Both, why date someone you’re not into, you should be dating someone you’re attracted to, someone you’ve analyzed what would y’all kids look like in the near future. Do you see a future with that person. Don’t waste time and energy.
I see so many “I miss you” “I still love you” etc, are y’all okay? 🥺💕 hang in there. Things happen for a reason, so even though you believe/feel it’s impossible to move on & develop feelings for someone new, you will meet someone who will change all of that. 🥰 stay positive!