Can you give any advice on how to be a superior top for a bottom dude?
Read between the lines and figure out what kind of bottom guy he is. Know your audience.I know I come across online as a cocky, muscle, bareback top who's main goal is his own pleasure... And that's 100% true when the situation calls for it.However, when the bottom wants it slow, connected and emotional, that's never an issue.Never resist having a frank conversation about sex.
Any fun trips coming up? Where will you be going?
NYC. Mexico City. A Viking Expedition cruise. Florida. Berlin. Putting together a trip to India for later this summer and trying to fit in a Morocco visit in June.
How do you stay engaged with a client when your body or mind is not feeling it? Is it difficult?
It can be incredibly difficult, to be honest.We all have personal lives the client doesn't always need to know about. Even though I have many long-term guys who know quite a bit about me, I don't think it's appropriate to unload any of my personal issues during our time together.I've learned that your body is going to do what it wants, no matter how hard you try otherwise.You just relax, go with it and if things don't improve, you own it and move forward.
What do you think the most important quality a good escort should possess?
A sense of humor.A genuine sense of self.The willingness to learn from people who are different than you.The patience of Job.
Any rituals or preparations before seeing a new or a regular client?
Full background check. IRS transcripts. Blood tests. Review tapes from old Maury episodes.
Do you get offended if a guy calls you Daddy? Will that be a deal breaker?
I'm not a fucking daddy to anyone, so calling me 'daddy' is an automatic block on hookup apps.The guys who have called me that are almost universally the kinds of guys I wouldn't touch anyway.
What is the city that you have gotten lucky in the most? What do you think makes that city so special?
Vegas.
How much do you eat?
Lately, not enough, as the scale says I'm losing weight, which really means I'm losing muscle.In my quest for a six pack stomach, I realize that I have to intermittently fast to a point that doesn't support muscle gain. I can't have it both ways, sadly.Gotta eat more. Gotta eat more frequently.
Do you like spicy food? How spicy is too spicy?
Yes, very much so.Too spicy is when it's all heat and no flavor. Middle Eastern cuisines can get me there.I've done ghost pepper wings and those just assault you with heat from the first bite. Almost inedible.
Have you started traveling around your home base to see clients? How’s that going?
Not really. I tend to still fly where I need to be.
Have you ever hookup with an Asian guy in an Asian country? What did you do? How was the experience?
D) Yes, all of the above.China, Japan and Korea.Some of the hookups were in hotel baths/spas (Four Seasons Seoul), others were in more sex-based bathhouses.As a very muscular, tall, Nordic looking guy, Asians either were disgusted by me or very attracted to me. There's still an odd inclusivity in many parts of Asia that Western visitors aren't used to. It why you always need to research where you're going and if it's friendly to outsiders.
How does a fat f*ck wearing a red suit fit inside the Chimney? Explain that sh*t? 🎅
These are valid questions.We cannot always explain magic.
How often do guys turn silent on you after a somewhat promising road to meeting up?
In this business there will always be lookie-loos and guys who kick tires endlessly.In my life, they have their own folder where they're automatically placed when the email comes in.I check this folder once a month, tops.If I think they're just playing games, I block their IP span and never deal with them again.
Guys with a big ego- a turn-on or a turn-off for you?
Guys who rightfully have ego are sexy. Those who put a lot of work into their bodies, or guys who are at the top of their game in other ways. Ego without reason is not sexy at all.
Have you ever had to walk away when you met a client for the first time? What happened?
Once. I was brought to Chicago and the mix of personalities was more of a clash. He thought he was hiring a quiet, pretty object for the weekend... He was mistaken. I ended up leaving in the middle of the night. Quietly packed my stuff and checked into a hotel. Didn't accept payment and was just happy to be away from the situation.