i always joke that i don't have guilt bc i'm not catholic which is true but if i had a show i enjoy that i'm also embarrassed abt liking it'd be my little pony: friendship is magiclike i understand as a 24 y/o man how that could be misconstrued easily but i swear i was the prime demographic when the show was airing :(
do you think trans women and trans men can hold traditional, patriarchy-influenced toxic views about masculinity/femininity? for example, a trans man believing that as a man you should do this, you should be this etc. and a trans woman beliving that a woman should be this and that.
yeah, and i see a lot of trans guys especially fall into that mindset unfortunately
Do you believe a person can have PTSD over once small incident that happened?
brains are funny things and what may be a "small" thing to someone can be a massive, life altering event for someone else.
Do you think it’s a red flag for a girl to have a guy best friend when she’s dating a guy? Why or why not? I personally think it’ll make her bf jealous or lead to mistrust, especially if her guy best friend initiates physical contact with her every so often.
that's a red flag on the bf not her lmfaooo
If someone has "they/she" or "they/he" in their bio, does that mean the person is comfortable with both they/them pronouns and she/her or he/him?
yes, pronouns are usually listed in order of preference as well
do you have any idea where mariah/anacitae went? its been years but was just thinking of them recently
shes popular on tiktok last i saw, i dont know her @ but ive seen her on the 'STEM' tab a lot
Between my friend and me, do you think I'm more entitled to adopt this kitten if we both want it? My financial status is better than theirs, and I can afford to raise a kitten better than them. They live paycheck to paycheck. Wouldn't the cat prefer me?
i don't think it'd a financially sound idea to adopt an animal if you live paycheck to paycheck, but poor people can in fact raise healthy & happy animals lmfao.the cat is gonna prefer the person that they feel cares for them. not like your cat can see your bank account.
If someone accidentally steps on your shoe in a crowded place, do you think it's an overreaction to shove them and insult them if they already said sorry?
that's 100% an overreaction
Can you look at an adult cat and tell if they're female or male?
yeah just look between their legs to s*x them. but just based on face/appearance alone: no.
Do you think that if you adopt two cats at the same time when they are both kittens, the chances are higher that they will get along better as they grow up together?
yeah. shark & laika were technically both kittens (shark was 1.5 years old, but maine coons mature VERY slowly) and theyre both very close almost a decade later.salami & brea are only like... five? months apart? or less? and still play all the time :)
Are you and your ex still cool?
no 👹✨
Is a 29 year old and a 20 year old dating weird?
this obsession over "appropriate" age gaps is so weird to me, and i'm saying that as a victim of a very inappropriate age gap relationship.like so many things matter more and provide context: the people's maturity levels, where they are in life, if there's a pattern in seeking age gaps, etc. a 29 year old and a 20 year old could've met in a plethora of places & formed an organic relationship (college, work, dropping off kids at a daycare, etc.) & could easily be in a similar place in life (entry level job, renting instead of owning a home, living w parents, pursuing higher education, having young children, etc etc) it really doesnt strike me as odd at all.