientation. It exists. I'm tired of having people tell me "Oh it's just that your hormones haven't kicked in" or "It could be due to poor nutrition".
We are not sick, we are real. Why do people feel the need to try and put it down to some sort of medical cause? (As long as it's not heterosexuality, of course)
Asexuality is real. It's a sexual orientation. It exists. I'm tired of having people tell me "Oh it's just that your hormones haven't kicked in" or "It could be due to poor nutrition".
We are not sick, we are real. Why do people feel the need to try and put it down to some sort of medical cause? (As long as it's not heterosexuality, of course)
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I find it laughable that someone can attribute such a major part of someones life down to a single factor and besides even if this was true, is your diet not part of what makes you 'you'.
this is why science has so many responsibilities
because as much as we might want to find out what 'causes' people to be who they are
the problem is that the way society is, people are going to latch onto whatever you say and STRIVE to make sure their child "doesn't turn out gay" or something.
because as much as we might want to find out what 'causes' people to be who they are
the problem is that the way society is, people are going to latch onto whatever you say and STRIVE to make sure their child "doesn't turn out gay" or something.
big meanie butts to male me make me sad face sobbin
its ok shhh its ok female me its gonna be ok
I find it very disturbing that upon hearing that someones sexual orientation is something outside of the 'norm', then the first conclusion is this must be the result of a 'deficiency'.
this was my thought exactly just
it's exactly what i meant by the whole 'curing' a sexuality thing
if it's not straight then it's abnormal and must be something medically wrong
it's exactly what i meant by the whole 'curing' a sexuality thing
if it's not straight then it's abnormal and must be something medically wrong
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oh you're an asexual, maybe you should eat some more carrots, nutritious shit bro
what if str8 people eat too many carrots
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the only one I remember is SUM oops
No it's not at all. Trying to find what makes you, you, is not a form of treatment, and neither is rationalisation which is what I was try to do. 'Because I am/I said so/feel so' is not in my book a valid reason for anything. WHY do you feel the way you feel? Hence my attempt to rationalise.
"Do you think the being asexual can be partly because of poor nutrition?"
if you don't see anything wrong with this sentence i'm not really sure what to say
if you don't see anything wrong with this sentence i'm not really sure what to say
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When the dude asks what kind of asexual i think he means like romantic or no
maybe I guess
it just rang kind of weird in my head "what kind of asexual"
probably needed to be worded better?
in any case I'm panromantic /shrug
it just rang kind of weird in my head "what kind of asexual"
probably needed to be worded better?
in any case I'm panromantic /shrug
I feel like a lot of people asking you questions could use a quick read of this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality
Yeah there's a lot of informative and interesting stuff on the wiki page, it's a pretty good read.
Do you think the being asexual can be partly because of poor nutrition? I mean, your body need so many vitamins and minerals to stimulate that part of your brain, lacking in that could surely help cause this attitude. Note, not saying this in your case, just providing possible scientific reasons.
it's not an 'attitude'
this sort of thinking is the same thing that makes people try to 'cure' a person's sexuality.
this sort of thinking is the same thing that makes people try to 'cure' a person's sexuality.
(Uncretainty principle) I'll be honest: I'm not sure
Uncretinty principle?
...Ironic.
...Ironic.
What is the uncertainty principle?
It, like the fountain of doubt, doesn't exist.
...Or does it?
...Or does it?
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You are not asexy, you are asaxy
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You have helped :3
I'M REALLY PUMPED AND HAPPY ABOUT THIS BECAUSE I REALLY WANT ASEXIES TO GET MORE TIME IN THE SPOTLIGHT???
"YOU'VE HAD SEX YOU CAN'T BE ASEXUAL" and "HOW CAN YOU BE ASEXUAL IF YOU HAVEN'T TRIED IT". They can't make up their minds.
THIS IS PERFECT AND I LOVE YOU
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Oh my god, thank you so much for your statement on being asexual, people need to learn what that means, every time someone says "but you've had sex so you can't be" to me when I tell them I'm going to show them what you said
OH MY GOD IT'S OKAY GLAD TO HAVE HELPED??? AASFIOASFHASF
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So what kind of asexual are you?
that's a really weird question to ask
i'm asexual and that's it?
like you don't go up to someone who's pan and ask "what kind of pansexual are you"
people vary but sexuality doesn't come in like... breeds or something
i'm asexual and that's it?
like you don't go up to someone who's pan and ask "what kind of pansexual are you"
people vary but sexuality doesn't come in like... breeds or something
I thought asexuals didn't feel sexual attraction? Please educate me on asexuality thank you
it can vary a lot
some asexuals feel no sexual attraction to anything whatsoever
some feel no sexual desire (that's a big difference. like, lack of desire to actually have sex)
grey asexuals can sometimes feel attraction, but rarely/not commonly
sometimes it's just a lack of drive, they don't get horny or anything or get an urge to have sex.
IT VARIES A LOT and plenty of asexuals do actually have sex for various reasons! (such as a desire to please their partner)
like any orientation there are no strict guidelines or anything or boxes to tick, it's just a helpful guide for people struggling to work out their feelings about love and sex and the like.
some asexuals feel no sexual attraction to anything whatsoever
some feel no sexual desire (that's a big difference. like, lack of desire to actually have sex)
grey asexuals can sometimes feel attraction, but rarely/not commonly
sometimes it's just a lack of drive, they don't get horny or anything or get an urge to have sex.
IT VARIES A LOT and plenty of asexuals do actually have sex for various reasons! (such as a desire to please their partner)
like any orientation there are no strict guidelines or anything or boxes to tick, it's just a helpful guide for people struggling to work out their feelings about love and sex and the like.
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