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Last thing you went shopping for?

Last mall visit: Apple Store in Seoul to get my laptop fixed.
Last shopping was Costco because they sell 20 packs of Hanes wifebeaters.

Have you gained weight recently?

I vacillate in water weight upwards of 10 lbs.
In one day, I can go up or down that much and it's not losing or gaining muscle mass.
I tend to stay right in the 215 lbs pocket. At 6'4", that's still considered a little underweight for a muscular, fit guy.

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is everyone in Miami lo IQ? Just drive here and you will get that impression

You go to Miami for many things, but intellect is not one of them.
It's a culture that values objects and the assumption of wealth over almost everything.
Not one of my favorite cities.

You said you came out later in life? How did your family react? Do they know what you do for work now?

Family was fine. I was raised by intellectuals and artists.
Yes, they all know. They've known since the beginning.

Why are r@cist people some of the nicest country folk? Like they will help you out anytime you need it

There is nothing 'nice' about a racist.
Quit humanizing these assholes.
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If you're someone who has colored their hair blonde or a color that requires bleaching, how do you maintain the color? My hair grows relatively fast and is dark. In order to keep the blonde, I would have to bleach it constantly, which would severely damage it.Getting constant treatments is expensive

Learn to do it yourself. It's not difficult.
Understand the differences between developer strength and invest in good powdered bleach.
Touch up your roots bi-weekly and research what high-lift toner will work best to keep your hair free of orange tones. Use the Olaplex system (or the Sally's cheaper equivalent).
I'm a natural ginger who goes platinum frequently. My hair remains healthy. It takes work, but fuck if I'm going to pay a salon a ton of money to do it for me.

I find it so refreshing how unapologetic you are about yourself! You’re unapologetically sexy, intelligent, and gay? Did it take you time to get this way or were you always? Specifically the gay part, did you always know you were gay and proud of it or did it take time?

I'm honest, that's for sure.
I spent a considerable amount of time trying to be too many things to too many people. I was good at it, but it was fucking tiring and difficult to keep up. I knew that had to change if I wanted to keep working in this business.
Now, what you see is what you get.
I came out a little later in life, having spent a good deal of time dating/fucking girls. Not a gold-star gay here. Not even close.
Proud? I guess. It's not something I really wear on my sleeve, so it's neither here nor there when it comes to feeling 'proud' about being gay. It's a small part of my life, not my entire personality and reason for being.

Do you limit how many clients you see and are you taking on new ones?

Yes. I have a limit and a client group I tend to keep at specific numbers.
New clients for me are dependent on if I think we'll click.
I'm at a point in all of this of always wanting to enjoy my time and never having to feel like I'm working.
If this isn't fun, I'm not into it.
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last great sex?

Today actually... About twenty minutes ago.
4 mi run. Steam after. One guy already there, me coming in naked holding a towel to sit on.
Guy is younger. Fit. Latin. Clearly gay from him looking at my meat when I came in.
Sat on an upper part of the room, across from the guy, legs apart and seeing how long it takes him to notice I'm going from soft to hard pretty quick.
Doesn't even take a nod before he's next to me, choking it down.
He asked what'll get me to cum quickest. I tell him to go hard on my nips while I jerk. I'll let him know when I'm ready.
He does his thing. I do mine.
About a minute later I push his mouth onto my dick and shoot a massive load down his throat. I tell him to 'fucking swallow it.' He does.
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What’s your taste in porn at the moment?

Solo jerking off, oral to load swallowing, gloryhole, locker room shower fucking, armpits/feet/shaved heads.
Condoms in porn are no bueno. I watch porn the way I fuck.

Who is the next Benjamin Nicholas and where is he?

Zero clue.
The business has changed and now it's OnlyFans guys who are doing 'private' meetings.
The old school well-cultured escort is a thing of the past. The client base is still there, but the guys coming into this don't have the background, intellect or common sense to become the next anything.
You can buy an OnlyFans guy for a private meet, sure, but what he can't do is blend in well with different groups, talk about a wide variety of subjects and understand how not to embarass you when you're together in public.
The guys I see don't want someone to train... They want a gentleman who has his shit together, in and out of the bedroom.
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How often do strangers recognize you in public?

Occasionally, but I'm not entirely sure to be honest.
I've had several guys approach me in public places and it's always come across as way too forward.
There's a time and place for everything.

Truth or Dare — Do you tell the truth or take the dare?

If you're playing the game right, truth can be a lot tougher than taking the dare.

Did you watch the solar eclipse anywhere in the path of totality here in San Antonio?

I was in Montreal for the viewing.
They were in the full path and the weather was perfect.

Do you ever get nervous meeting someone new, either a client or someone for fun? How do you get over the nerves?

Traditionally nervous, no.
I worry more about socially connecting with someone. Sex is the easy part.
I cannot deal with willfully stupid people at this point in my life. It's the ultimate dealbreaker.
He can be the best looking guy in the room who wants to go back to his place and get fucked, but if he's ignorant or just offers zero conversational skills, I'd rather go home alone and jerk off.
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Not that it's your job to educate an old man just discovering his sexuality, but can you tell me what the lock and/or chain around your neck mean? Merely decorative or like a modern hanky code?

For show.
I like the weight of it around my neck when I'm fucking and also the thrill of losing the key someday and asking an old guy working at a TruValue if he's got bolt cutters behind the counter.
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