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Apply this for a while and observe your life ☻
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Is getting married young a good idea?
If you can survive then yes. If your family supports you financially then you should marry. If you both earn, if you have a commitment of sharing responsibilities, then you should marry. I actually prefer young marriages between the age of 16-21, because it forbids a person from sinning. I know a sinner will still sin, but the burden of responsibilities makes a person go straight and not walk on the steps which aren't a part of his/her destiny.
Day by day many elements like of education have made early marriages difficult. Also the expenses of marriage, the society's expectations etc are making it more difficult for a halal Nikkah to happen, thus people are into haram relationships now. If you think that a person isn't mature at the age of 18 then still get them Nikkafied and don't separate them for now. Because when someone will have a thought that he/she is taken then he/she won't indulge into stuff like of gf/bf.
This is the age where we need training the most. We should be trained to survive the fact that love will happen and we should wait, I see so desperation these days to fall in love and have a good spouse. These should've not been the thoughts of youth today. It's so unfortunate that we're not being polished well, our parents have put everything on their children to learn without any guidance. This is where we need Quran the most. You may think that Quran is an old book but it's not, it's so modern than you could ever be. Seek it's light, seek it now!
There are many advantages of getting married at the right age. If a person has to marry at the age of 30, then there are more chances of him falling into haram things to seek what he can't have till he gets of 30. Media and different programs are making our youth so desperate to marry and fall in love, you all know what I'm talking about. So the solution is there, but it's getting rare. May Allah guide us all, especially me, we all sin, we all are bad from one way or another. May Allah help us all.
Day by day many elements like of education have made early marriages difficult. Also the expenses of marriage, the society's expectations etc are making it more difficult for a halal Nikkah to happen, thus people are into haram relationships now. If you think that a person isn't mature at the age of 18 then still get them Nikkafied and don't separate them for now. Because when someone will have a thought that he/she is taken then he/she won't indulge into stuff like of gf/bf.
This is the age where we need training the most. We should be trained to survive the fact that love will happen and we should wait, I see so desperation these days to fall in love and have a good spouse. These should've not been the thoughts of youth today. It's so unfortunate that we're not being polished well, our parents have put everything on their children to learn without any guidance. This is where we need Quran the most. You may think that Quran is an old book but it's not, it's so modern than you could ever be. Seek it's light, seek it now!
There are many advantages of getting married at the right age. If a person has to marry at the age of 30, then there are more chances of him falling into haram things to seek what he can't have till he gets of 30. Media and different programs are making our youth so desperate to marry and fall in love, you all know what I'm talking about. So the solution is there, but it's getting rare. May Allah guide us all, especially me, we all sin, we all are bad from one way or another. May Allah help us all.
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There are too many beautiful and good looking people in this world, just don't fall for everyone. Don't make yourself too weak to fall for every beautiful person you see. Real men and women are those who stay loyal and faithful to one person only throughout their life. Not every beautiful face has a beautiful heart. Protect yourself before it's too late, because once the grip is loosened, there's no way to have it back.
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I know you don't like someone asking you about love related stuff. But still I would like to know your thoughts about what should a person do if he/she falls in love.
Like I said many times, falling in love is good unless you want to fall into a haram relationship, just get married or totally forget about love. If one can't marry then one should wait, pray, keep faith and do halal struggles of bonding. I believe one should never cross the limits created by Islam. Allah above everything! Having feelings for someone other than your spouse, or someone who's already married, is wrong. If you have feelings for anyone who you can't marry then tell yourself that it's just Iblees trying to make you sin, make yourself lose such emotions at any cost!
Love is the name of commitment, loyalty, trust, faith and care. So commitment is very essential and marriage is the name of commitment in Islam. Love someone who loves Allah more than you, only then you can trust him/her. Maybe the person you chose isn't of your type, there can be many exceptions. Allah knows everything and you do not know. Seek His wisdom, blessings and guidance.
Pray often, pray to Allah for helping you make the right decision. He knows who's better for you, don't choose someone for you, let Allah choose. A person should never compromise religion over anyone, no matter how charming they're. If I were you then I'd just pray to Allah that if she's better for me then bring her close to me, and if she isn't then keep her away from me. For Allah anything is possible. If you don't get him/her then don't become thankless, thank Him for His decision, for He may grant you a more better person for your patience. Salam & Peace 🌼
(Quran 2:216) for reference.
Love is the name of commitment, loyalty, trust, faith and care. So commitment is very essential and marriage is the name of commitment in Islam. Love someone who loves Allah more than you, only then you can trust him/her. Maybe the person you chose isn't of your type, there can be many exceptions. Allah knows everything and you do not know. Seek His wisdom, blessings and guidance.
Pray often, pray to Allah for helping you make the right decision. He knows who's better for you, don't choose someone for you, let Allah choose. A person should never compromise religion over anyone, no matter how charming they're. If I were you then I'd just pray to Allah that if she's better for me then bring her close to me, and if she isn't then keep her away from me. For Allah anything is possible. If you don't get him/her then don't become thankless, thank Him for His decision, for He may grant you a more better person for your patience. Salam & Peace 🌼
(Quran 2:216) for reference.
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اللہ ہمیں اپنی اصلاح آپ کرنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے۔ آمین۔
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Either get married to him/her (if you can) or just forget about him/her (if you can't marry). Hanging in the middle is wrong and hazardous.
Ok as you've started to answer questions, I'd like to know the reason why you hate modernism and western culture the most. I know they've no morals and whatsoever, but still I would like to know your thoughts about it.
Who has given us the gender war? West. Who has given us the fashion that violates our culture? West. Who has given us the concept of celebrities? West. Who has given us feminism that disobeys the morals of Islam? West. Who has given us these modern trends of news media? West.
Now if you go in detail of such things you will understand why they did this and what benefit they are getting from it. I said this many years ago "if you want to destroy a nation then destroy their culture, if you want to save a nation then save their culture".
The west has taken your culture away from you, then when the new generation came and lost unity and faith that went away with the culture's destruction, they started attacking us from the inside, they spreaded differences like of Sunni and Shia, they started to spread hatred like racism, they named organizations of terrorism on us and started defaming our religion.
Fashion, liberalism and all these things are the elements of stalling us into useless things. This is a big planned propaganda against the peace of this world and against the Muslim nations. Not just west is involved, many other countries are a big part of it too. It's being predefined since the start. God knows the rest and the best. Wallahu Alam!
Now if you go in detail of such things you will understand why they did this and what benefit they are getting from it. I said this many years ago "if you want to destroy a nation then destroy their culture, if you want to save a nation then save their culture".
The west has taken your culture away from you, then when the new generation came and lost unity and faith that went away with the culture's destruction, they started attacking us from the inside, they spreaded differences like of Sunni and Shia, they started to spread hatred like racism, they named organizations of terrorism on us and started defaming our religion.
Fashion, liberalism and all these things are the elements of stalling us into useless things. This is a big planned propaganda against the peace of this world and against the Muslim nations. Not just west is involved, many other countries are a big part of it too. It's being predefined since the start. God knows the rest and the best. Wallahu Alam!
Why do you not post questions on your wall? What's the purpose of this account?
Bismillah. Let me first answer your second question. The purpose of this account is to inspire, guide, motivate and help those who use this site. I'm also available at other social networking sites, I share the same stuff on all sites so that the audience of each area could benefit themselves as possible.
Now your first question. I use this account for sharing my content only, it is highly difficult to manage mainstream questions of this site with my personalized writings. But now I've added a little exception. I shall answer some selected questions and will keep posting writing content with it too.
I shall Insha-Allah answer those questions which will be related to my field of work. Pls try to send anonymous questions for privacy protection. Salam and Peace ❤
Now your first question. I use this account for sharing my content only, it is highly difficult to manage mainstream questions of this site with my personalized writings. But now I've added a little exception. I shall answer some selected questions and will keep posting writing content with it too.
I shall Insha-Allah answer those questions which will be related to my field of work. Pls try to send anonymous questions for privacy protection. Salam and Peace ❤
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After spending all these days on social media if I count the benefits and losses of using it, then the losses' side will be heavier. I wanted to do some real good through it, I wanted to change others, I used to get depressed after seeing them. But today I feel like I wasn't able to spread change at all, I feel the bad change in myself. While trying to clean all the dirt I got dirty myself. Today I get stressed for what I've become. I'm not a person who I can appreciate. I'm highly disappointed of myself. May Allah guide, forgive, bless and help me. Ameen.
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I just love my hair 😍 It's becoming my routine to give such a weird pose 😅 The truth is, I am a simple human and I don't know how to capture a good photo 😆 Ate my lips, lol 😛
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The governments should be responsible for eradicating begging system from our society. If you provide them a job, even of low income, then at least they can earn with dignity. Many beggars come from the same family, I have observed them, they take shifts around people and cars standing by, they don't feel bad anymore in begging. Governments should enforce them to earn and not beg. There are hundreds of beggars around every corner, it's so disturbing. This must be discouraged.
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Save yourself for the right one 😌
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If I tell you to do something and forbid you from doing something wrong then it doesn't mean that I'm perfect and I never committed such sins. Maybe I have committed them myself but want to prevent others 😇
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There will never be enough words to describe the feelings of someone. There's much more in our hearts than we can express.
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You can't win when you're not happy.
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I just feel so depressed. I had to go outside today to buy some garments for my siblings, I usually wear trousers and t-shirt at home so I quickly rushed and wore a dress shirt and unpressed jeans pant. We went to two different shops and everyone was staring at my pants, I felt a little uncomfortable but embraced my appearance at last. Then we went to the other shop and bought some uniform, I saw people around and got depressed somehow, I wasn't able to stand there, I wasn't feeling comfortable with their dressing and talks, it felt like they don't care about anything except themselves. Then we moved out, covered some distance, my brother parked his car outside a junk-food shop, many beggars came and I started feeling uncomfortable again. Their condition just broke my heart, what will 10rs or 100rs do for them? Today they eat and tomorrow they may not. They have no place to live, no shelter at all, whole families are homeless, they have no proper clothes or anything. Who's responsible for all this? Who should be taking care of them? I usually don't eat when anyone wants to eat in public, I just don't feel comfortable while eating in front of some hungry stomachs, it was hard for me to face it. I can be in their condition one day and I know that nobody will care. Tauba Astagfar-Astagfirullah. I pray for them. But their condition will always make me sad, they are the reason why I can't enjoy life, especially publicly. They're the reason why I don't waste food or money. I didn't own the car, it was my brother's, I didn't even pay for the snacks. But if I would be my brother then I'd not eat. We waste money and food, but we can't give more than 10rs to them! How inhumane we are. I don't earn, I am still a student, still I try to do charity as possible, still I cry for them. But when someone comes and begs, I don’t find the courage to give them... https://plus.google.com/+AhmedmacNorthowed/posts/6kzYeaGpFWm
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Humility is a sign of strength 😌
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I believe that hijab doesn't define the righteousness, purity or Taqwa of someone. I believe that many women who don't wear hijab are more close to Allah and are more pious than many those who wear hijab. I used to enforce people into wearing hijab and covering their bodies, I still do that but not with that intensity. But then I felt that change is not a normal thing for a human, there are many things in Islam which took me a long time to follow, there are many things asked by Islam but I am not able to follow them. I understand now that embracing the change in the adulthood is very difficult, unless you have some great spiritual energy and a constant motivation, still we should keep struggling.
But this doesn't mean that I encourage anyone to not wear hijab, I actually admire those women who sacrifice fashion and modernity for their Lord, I am a great spiritual fan of them. But I ask society to inspire people instead of judging them. Criticism is not always a friendly preacher. We should first judge ourselves and then think of a way to aspire others. Encourage the good, discourage the bad. May Allah guide us all, not just others, but me too. Peace!
But this doesn't mean that I encourage anyone to not wear hijab, I actually admire those women who sacrifice fashion and modernity for their Lord, I am a great spiritual fan of them. But I ask society to inspire people instead of judging them. Criticism is not always a friendly preacher. We should first judge ourselves and then think of a way to aspire others. Encourage the good, discourage the bad. May Allah guide us all, not just others, but me too. Peace!
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It's so difficult to be polite or kind when you are burning from the inside with anger or gloom.
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There are two states when I can really write and generate some inspiring material; either when I'm spiritual, or when I'm feeling down. Extremism leads to many advantageous as well as disadvantageous results.
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Parents should keep check and balance on their children in every matter until they're married. It's included as a responsibility for a parent to guide and monitor his/her children. Excessive internet use is destroying young minds but still parents don't care. Unfortunately my social media circle just revolves around youth too, hence I can't convey them this message. I believe that even I should have not been allowed to use internet freely. No one should be given the liberty (that some people call privacy) to practice things in free-space, unless they're totally independent and married. Maybe one day people will think about it, now they're busy into expanding businesses and providing their children with a better future. Internet and liberty have ruined me too in many ways, hence I want no one else to face things alike me. May Allah help us all. Ameen.
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While you are trying to make things better for others, others are trying to find someone better than you, an alternate of you. #SelfishWorld
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It's just so unfortunate that it took 22 years for the people of Pakistan to find and select a working diamond like Imran Khan. He had to wait and struggle for so long in the background to awake us from our sleeps. Our nation slept continuously for the last 22 years. He still didn't stop. May Allah give him the chance to prove himself and keep him in his protection.
#ImranKhan #Pakistan #PrimeMinister
#ImranKhan #Pakistan #PrimeMinister
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Travelled to Sialkot (my old city) on this Eid to meet and greet my relatives.
Eid Mubarik to everyone in advance! 💕
Eid Mubarik to everyone in advance! 💕
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