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I hope I get an urgent help on this please. The thing my ex is threatening me to leak our private photos & asking me for sexual favours for not doing so. I am really afraid to go the police do. Can you offer in other suggestions?
I am very well aware of the fact, that even though seeking help from the police is something anyone would advise you at first (although I wouldn't want you to lose faith in them), it can sometimes turn into a terrible experience due to the slow pace of progression, rigorous inquiry of personal stuff amidst other things.
So what you should do or must do now is take the following course of action :-
A. Gather enough evidence that he is forcibly asking you for a sexual favour in lieu of a private photograph(s); take screen shots of FB chats , whatsapp chats and so on .
2. After building a good mount of evidence, find a good lawyer.
3. Summon your ex-boyfriend& if possible & under comfort level, also his parents, and let the lawyer do the talking. Tell him that you are planning to file a case of prolonged physical & mental abuse, molestation & blackmailing. That will put him in the soup for no less than half a dozen years . If he asks for the evidence , remind him about the pics and the threats of course.
4. If the guy in question (your ex) has got anything to lose at all in this world, this shit will scare the living daylights out of him.
5. The lawyer will negotiate a deal and in the end the guy will know that keeping the pics is worth the thrill of having a few forced encounters with you but - certainly not worth half a dozen years behind bars. He will give up.Who the hell won't!
So what you should do or must do now is take the following course of action :-
A. Gather enough evidence that he is forcibly asking you for a sexual favour in lieu of a private photograph(s); take screen shots of FB chats , whatsapp chats and so on .
2. After building a good mount of evidence, find a good lawyer.
3. Summon your ex-boyfriend& if possible & under comfort level, also his parents, and let the lawyer do the talking. Tell him that you are planning to file a case of prolonged physical & mental abuse, molestation & blackmailing. That will put him in the soup for no less than half a dozen years . If he asks for the evidence , remind him about the pics and the threats of course.
4. If the guy in question (your ex) has got anything to lose at all in this world, this shit will scare the living daylights out of him.
5. The lawyer will negotiate a deal and in the end the guy will know that keeping the pics is worth the thrill of having a few forced encounters with you but - certainly not worth half a dozen years behind bars. He will give up.Who the hell won't!
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Hi Abhi, so i really like this girl. It seems that she likes me back. In fact, we had come very close to sex one night but she considers me a friend & says the same but i want a relationship with her? please make me get outta her friendzone.
How to get out of the friend zone? Well, she didn't put you in the friend zone. You put her in the girlfriend zone and she said no. She made out with you but, for whatever reason, didn't find you interesting enough to want to continue dating. That is, her very personal choice.
By the way, I don't really believe in any such a thing as "friend zone". There are friends and there are lovers and the space in between is "I don't fancy you"!
By the way, I don't really believe in any such a thing as "friend zone". There are friends and there are lovers and the space in between is "I don't fancy you"!
Why are the good guys so difficult to be found nowadays?
The other day, I was in the grocery store and bought three loaves of bread that had colorful packages and well-written marketing flyers, but after I came back home, I realized that they didn't taste good. Is all the good-tasting bread gone?
Good guys DO exist. Just as the color of the packaging and the writing in the marketing flyers has nothing to do with what a loaf of bread tastes like, the things in a guy you are looking at, have nothing to do with whether or not someone will be faithful to you.
What you should be looking at is, whether they have integrity, whether they keep their word even if they can gain something by breaking it, whether they respect other people's boundaries, and whether they are kind and compassionate even to people they do not have anything to gain from.
Good guys DO exist. Just as the color of the packaging and the writing in the marketing flyers has nothing to do with what a loaf of bread tastes like, the things in a guy you are looking at, have nothing to do with whether or not someone will be faithful to you.
What you should be looking at is, whether they have integrity, whether they keep their word even if they can gain something by breaking it, whether they respect other people's boundaries, and whether they are kind and compassionate even to people they do not have anything to gain from.
I have noticed that when it comes the looks vs personality debate, most girls prefer the latter. Why & how does it matter the most?
The answer to this particular question lies in my following question - "Why on earth would a sane person want to spend her life with someone who is not pleasant to be with?"
Do you think people can have accidental sex? i am asking 'coz i had one recently & i really wanna seek an opinion on it...it was that i was really high .
To be brutally honest about this particular concept of accidental sex, in my opinion & experience, people say sex is an "accident" when exactly two things are true:
A. The sex is not planned in advance; and B. They don't want to take responsibility for having sex.
For example, people caught cheating will often say the sex is "accidental." People who go home with that cute something something they met at the nightclub and have sex will sometimes say the sex is "accidental."
You accidentally had sex when you were high? No. You might not have planned to, but you still chose to put yourself in an altered state in a situation where sex was possible, and then you chose while in that altered state to do the deed.
When you say that the sex was "accidental", you actually mean "I chose to have sex but I don't want to take responsibility for it."
In fact, I believe, you shouldn't even date or have sex with any person who describes past sexual experiences as "accidental." When you can't even take responsibility for your sexual choices how can you be trusted to take care of your sexual health or to keep your word in sexual matters? Well, have the guts at least to accept it.
A. The sex is not planned in advance; and B. They don't want to take responsibility for having sex.
For example, people caught cheating will often say the sex is "accidental." People who go home with that cute something something they met at the nightclub and have sex will sometimes say the sex is "accidental."
You accidentally had sex when you were high? No. You might not have planned to, but you still chose to put yourself in an altered state in a situation where sex was possible, and then you chose while in that altered state to do the deed.
When you say that the sex was "accidental", you actually mean "I chose to have sex but I don't want to take responsibility for it."
In fact, I believe, you shouldn't even date or have sex with any person who describes past sexual experiences as "accidental." When you can't even take responsibility for your sexual choices how can you be trusted to take care of your sexual health or to keep your word in sexual matters? Well, have the guts at least to accept it.
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Is it still good to be a "gentlemen" in today's world? Do you think we should have chivalry for girls & do girls actually prefer such a person?
The word "Women" describes some 3.5 billion people you know.
You can find any and every conceivable answer in that group: women who love to have doors opened for them; women who despise it; women who like it at times and not at others; women who are conflicted; women who wish they were at home eating a slice of pizza.
So, do women like guys that are "gentlemanly" ? It varies depending on the girl. Having said that, people like people who are considerate.If you ask my very personal opinion, chivalry is not something you should do just for the girls you are with and/or dating. In fact, I would open a door for a guy too If I get there before him or I might even let a girl open it since girls are as much strong as my own self. I believe, if you do all these things forwomen,but you won't do them for men, then yes, you are behaving in a way that is sexist. Benevolent sexism is still sexism. I will give up my seat in public transport to the infirm and the elderly, but I think it would be condescending and sexist to give up my seat to a woman, unless she falls in the 'infirm/elderly' category.
Pulling out the chair for your date when you go out for dinner is just good manners, just like pouring her drink before pouring your own. Decency is decency. It is not sex-specific however.
You can find any and every conceivable answer in that group: women who love to have doors opened for them; women who despise it; women who like it at times and not at others; women who are conflicted; women who wish they were at home eating a slice of pizza.
So, do women like guys that are "gentlemanly" ? It varies depending on the girl. Having said that, people like people who are considerate.If you ask my very personal opinion, chivalry is not something you should do just for the girls you are with and/or dating. In fact, I would open a door for a guy too If I get there before him or I might even let a girl open it since girls are as much strong as my own self. I believe, if you do all these things forwomen,but you won't do them for men, then yes, you are behaving in a way that is sexist. Benevolent sexism is still sexism. I will give up my seat in public transport to the infirm and the elderly, but I think it would be condescending and sexist to give up my seat to a woman, unless she falls in the 'infirm/elderly' category.
Pulling out the chair for your date when you go out for dinner is just good manners, just like pouring her drink before pouring your own. Decency is decency. It is not sex-specific however.
How do I find my dream girl? 😛
Before I begin, l want you to imagine a scenario. Suppose your dream girl was standing right in front of you. She looks just like you want her to look like. She has all the characteristics and qualities you crave for. She is, in every way, your fantasy girl. Standing right there!
Now let me ask you a simple question, why wouldSHEwant to be withyou?
What qualities do YOU have that would be attractive and interesting to such a girl? If she were standing right in front of you, and there were a dozen other guys also standing there, why would she pickYOU?
If you can't answer that question, then that's where I would start. The best way I know of to find a girlfriend who has the qualities you want is to be a person who that girl would find attractive & would admire.
You want a girlfriend who's smart and bold? Be smart and bold. You want a girlfriend who's honest & trustworthy? Prioritize developing honesty and integrity in yourself. You want a girlfriend who is confident and secure, not jealous, controlling and overly dominating? Become someone who is confident and secure.
Now let me ask you a simple question, why wouldSHEwant to be withyou?
What qualities do YOU have that would be attractive and interesting to such a girl? If she were standing right in front of you, and there were a dozen other guys also standing there, why would she pickYOU?
If you can't answer that question, then that's where I would start. The best way I know of to find a girlfriend who has the qualities you want is to be a person who that girl would find attractive & would admire.
You want a girlfriend who's smart and bold? Be smart and bold. You want a girlfriend who's honest & trustworthy? Prioritize developing honesty and integrity in yourself. You want a girlfriend who is confident and secure, not jealous, controlling and overly dominating? Become someone who is confident and secure.
Hi abhi, my problem is that i don't get enough independence in my relationship. my gf always demands to know what i am doing in advance...in fact, i have to tell her before i choose to do anything. how do i cope with this issue? pls hlp
Personal space is your "bubble" - the space you place between yourself and others. This invisible boundary becomes apparent only when someone bumps or tried to enter your bubble. Well, I do not intend to be all philosophical but that should explain it's importance. Now coming to you, what you do is set a boundary. You say that you have the right to make decisions on your own, and you will not allow her to make your choices for you. You explain GENTLY that her request is unhealthy, that need for control is a symptom of an emotional abuser, and if she feels insecure or threatened there are healthier ways to deal with those feelings.
And you accept that setting a boundary might end the relationship. If it does, then the relationship was unhealthy, perhaps even abusive. You accept, though this can be hard, that being alone is preferable to being in an unhealthy, dysfunctional relationship. I wish you good luck.
And you accept that setting a boundary might end the relationship. If it does, then the relationship was unhealthy, perhaps even abusive. You accept, though this can be hard, that being alone is preferable to being in an unhealthy, dysfunctional relationship. I wish you good luck.
Is it very difficult to attract girls? how to become an expert at attracting girls?
You do that by not behaving any differently around girls than around guys. Talk to girls like they are people, not like they are aliens or strange magical creatures or things you want to possess. Listen to girls like they are people, not like they are strange human-shaped Martians who speak in some bizarre code that you have to figure out. So, the easiest, most direct way I have ever found to being a master at attracting girls is simply to treat girls like they are people. I'd add more, but that's really the heart of it....really. It really is that simple.
You might wonder, if it's so simple as I say, why there aren't a lot more guys who are good at attracting girls. To be very honest, that's something even I've found hard to figure out. But that definitely makes me come to a conclusion that you guys raise the bar so high that you forget to do even the essential & regular things. The bar really is not that high, and yet, it astonishes me how many people can't seem to rise to that hurdle.
You might wonder, if it's so simple as I say, why there aren't a lot more guys who are good at attracting girls. To be very honest, that's something even I've found hard to figure out. But that definitely makes me come to a conclusion that you guys raise the bar so high that you forget to do even the essential & regular things. The bar really is not that high, and yet, it astonishes me how many people can't seem to rise to that hurdle.
Hi, I really liked your crush & love related answer. Could you tell me how to know when it's love & when crush though?
You tell yourself a story about the other person. They have no input to the story. Aren't aware of it. It's entirely in your head. This is crush.
Being in a love is a story you & another person are creating.....together.
Being in a love is a story you & another person are creating.....together.
Why are honest people screwed first?
Straight trees are chosen first for cutting.
How to become successful with very minimal effort?
The only place where success comes before work is in dictionary.
Why do u most guys lick ur lips before speaking?
To lubricate the lies.
TRUE STORY?
When you can tell your story & it doesn't make you cry, you know you have healed.
Confess something that's been on your mind for a while now
Dear Samsung, please also start selling denims that can accommodate your smartphones.
Bitter Truth?
You know your life is changed when "let's meet & plan" changes to "let's plan & meet".
Hi Abhi, I rly need ur hlp on this plz. I hav a real crush on this girl but she is dating another guy atm. But i really want to date her anyway. Shud i ask her out?
Interesting question, first of all. I said interesting as this scenario is something many of us may come across in our respective lives but not sure how to proceed with it.
Well, Let's look at it this way:
1. You ask, she says yes. This lets you know that she might just date other guys too while she dates you because after all, that's what she would be doing to the guy she's dating now.
2. You ask, she says no. You look arrogant because you knew she was already seeing someone but you asked anyway as if you thought you're so amazing that she'll want to cheat on the other guy.
3. You say something like "If you were single, I'd ask you out."
This gives her information. It lets her know you're attracted to her but that you respect her current dating status. You look courteous and dignified and if things don't work out with the other guy, you're right there looking attentive and interesting.
So now, you take the call.
Well, Let's look at it this way:
1. You ask, she says yes. This lets you know that she might just date other guys too while she dates you because after all, that's what she would be doing to the guy she's dating now.
2. You ask, she says no. You look arrogant because you knew she was already seeing someone but you asked anyway as if you thought you're so amazing that she'll want to cheat on the other guy.
3. You say something like "If you were single, I'd ask you out."
This gives her information. It lets her know you're attracted to her but that you respect her current dating status. You look courteous and dignified and if things don't work out with the other guy, you're right there looking attentive and interesting.
So now, you take the call.
Hey abhi, I was searching the internet for best gift ideas on mother's day but nothing really excited me much. So can you please just help me out. I know you sure can. So please.
Send her a note that reads "Thank you for everything, mom. I wouldn't be what I am today (student of a renowned uni/doctor/engineer/lawyer/singer) without all your love & support". I am sure that will put a genuine curve on her lips. 😃
I believe, it's not really about how exquisite and/or expensive the gift is; it's about how much love you put into it.
I believe, it's not really about how exquisite and/or expensive the gift is; it's about how much love you put into it.
Why my bf didn't text me yet? 😌
1) He's busy with studies & stuff
2) You didn't send him nudes
3) He has beer + football
4) Not even a day yet. You're insecure.
2) You didn't send him nudes
3) He has beer + football
4) Not even a day yet. You're insecure.
Does likes on this social sites actually matter in true sense?
Your worth is not measured in likes, comments, notes or followers; but in your ability to love, keep comments to yourself, take note & lead.
Like if you agree 😁
Like if you agree 😁
What turns you on/turns you off?
Turn on is when people smell good & are hot. Sometimes spicy. Wrapped in tinfoil. Oh wait, are actually burritos.
What do people say about you?
Girl: So I hear you're quite popular on ask.fm
Me: Haha. Yes.
Girl: So you love answering questions?
Me: Well....kinda. You can say so.
Girl: Great! You will love my parents!
Me: Haha. Yes.
Girl: So you love answering questions?
Me: Well....kinda. You can say so.
Girl: Great! You will love my parents!
What are your thoughts on long-distance relationships?
When two hearts are meant for each other,
no distance is too far,
no time is too long,
no other love can break them apart.
no distance is too far,
no time is too long,
no other love can break them apart.
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