Serious question: Should you get married if you are emotionally attached to someone else.( not w the person you're about to marry)? The person you r going to marry is perfect ticks all the boxes but you are scarred by past traumas and still have feelings for the person who hurt you?
No.
Never get married to someone who has a pattern of hurting you again and again. The thought of spending your life with another person might be scary but not as scary as the life you're gonna live with your toxic partner
Choose your mental peace once. You will be proud of yourself. :)
Move on and forget about the past. The person what hurt you previously, will do it again. Give the other one a chance and you'll be happy forever, in Sha Allah. PS. I am speaking from my experience.
Besides the emotional attachments and traumas you experienced in the past. You must prefer one having better qualities of being a good husband. It is not necessary that the one you may love, can be a good life partner too. Anyhow, there are much more stuff to be checked in a good husband.
Emotions are just to feel. Decisions can never be taken on behalf of emotion.
Never be that emotional stupid.
Sali bag ge
Samjhdaar shadi kartey pagli?😂
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Depend how u manage ur feelings
Before marrying, you have to sit down your self and clean up your heart to start a new life.
Marriage is not a game.
Honestly i also think about this daily. If the person you’re gonna get married to really checks out all the boxes, phir try your level best to make this thing work warna app apna and uska time dono barbaad karein gay. Jahan tak baat hai about your past you can never really forget it log jitna marza kahein kay bhool jao.
