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"Somewhere In Time"
Author: Richard Mattheson, Character: Elise McKenna, Actress: Jane Seymour

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The man of my dreams is almost faded now. The one I have created in my mind. The sort of man each woman dreams of in the deepest most secret reaches of her heart. I can almost see him now before me. What would I say to him, if he were really here? Forgive me, I’ve never known this feeling. I’ve lived without it all my life. Is it any wonder then I fail to recognize you? You brought it to me for the first time. Is there anyway that I can tell you how my life has changed. Anyway at all, to let you know what sweetness you have given me. There is so much to say and I can’t find the words except for these: I love you. That is what I say to him if he were really here.

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"The Man Of My Dreams" - Somewhere In Time
https://youtu.be/yk8Lku4Ht-g

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1-The Paradox Of Choice: It shows hows you how today’s vast amount of choice makes you frustrated, less likely to choose, more likely to mess up, and less happy overall, before giving you concrete strategies and tips to ease the burden of decision-making.

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2- The one Thing: (a) Not everything matters equally, (b) Multitasking is a lie. (c) Discipline is a result of habit. (d) Willpower is a finite resource. (e) Big is bad

3- Meet Your Happy Chemicals: Know what happiness is actually. A MUST READ.

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4-Unlearn: Discard old beliefs or approaches that are no more working and replace them with new ones

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5-Grit:Talent + effort = skill. And skill x effort = achievement. Effort counts twice — it builds skill and it makes skills productive

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6- A Long Walk to freedom: An autobiography of Nelson Mandela, detailing his ascent from an anti-apartheid activist and Robben Island-jailed terrorist, to ANC leader and a cultural icon.

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7-Atomic habits: In this book author explains how small small changes can give huge results over time and habits are not formed overnight but develops gradually

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These are books i have read and found worth sharing.

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🚀 As a young teen I wanted so much to be an author of paperback science-fiction. As I got older more and more adults discouraged me as attempting to make a career out of it. By the time I was doing my O Levels, 16+, and CSEs at school (now GCSEs) I was at a loss as what job I was going to do when I left school.
✍️ If only Creative Writing courses and degrees were available then! (If they were, nobody pointed me in that direction, but I don’t think they became a ‘thing’ until many years later.)
📚 Anyhow I wrote about 22 unpublished novels, plus a plethora of short stories and some Roleplaying games and FightingFantasy-style game-books over the years without seeing anything published other than a few niche magazine articles here and there.
🐺 But eventually WildWolf accepted an ebook anthology of short fiction, so I did finally get *something* published in the end!

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I’m of the opinion that to earnestly declare oneself a writer is a step away from becoming a published author. No, it hasn’t worked for me thus far, but the point still stands…

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My dream parallels yours, and while I do concede that writing is an incredibly difficult craft to market (and not merely a difficult craft in itself), the value of your work really does depend on your own estimation of it. There was a time when I wondered if I possess the talent to write fiction – which is really to say: do I possess the ability to entertain readers? – but nowadays my energy is spent more on wondering if I possess the ability to put in the seemingly gargantuan effort it takes to produce something I deem worthy of marketing. Thus, nowadays I’m concerned mostly with developing the motivation to put pen to paper, as it were, of going through the actual process of presenting my work to prospective publishers, of dealing with all the rejections and the ’helpful critiques’; the suggestions such as “we would like your dystopian sci-fi novel down to 500 words”, and all other such internal, technical communications and means of marketing.

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It’s an old cliche, but I do sincerely believe that self-belief aided by the reliably impervious shield of good, old-fashioned stoicism really is the optimal method here. And although your work may or may not be the best, it is, nevertheless, better than some, and you could safely assume that it is infinitely better than that which is *not* written (or recorded, painted, programmed, sculpted, crafted, or whichever creative outlet may apply to you, dear reader).

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I beg to differ on having to compartmentalize love in just 5 ways. Out of curiosity I did the test and my test scores were equally distributed (give or take). Not everyone wants to get a gift, just because their language is ‘receiving gifts’ , at times they might just want an affirmative statement. For me love doesn’t have boundaries and one must go all the way out to do things that they derive happiness from doing for their partner. The language of love or the feeling of love is the greatest power and occurrence in the whole universe.
To some people ‘love' is just a feeling found among couples. But the fact is that love exists among every two people who are socially or emotionally attached to each other. Be it brother and sister, brother and brother, sister and sister, parents and children, among friends and so on. That is becoz without the feeling of love, no two persons can bind with each other. Now a sudden thought might be running in your mind, whether there is love among enemies? Well I would say that there is love among enemies too. Infact, the more enemical you are the more love would there be, becoz you think about your enemies even more than you think about your friends. No matter what you are doing, you may for once forget your friends, but never your enemies. Coming to the point, love is a feeling where you care about someone, you have a place for them in your life, you can understand their emotions, their feelings, when you think that you feel nice with somebody, when you want someone to share thoughts with you, it's all about love. The whole world is filled with love, to be more precise, love is in the air. Wishing you a beautiful and lovely life. Its important to understand what makes your spouse feel loved and what doesn’t. A misfire in this area can make you feel like you’re constantly going above and beyond and they never appreciate it, while they feel that you don’t really see them or recognise their needs.
You don’t need to read the actual Love Languages book or know the theory propounded by the author, but you do need to recognise your spouse’s needs and how they might be different from yours. Now I can tell my wife what she means to me and how much I love her until I'm blue, it won't mean much to her. I can spend a fortune on little gifts with the same result. I can grab her but whenever I walk past her with the same result. But if I spend some quality time with her, she is the happiest person. Gifts, compliments, and sometimes physical touch. Idk why I have these but I feel good whenever I do something nice for someone I love.

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All valid points.
What annoys me are the questions that sound like they were written by a 5 year old when I know the author is probably 16+ years of age and is functionally illiterate.

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When I finally leave askfm it will be for that reason. Most of the proficient writers abandoned askfm when they implemented their reporting mechanism and heavy handed censorship. I am hanging on by a thread because I feel that the advice I offer helps young people. But with that said, the questions being submitted lately are horrid and not worth responding to. Here are a few examples:

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- What color are your underwear?
- When did you lose your virginity?
- I love you and want to live the rest of my life with you. (and it is broadcast to thousands of people)
- Do you prefer panties or thongs?

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Notice that every question I listed does not illuminate, does not educate, does not inform. They are all useless and insulting questions that serve no functional purpose.

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1.I want to say we will not find the author of this message….
but i want to …. If i wouldn’t have received this message today…. i was thinking …. need answer or not ….
I would ignored it…. I don’t think anonymous that you my E…. ( don’t have that feel….)
but i will answer turning to him….because apparently there’s some kind of connection….
and he will read my answer….!

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I want to say stop all this bluff….

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Like you are sleeping with different girls in Paris…. and also “worn-out”
married women supposedly your are their lover…. and they come fly to spend night with you on Valentine’s day…..

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Yesterday 14.02.22 i was at home in Msk…. you was in Paris…. i don’t know with whom…. You and me have never met or seen each other yet …. but i felt how you all day and night thinking about me…. how you love me…. why we are not spending this Valentine’s day together…. and i believe that author of this message could be you…. Edo….
and you start love me more that before….
for me so sad that i have to talk about personal matters here across the world….
i get messages here…. yesterday i sleep with your love…. before a lot of another messages….((((
i’ll “open “ one secret
when i said something i wrote something…. somewhere about women …. i checked again whether you could hear me or read what no one has read turns out to be yes….
after how my mom leave me you hear or read about another women…?! yes no….
because i understand everything….
and
i’m not predictor of someone fate …. I write only my own….
Need already understand that ….already completely tired about ….
To all who tracking my insta page …. especially women who think they are heroines…. everything all right with your head…?!
The heroine of my story only one me Inès….!

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it’s my taste…. my dreams…. my wishes….
all your lives in you and your pages …. and life’s
this is already schizofrenia….
when woman to low social responsibility….
try to be like me …..
in real life i meet a lot of girls…. who says i want to be like you Inna….
i always say no one could not to be me…. me it’s me you it’s you….
and young girls understand that….
of course if you are in age ….ugly and whole your life covertly traded body it’s not easy to understand….
but it’s their problem….

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me i it’s me you it’s you….

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and you my Edo…. must do that all my dreams come true….

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not
all this bluff ….

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hmm’ always pity for money and attention spent on others girls and women….(

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Why Wokeism? --Part 2--

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When Americans think of the Holocaust, we picture strong Nazi thugs beating and murdering helpless Jews. We think thousands of supporters cheering Hitler and goose-stepping in massive parades. Few Americans know that less than twenty years before, most of those Germans saw themselves as helpless and persecuted victims.

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A new generation of German scholars are just starting to explain this. One of them is Götz Aly, author of Why the Germans? Why the Jews? Envy, Race Hatred, and the Prehistory of the Holocaust. Aly gives these two short and logical explanations as to what happened.

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First, long before Hitler, most Germans embraced a fake view of their history and themselves. Although Germany by 1900 was one of the richest and most powerful countries in the world, most Germans still saw themselves as weak, persecuted, and disrespected. They were obsessed with memories of when their country was too divided to defend itself, and often invaded and occupied by powerful neighbors. They were offended when the Wagner operas they adored were ridiculed by critics in London and Paris.

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Second, Götz Aly explained that by the early 1900s, most Germans had thoroughly embraced the socialist ideas of Karl Marx. Aly wrote that this socialism made virtues of the deadly sins of envy and theft. Socialism accepts the premise that if people think they have too little, they have the right to believe that others have too much. Therefore, coveting what others have and using government to steal it are no longer violations of the Ten Commandments. They are instead just demands for “reparations” or “redistribution.”

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The TIK History video “National Socialism Was Socialism” makes that same point. According to TIK History, Marxism is but one of many varieties of socialism. However, all socialists to some degree blame a small “unsocialized” group for the problems of their society. They all weaken or eliminate them and steal some or all of their stuff. Some socialists are more extreme than others. Revolutionary France killed its priests and aristocrats in 1792 and took their stuff. Communists in Russia did that to land and business owners in 1919. The Communist regime in China did it after World War II.

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According to TIK History, it was politically easier for German “National Socialists” (Nazis) to select Jews rather than all rich business and landowners, as their “unsocialized” group to attack and rob.

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These new German scholars show that Hitler’s National Socialists closely followed the course of most socialist and Communist regimes. Everything worked well until they ran out of other people’s money. When Hitler’s National Socialists spent all the money they had robbed from Germany’s Jews, they had to invade and steal from other countries.

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