I prefer cooler temperatures and lots of blankets (i.e., cozy conditions), quiet or as close to quiet as possible and complete darkness (therefore no tv ever and very rarely any music), my window/s open in summer and cracked in winter, I'm not preferential on the door situation in my own house unless we have guests in which case I'll leave it closed, and I prefer to be alone only because I'm a bed hog so if I had a huge bed it wouldn't matter as much. Although if it's my partner sharing the bed with me I don't mind as much because I like snuggles even at the sacrifice of being able to sleep spread eagle.
Like almost never? I think in the past year or two Iāve spoiled myself with two whole haircuts lol. Before that it had been at least 3 years since my last haircut.
Sharing personal experiences youāve had with another person isnāt gossip if it actually happened to the person sharing the experiences imo š¤·āāļø and when numerous people have had the same or similar negative experiences with the same person, that seems pretty unlikely that itās just gossip imo š¤·āāļø and itās usually the ones who arenāt actually truly being defamed that throw a public hissy fit imo š¤·āāļø
Moreover, if people can post reviews about restaurants and other businesses why canāt we post reviews about people too? As long as itās not clearly just shitposting or revenge posting, who cares? Could help you find your perfect match for all you know lmao.
Attention/support on a personal level. Iāve gotten a lot better about asking for help or support with like work or stuff around the house but on a personal level if I just need someone to talk to and Iām really struggling I have a really hard time saying that. Iāll go as far as asking if someone is available to hang out and if theyāre not I just pretend like thatās fine and Iām not totally dying because theyāre the only person I feel comfortable enough to rely on in the few instances where I will admit to needing a shoulder to lean on.
This morning tbh. I havenāt been sleeping well and I think this morning was the first time in well over a week that I slept fairly well, but I walked into the bathroom and had the darkest circles under my eyes. I swear those SOBs take forever to catch up. Like god forbid they show up when Iām actually not sleeping well, no no, they show up when I start catching up on my sleep hahah
At this point in time, just my mom, both my grandfathers, and my mothers oldest aunt.
My mom because sheās my biggest supporter and closest friend and the one person I know I can rely on for anything no matter what. Sheās my favorite person.
My momās dad because heās one of the purest souls Iāve ever met and a genuinely good human who loved me more than anything and I regret not giving him more of my time and my love.
My dadās dad because I think he would be a good one and Iād like to know him in different lives since he passed when I was still young.
My moms aunt because she was genuinely one of the best people I ever knew and I think the world deserves more of her throughout different lives.
Not at this time. None of my actual legit exes I have any interest in, and the one ex fwb I would be super down to have some fun with would go against my personal boundaries so, no lol.
I think Iāve got everything I need, realistically. But I donāt have everything I want. Even realistically lol. I want a house of my own. I want a partner. I want a dog. I want a better paying job. I want a larger circle of close friends and/or a better social life. I want to be happier in general without overthinking everything and over analyzing everything. I donāt have a one size fits all answer to the why/why not but generally it all falls back under the happiness/overall contentedness I feel or want to feel.
Uhhh maybe 3? Snapchat, instagram, Facebook. Iām not sure what else counts as social media from my phone tbh.
I have subtitles/captions on for everything I watch tbh š
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My current job is entirely around answering questions tbh. If more people were self reliant I would literally be out of a job haha
