Please reply this message with a question you want to ask those anon who ask silly questions to you on ask.fm ?
How did you find me? Or how / where did you hear of me? Or why are you even here?
Hi, early this year you posted on Instagram the 2018 planner you are using and I think it's cool! Where did you buy that planner from?
Hi there! My 2018 planner is a gift that I won from TinyType’s giveaway - you can check out their Instagram. They’re mostly into #TinyIllustrated now but occasionally they bring out money packets and planners like the one I use :)
Both. Short, unplanned day trips are fun, but if you're going on a longer trip, having some sort of plans (flexible, of course) is good.
How would you like to be remembered?👀
As a good human being who leaves a positive impact on the world
What books you just can't finish reading?
A lot, apparently
Do you pefer to live alone or with someone?
Alone, but since I’m married, I’d go for alone with him ❤️
Macam mana cara husband sis approach sis sebelum kenal?
Err, more to macam mana sis approach husband sis, mungkin? 😂😂Okay, honestly, it was all unintentional. Kami kenal di kolej, INTEC, semasa buat prep ADP sebelum ke US. Masa sis tukar major dari Economics ke Actuarial Science, sis dimasukkan ke dalam kelas dia. Masa tu dah sebulan lebih semester start, so untuk aktiviti berkumpulan semua memang dah ada dah la kan kumpulan masing2. Kebetulannya pulak, kelas tu tak cukup perempuan, jadinya kumpulan dia je yang tak ada ahli perempuan, jadinya lecturer pun suruh sis masuk kumpulan dia.Long story short, kami berkenalan la. Masa tu memang kawan aja la, sebab masa tu sis pun ada teman lain, dan si dia pun ada teman lain (yang akhirnya teman dia masa tu curang kat dia, dan teman sis minta putus). Kami rapat pun sebab di kolej kami sama kelas untuk dua semester, dan banyak belajar sama dan buat projek sama2. Selalu lepak makan dengan kawan sebilik dia semua, pastu jadilah rapat sampai sekarang ☺️
Okay, then definitely talk to someone, either a parent, a family member, a good friend, or a counselor. Or if you want to talk to a third party, definitely go and seek professional help, as they’re more qualified and knowledgeable and can help you out better :)
Then it’s up to you on how you want to deal with it. You said “if they know how to deal with it, they can do it. But they can’t.” So the question is, is it because you don’t know how to deal with it by yourself, or that you don’t want to deal with it by yourself?Ultimately, it is up to you on how you want to deal with it, and if you need help or support from other people. But whatever it is, I wish you all the best ☺️❤️ May you find the peace you deserve ❤️
Idk I think it's bad bcoz if that certain person know how to deal it himself, he can do it. But the problem here is he can't do that. But whatever thank you for your answers. You're right.
Well, how do you know if they can do it or not? People have different mechanisms to cope with different problems, and some may take longer time than others. Regardless, loved ones or close friends play an important part in cases like this, helping them to overcome the past, working together to move on forward.
I expected you would tell me to seek help from professional coz I sound depressed :')
So... Is that a good thing or a bad thing that I didn’t say anything about seeking professional help?That’s the thing, I guess. A lot of people have personal issues like that that keep holding them back, something dark and horrible that happened in the past that you can’t seem to move on from. Sometimes, you don’t even need ‘professional’ help. Sometimes, all you need is a little bit of time, some courage, and some support from your loved ones to be able to make it through. And most importantly, you need faith, be it in yourself that you can pull it through, or faith in Him that He wouldn’t burden you more than what you can handle. But if you think that talking to a neutral third party would help you, by all means, go ahead. It’s a good thing if you see that you might need professional advice, and it’s not a shame to do so, but if you think you can manage it well within yourself, that’s a solid good on you too ☺️
It has been a year but I can't forgive myself although I know God is forgiving. To be honest I lose hope to survive, I don't know anymore who I am, and what I want to be, what I want to do in the future or right now. I feel like a complete failure and maybe death is the best choice for me
Everyone has a dark side, a dark past. It's just that nobody talks about it, they let it go, and move forward. A lot of the past caliphs were not believers before Prophet Muhammad came, heck, some of them were even against his teachings at first. But with time, they changed for the better, and became some of the best Muslims.We all have a past, yes. You might've done something so bad that you feel like all hope is lost. But, don't. Hold it there. Hold on and have faith. Death is never the answer, especially when it's not your time to go. Have faith in Him, and in yourself. Know that you deserve a chance in life and know that you're worth so much more than this.
So, I got lucky in the sense that my parents footed the majority of my wedding expenses (I am their only daughter anyways and they wanted to plan it according to how they wanted it to be, so I let them do it) (well by them I meant my mom, because obviously Dad couldn’t care less about what happens)Things I paid for by myself:1) Make up artist, Laila Rohani (TV3 MUA, my mom used her services as well for my brother’s wedding two years ago and wanted to engage her again) - RM700 for both nikah and reception. 2) Photography & videography from DreamyWeds & Co, I wanted Ayul Rahman so I was willing to fork out the money to get his services: RM12,600 total, which includes malam berinai (RM500), photography for 3 events (RM5,200), videography for 3 events (RM6,000), andfast edits for 3 highlight videos (RM900). Also got a complimentary post-wedding photoshoot, a long ~30 minutes video compilation and photo album / photobook.3) Part of the door gifts (can’t remember how much I paid for this part lol)4) Wedding cards for my friends and lecturers by Eliffant Studio - RM436. This was only for printing tho, the designs were made FOC by a friend. 5) All other small things like new inners from Uniqlo, socks, etc All the other big things like my dresses from Fuzana Mokhtaza, the venue at Sime Darby Convention Centre, decoration, food and catering, other doorgifts and all, they were all paid for by my mom (thanks Ma!). ☺️
What if my past keep haunting me and makes me feel unworthy of living?
Believe that God is accepting, that everyone has a dark past, and that everyone deserves a chance to be better. As long as you’re working your way to become a better person, a better you, you’re on the right track. God is the Most Merciful, so if He can forgive you, why can’t you?