Would you date yourself if you were someone else?
probably not! it would be very limiting to date me, mostly because of my agoraphobia. I can't really go out and do much right now.
other people have dated me with the idea of "fixing" me and getting to experience things with me for the first time in years (like traveling, going to theme parks, etc). they got frustrated fast and left because my anxiety didn't improve like they hoped it would.
they felt stuck, which I understand. it was more like babysitting a child than a real relationship.
if I was someone else, I'd probably avoid myself and go for someone more outgoing. it's not really worth the emotional turmoil and inevitable frustration.
other people have dated me with the idea of "fixing" me and getting to experience things with me for the first time in years (like traveling, going to theme parks, etc). they got frustrated fast and left because my anxiety didn't improve like they hoped it would.
they felt stuck, which I understand. it was more like babysitting a child than a real relationship.
if I was someone else, I'd probably avoid myself and go for someone more outgoing. it's not really worth the emotional turmoil and inevitable frustration.