If you made the choice to get the woman pregnant, it is then your responsibility to provide some type of assistance to the mother, whether that be via joint custody and child support or via a relationship with the mother. The choice is yours.
True I guess I just wanted validation for some reason cause I've always told ppl I wasn't just to not look stupid which is stupid 😅 but I just thought they'd look at me differently if I told them I was
That is highly understandable. I wouldn't worry about it all that much. If you believe in something hard enough, it may just happen. You must be patient with life, what is meant to be yours will be yours when the time is right.